You really think Micron is telling Intel what to do?
Really??
OF COURSE!
Here's how it goes:
Intel says: Hey, guys... We need you to manufacture RDRAM. Don't worry, we'll help you refit your fabs.
Micron, Infineon and Hynix go to intel and say: "We're not interested in selling RDRAM, Sorry. We don't want Rambus to control the memory market."
Intel says: "But guys.... we need memory for the P4!"
Micron, Infineon and Hynix say: "Sorry, we don't want to pay the royalties. We're going to make DDR. Rambus needs to go away."
So what does Intel do? Oh, hey, thanks for the nice segue, below....
You really think JEDEC is a coherent body with a solid consensus, and that Intel couldn't buddy up to any one of them?
OF COURSE NOT!

Micron and Hynix were the biggest at the time, and they wouldn't play nice. So, they play "Meet the Competition".
Intel goes to Samsung and NEC, and refit their fabs for Rambus technology. Now, since they don't have the HUGE companies like Hynix and Micron to work with, they have initial demand problems.
Since they couldn't meet initial demand (new technology, poor initial yields, etc), RDRAM cost $1200 per 128MB of PC600! (remember those days?)
Now, it gets better. Suddenly, these few companies who are making money on RDRAM realize something... "Hey, we could do a lot of damage to those DDR guys who aren't manufacturing RDRAM". So they continue to make RDRAM while quietly lowering prices on SDRAM, and eventually DDR. While they start losing BIG money on DDR, they're able to subsidize their losses with profits from RDRAM... Ain't THAT a hoot!
So now, the one memory technology Micron, Infineon and Hynix have to STAND by and DEFEND in court is the one technology that's killing their corporations. It's hilarious to watch, really. Day after day, DRAM prices edge lower, the SDRAM/DDR-only companies lose more money, and the companies who are smart enough to make RDRAM (Samsung, and now Elpida) make money... Well, how you like THEM apples!
Sure micron is happy to hate RDRAM but I somehow doubt that the JEDEC members that were busily paying rambus royalties were actively looking towards its destruction.
Again, DDR is a GREAT tool to thin out the dram business! It's going to FORCE COMPANIES OUT OF BUSINESS! It's already KILLING the BIG THREE in DDR.
Now, think about the 600+ people who were LAID OFF at Micron today as a result of DDR being used a tool of their demise. All over a 1.5% royalty on RDRAM (3% on DDR/SDRAM). Shame shame shame.
the biggest threat to "team DDR" is that it's not a team, it's a bunch of companies in competition who happen to dislike rambus, but who are working at cross-purposes. Since they're in stiff competition with themselves, they can't very well sell DDR at a high enough price to make any money.
Hey, competition is great... I would LOVE to see another company develop a newer, faster technology that can compete with Rambus, and any of its other hundreds of patents it already has filed. So far, no one has been developing technology faster.
Rambus makes money because it has a unique product. If one company "owned" DDR and licensed it out to micron et al, that company would probably be making money too.
One company DOES own DDR. That company is: Rambus.
$1B of back royalties are at stake for SDRAM alone as a result of Infineon losing in court. Infineon has to settle now, and it's widely anticipated that they will do so. If they go to the supreme court, they risk having to pay TRIPLE damages that Rambus would be entitled to.
If they go back to trial, they cannot win because Rambus has earned back the right to use the initial Markman ruling in the supreme court, should this case wind up there. There's no way Rambus can lose now, since the raw fact is: Rambus owned the patents to SDRAM (and conversely, DDR) since 1990. The markman ruling is now re-validated and proves this, the fraud ruling was overturned, Infineon has no case, end of story.