Never ask me for a favor again!

virtueixi

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This post is also in reference to this thread that I posted earlier.

I was more than happy to help his family that day. However, this morning he instant messages me and say?s that the car is ready (was only a distributor cap, guess he doesn?t know much about cars) and needs me to drop him off to pick it up. I have a busy schedule today, two labs (6 hours) and got back from and 8:20 am class, so I tell him that I might be able to do it, if I get out of my chemistry lab early (2nd lab of term, so I figured I would get out early). The chem. Lab is scheduled to end at 4:45 and my BIO lab starts at 5:20, so I figured that 30-40 minutes each way would be enough time to get there and back in time if I got out early. The first lab started at 12:50 and I finished up at 2:10, so I call him and tell him that I could do it. He brings someone along with him to drive the car back (he doesn?t have license) and needs to follow me back (neither of them know area well). We leave at around 3 and get there around 3:40. He pays the guy ($533 for a distributor cap, rip off). I wait for him about 20 minutes and even check out his car to make sure that they actually did change it. The guy driving follows me, and goes unbelievably slow, I even called them to tell him to get the fvck out the left lane. As we are about 20 minutes away traffic gets thick and I call him, he says he knows his way from there and I say cool, ttyl and head to my dorm (fast). I wasted at LEAST half a tank of gas between today and yesterday and don?t even mention it. I get to lab, all tired from running seeing as how I only got back to campus at 5:05, thx to speed racer behind the wheel. I am expecting a call from him, to let me know everything is cool and to say thanks or whatever. He didn?t call during lab, so afterwards I instant message his roommate to see if everything is cool, he say?s yes. So basically, I go out of my way to help him and he doesn?t even bother to call and say Thank you! I must have spent 4 good hours of my time between yesterday and today! I go out of my way to do this between classes and not even a courtesy call? He is part of a group of friends (really acquaintances) from HS who only call me in college to get a ride. This is fine because they are the biggest god damn herbs and I have met new friends. Man I hope these kids have the sense to never ask me for a favor/ride ever again.

Cliff-
-Help his stranded family.
-Needs me to help get his car next day.
-I offer to help despite inconvience.
-Spend half a tank of gas and 4 hours time and not even a Thank you,
-Never again!
 

MaxDepth

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Do his sister and call it even.

/me feeling like a 19 year old again.
 

Kelvrick

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People are just idiots with no manners. Take my gf's lil bro. I put together a computer for him for his first year at college. Everything is cool, he'll probably be family.

On the day he's supposed to come over so I can show him around the inside of a comp, he calls 3 hours after the meet up time to tell me he's watching a basketball game and it'll be over in an hour. That alone sort of annoys me. Once he shows up, no word to me and starts asking his sister for help with signing up for classes. WTF!

Instead of showing him around, I put on a movie while I part it together.

Fast forward to 2 days later when I help him move in. Both him, and his sister (my gf's little sister with a loser boyfriend) don't have correct directions to his dorms. Good thing I know people who go there, give them a call and show up at his dorm an hour before they do.

A couple days later, I get an IM from him. He asks me if he can exchange his speakers. I ask him why, he'll be charged with a restocking since its not broken. It ends up, he wanted a headphone jack. Something I told him as he was choosing which speakers he wanted that it didn't have. He chose these because they looked better then the ones with treble/bass and headphone jacks on the remote. I tell him just get a 1/8th splitter and hook both of them on to the back of his comp.

He then has the galls to tell me that he doesn't want them both on at the same time. For some reason, turning off the speakers when he wants to use the headphones is too much for him. I tell him such and he replies with how the headphones would be on when the speakers are on. WTF! If your speakers are on, how is sound coming out of the headphones going to make a difference.?!

Along these aim conversations, he would randomly stop talking or put up an away message during our conversation because something would come up with no warning at all. Something like going to eat, or a roommate coming in and talking to him. I b1tch at his sister and she tells me thats just how he is. Their family has just accepted it. God damn.

Ok, end rant for me and back to your story.

EDIT: For more info.

EDIT2: Arggh, now I'm angry all over again at potentially have this loser related to me. If he was my little brother, I woulda given him a smack upside the head to straighten him out. Must be because he has two older sisters. And only a few years older at that.
 

Iron Woode

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A saying you should honour for life:

No good deed goes unpunished.
 

m2kewl

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i gave some chic a ride to the airport and she scratched my paint w/her luggage...

not even a thank you...all i gotta say, live and learn!
 

virtueixi

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Originally posted by: Iron Woode
A saying you should honour for life:

No good deed goes unpunished.

Exactly. Kelvrick demonstrates this point further. Some people are just so oblivious to everyone around them. I didn't even ask him for $12 gas money. I don't mind helping people, but what an @sshole. I am thinking about calling the lead herb and telling them never to call me again.

 

Tremulant

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Just don't help them anymore.

Kelvrick: that sucks. About the IM thing, a lot of my little brother's friends do that too, just at random intervals they put up an away message and come back a few minutes later. It's annoying as hell. I only notice cause my bro complains about it whenever I'm in his room.


And unrelated: UGH. random keys keep sticking. Fvcking iced tea. I've already cleaned the ones that were sticking.. I'll clean them again and hope they stop sticking, otherwise it's a new keyboard for me.
 

sniperruff

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hey never expect people to thank you when you help someone. that is a lesson that i have learned a long time ago.
 

virtueixi

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Originally posted by: sniperruff
hey never expect people to thank you when you help someone. that is a lesson that i have learned a long time ago.

True, that would be expecting too much out of people.
 

Cogman

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Sadly, some people are ungratefull, All I can say is dont let it bother you and dont let it stop you from helping someone else. The world need more people to do thankless acts of kindness. And, if you believe in god, just think of it as Bonus points :)
 

rezinn

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You guys are more than going out of your way to help people who sound mentally challenged. Just stop it. You're letting them get through the world without having to rely on themselves to do anything. If they fail, oh well they can deal with it rather than screwing you over.
 

virtueixi

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Originally posted by: notfred
Karma: He paid $533 for a $4 part and 10 minutes worth of labor.

It's like $50, but yeah I could have even changed it for him! My car runs on coils, coils rule!
 

csyberblue

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Originally posted by: Iron Woode
A saying you should honour for life:

No good deed goes unpunished.

seeing as how this looks like an important quote to remember, I tried to understand it.

Can you explain that quote for me?
 

virtueixi

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Originally posted by: csyberblue
Originally posted by: Iron Woode
A saying you should honour for life:

No good deed goes unpunished.

seeing as how this looks like an important quote to remember, I tried to understand it.

Can you explain that quote for me?

Basically, it's saying that you do a good deed and then the consequences bite you in the @ss.

 

csyberblue

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Originally posted by: virtueixi
Originally posted by: csyberblue
Originally posted by: Iron Woode
A saying you should honour for life:

No good deed goes unpunished.

seeing as how this looks like an important quote to remember, I tried to understand it.

Can you explain that quote for me?

Basically, it's saying that you do a good deed and then the consequences bite you in the @ss.

thanks for clearing that up

^_^
 

mattgyver

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Originally posted by: Iron Woode
A saying you should honour for life:

No good deed goes unpunished.

This has been my experience also. It's gotten to the point that I only tend to go out of my way for good friends or family.

. . . Buncha savages in this town. . .



 

virtueixi

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Originally posted by: yayo
so why is it that you arent telling him how you feel?

I shouldn't have to tell him to thank me, you know what I mean? I doubt that I will hear from him again until he needs a ride somewhere.