New addition to our home

[D1gger]

So my wife decided she just had to get a dog.

She has been intending to get a puppy for about 6 months now, and had been researching breeds and breeders to select the dog she wanted. Well she finally settled on the breed (a havanese) and had pretty much picked out the breeder when she found an listing on Craigslist for someone looking to "re-home" their five year old dog. She went for a visit last Thursday and loves the dog, so I spent the weekend fencing the back yard and she picks up the dog today.

I have never had, or wanted a dog and have made it clear to my wife that the fencing was the end of my commitment to looking after the thing.

I know things will change around the house, such as it will be harder to just decide to take a trip for the weekend and holiday planning will be a pain (there goes our trip to Vegas in June).

My only hope is that I can hide my resentment for the dog so it doesn't just turn around and bite me.
/blog

 

[Jeeebus]

Originally posted by: D1gger
I have never had, or wanted a dog and have made it clear to my wife that the fencing was the end of my commitment to looking after the thing.

quoted for future reminder when you're hunched over picking up a fresh steamer with a plastic bag wrapped around your hand

 

[K1052]

Originally posted by: Jeeebus

Originally posted by: D1gger
I have never had, or wanted a dog and have made it clear to my wife that the fencing was the end of my commitment to looking after the thing.

quoted for future reminder when you're hunched over picking up a fresh steamer with a plastic bag wrapped around your hand

in the cold rain at 1:00 A.M. while his wife sleeps soundly

 

[D1gger]

Originally posted by: K1052

Originally posted by: Jeeebus

Originally posted by: D1gger
I have never had, or wanted a dog and have made it clear to my wife that the fencing was the end of my commitment to looking after the thing.

quoted for future reminder when you're hunched over picking up a fresh steamer with a plastic bag wrapped around your hand

in the cold rain at 1:00 A.M. while his wife sleeps soundly

I'll shoot the dang thing before I pick up it's crap. I made that exceptionally clear to my wife.

 

[paulney]

Awwwww....

I effing hate dog owners who don't pick up after their dog. I'm putting you on my watch list! :|

 

[xboxist]

Why didn't she choose one of the millions of dogs in various shelters that need a home?

 

[Linflas]

Originally posted by: xboxist
Why didn't she choose one of the millions of dogs in various shelters that need a home?

Do you really think this dog will have a great home based on the attitudes expressed by the OP?

 

[ViviTheMage]

ugh a havanese?

that is like a snack, not a dog.

 

[xboxist]

Originally posted by: Linflas

Originally posted by: xboxist
Why didn't she choose one of the millions of dogs in various shelters that need a home?

Do you really think this dog will have a great home based on the attitudes expressed by the OP?

Well, you have a point. But unless the OP is some douchebag who ends up beating whatever dog they get, it will still have a better life than rotting in a cage somewhere.

 

[buck]

Originally posted by: Linflas

Originally posted by: xboxist
Why didn't she choose one of the millions of dogs in various shelters that need a home?

Do you really think this dog will have a great home based on the attitudes expressed by the OP?

:laugh:

 

[OCGuy]

Originally posted by: xboxist
Why didn't she choose one of the millions of dogs in various shelters that need a home?

Oh jesus I knew one of you guys would be in this thread.....

DIAF

 

[xboxist]

Originally posted by: OCguy

Originally posted by: xboxist
Why didn't she choose one of the millions of dogs in various shelters that need a home?

Oh jesus I knew one of you guys would be in this thread.....

DIAF

Go hump a bedpost.

 

[Linflas]

Originally posted by: OCguy

Originally posted by: xboxist
Why didn't she choose one of the millions of dogs in various shelters that need a home?

Oh jesus I knew one of you guys would be in this thread.....

DIAF

Why the hostility? If you love dogs then this really is a valid question. If even one person reading these threads is motivated to go get a dog from the shelter when they decide to get a dog then some good has been done.

 

[James Bond]

Originally posted by: D1gger

Originally posted by: K1052

Originally posted by: Jeeebus

Originally posted by: D1gger
I have never had, or wanted a dog and have made it clear to my wife that the fencing was the end of my commitment to looking after the thing.

quoted for future reminder when you're hunched over picking up a fresh steamer with a plastic bag wrapped around your hand

in the cold rain at 1:00 A.M. while his wife sleeps soundly

I'll shoot the dang thing before I pick up it's crap. I made that exceptionally clear to my wife.

Not possible.

 

[kalrith]

Originally posted by: Linflas

Originally posted by: OCguy

Originally posted by: xboxist
Why didn't she choose one of the millions of dogs in various shelters that need a home?

Oh jesus I knew one of you guys would be in this thread.....

DIAF

Why the hostility? If you love dogs then this really is a valid question. If even one person reading these threads is motivated to go get a dog from the shelter when they decide to get a dog then some good has been done.

I'm not sure if any of the comments in this thread are like this, but some people try to make people feel bad for getting a dog from a breeder and not a shelter, and other people get sick of this kind of treatment. It would be very similar to saying to couple who just had a child of their own, "Why didn't she choose one of the millions of abandoned children in various orphanages that need a home?"

Edit: In other words if his wife wanted a specific, pure-bred dog, then there's nothing wrong with going to a breeder. It's not his wife's fault that there are "millions of dogs in various shelters that need a home," and she shouldn't feel guilty about her decision.

 

[Old Hippie]

You two guys will probably end up being best friends.

 

[D1gger]

Here's a photo of the critter

Chai

 

[GasX]

since when is a Havanese a dog?

 

[GodlessAstronomer]

Link is broken 🙁 Cool name though.

 

[zinfamous]

Originally posted by: Old Hippie
You two guys will probably end up being best friends.

was going to agree with this statement, then I saw the pic.....

 

[buck]

Originally posted by: zinfamous

Originally posted by: Old Hippie
You two guys will probably end up being best friends.

was going to agree with this statement, then I saw the pic.....

ditto

 

[shortylickens]

I was hoping this thread would be about Maine my excellent compatriot Cats.

 

[torpid]

Originally posted by: xboxist
Why didn't she choose one of the millions of dogs in various shelters that need a home?

What's the difference here exactly? Did you misread the OP and think that they bought a dog from a breeder? That's not the case (seemingly)... it was from a current owner looking to give up the dog. Which is how shelters get dogs for the most part.

 

[PlasmaBomb]

Originally posted by: paulney
Awwwww....

I effing hate dog owners who don't pick up after their dog. I'm putting you on my watch list! :|

He is not a dog owner 😉

 

[Azraele]

Regardless of whether you have any involvement with the dog, please remember that the dog has been displaced from a home it has known for years and is in unfamiliar and new surroundings. I understand that this is your wife's dog and not something you want dealings with, but don't give it the impression that you don't want it around.