Not that it's a crucial question to answer for this, but if you want to be sure what the aspect ratio of the screen is, you could measure the width and the height of the screen and we can figure it out.
If it looks almost square, then it's a 4:3 screen
If it looks like a very wide rectangle, then it's 16:9
If you have a 4:3 screen (I'm assuming you're actually shooting on a screen and not a blank wall), then you'd want to get a new screen along with the projector since 16:9 is generally the way to go now. (I say generally meaning either 16:9 or the even wider 2.4:1)
This is a neat tool that lets you do comparisons of different aspect ratios and how big the final images will be.
http://tvcalculator.com/
I posted that before so you could compare 82" to 100", but I didn't take into account telling you about different aspect ratios.
For example, if your current room has a 100" 4:3 aspect ratio screen, you can plug that in under "TV1"
You can use the drop down menu on top to change it to 3 displays total.
For "TV2" you can represent the DLP which would be 82" 16:9 aspect ratio
For "TV3" you could put in whatever you want for a new projector. Maybe put in a 100" 16:9 aspect ratio for example.
(No need to mess around with the pixels wide / pixels high part)
Once you have those set up, you can click on the different "Source Image" boxes to see the actual image size of different source material.
If there's a lot of 4:3 aspect ratio source content that you'll be viewing, then going with a 16:9 screen is going to produce a much smaller image. With widescreen sources, the difference in actual image size is not as dramatic.
I don't know if this is useful for you, but it's a good way to visualize how different screen sizes and aspect ratios compare to one another.
A 100" screen with seating 9' back and 14' back is very close to what I have going on, but I'm using a 16:9 aspect ratio screen.
The front row is just a little bit too big for me, but I've gotten used to it.
When my parents came over to watch stuff, they decided they wanted to use the back row and liked it better back there.
Does your husband like the front row or the back row with the projector as it is now?
Would it be possible to shelf mount or stand mount a projector in the back of the room?
My room is not a model for wire management or organization, but just for example:
Please ignore the temporary orange power cable (along the right side of the picture) running to my old projector.
I run my cables from the front of the room to the back of the room under rugs, so they're not visible. I also have rugs next to the seating so wires to the surround speakers are not visible either.
After running rear shelf mounted projectors for several years (due to living in rented spaces), I'm pretty happy with how it's been working out. Cable management hasn't been a big concern to me since I've been able to use some rugs fairly effectively to do a very simple wire hiding system. Not as polished as it could be, but it's working on my budget.