Originally posted by: momsmad
this is my first time on this site. I just wanted to let everyone know that I am an angry person most of the time due to my husband always getting his way and never letting me do things I need to do to not be such an angry person. I tried a lot to get him to freakin listen but nothing ever works cause he's so selfish. anyone have any ideas? and no, i won't go to oprah or maury so don't be mean and tell me this topic shouldn't be on here. I have seen people ask for opinions on what to wear and stupid stuff like that ....
It is NOT your husbands fault because your angry.
YOU ARE angry because YOU choose to be angry.
No One can make you act an certain way without your permission.
If your husband clearly proves that he isn't willing to change, then you have to ask yourself this:
Are you willing to put up with his behavior?
If not, then you'll have to consider leaving this marriage.
His actions are speaking quite loud if your ready to listen to it.
Ignorance isn't an excuse.
The bottom line is this: Take responsiblity for your life and don't blame your husband for YOUR behavior.
He's just being himself.
Either tolerate it or leave.