I don't think you guys are compatible. She just sounds like a control freak and you're obviously not willing to go along with it. I think you need to think about breaking up with her if she's not making you happy. If she's this bad now, it's more than likely just going to get worse if you let her wear you down into going along with her view of the world.
Reminds me of my father, whose legacy I am still trying to shake off. I've got the same problems with being hard-headed and thinking that I'm always right, but I'm getting better, fortunately.
BTW, what is up with all the gibberish symbols sprinkled throughout your post? Is it just me or does anyone else see it?