need to go the bachelor party w/ strippers, but GF would KILL me...

[Wah]

There is no way I can go w/o telling her (practically live together). I can't tell her that there will be no strippers b/c she is friends with everyone going and she'd definately find out...

What do I do?

 

[Yeeny]

Look, we barely know each other, so I don't mind, really.

 

[bigrash]

just tell her the truth: you'll be going to a cool bachelor party where there will be lotsa strippers. and you're hoping to get lucky cause you know they look good. don't forget to tell her that youll also be getting drunk with them, and it's not your fault if anything happens.

trust me, she'll understand

 

[The Stigenator]

tell her the truth.. not like she hasnt gone to a bachelorette party.

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Just talk to her. Sit down and have a discussion. Yes, communication is still used now.

*Side note* You're still up, GF? Woohoo We can terrorize the night crew together. heehee

 

[flippinfleck]

I had the chance to go to a bachelor party for a friend of a friend. My girl was coo with it, even told me to go. But I decided not to, why try to get it with a stripper when you don't know where she's been? I had a damn spiffy party at my house with a stripper that was still there in the morning

 

[Yeeny]

*Side note* You're still up, GF? Woohoo We can terrorize the night crew together. heehee

Woohoo is right! Let's line them up. Do you want to use the paddle, or is it my turn again? :Q

 

[hzl eyed grl]

It's your turn for the paddle and mine for the whip. Did you bring the ball gag with you tonight?

 

[Renob]

Dump her. Sounds like there is no trust.

 

[Yeeny]

Ball gag? Um, oops, I think I left that with my black leather cat suit at home again.

 

[nippyjun]

Your girlfriend should trust you. If she doesn't then you have trust issues that need to be worked out.

 

[Wah]

its not about trust. she knows i'm not gonna do anything. its about me seeing other naked women. she won't like that...

I was just invited, so I still haven't told her yet. I'm probably gonna discuss it with her. I'm just wondering what your thoughts are. I mean, surely some of you have gone through this before.

 

[John]

<< its about me seeing other naked women. she won't like that... >>



Does she let you watch television?

 

[Dameon]

Wah, my wife was cool with it... as long as it was lookie no touch. She made it clear looking was fine, touching would leave me missing personal parts. I went, had a good time, and enjoyed the show... but like any decent topless bar, I didn't touch the girls.

 

[OS]

<< its about me seeing other naked women. >>



Must making browsing the internet incredibly hard, seeing how hard it is to avoid porn the on the net.

 

[Wah]

Does she let you watch television?

there's a difference between a naked chick on TV and a stripper spreading her XXX in your face.

as long as it was lookie no touch

thats the position i'm planning on taking...i feel an argument coming up.

 

[Wingnut]

Does she mind if you go to a strip club? Because If it's a truly professional stripper, there definitely won't be any touchie anyway! Then again, &quot;professional&quot; is a broad term in this conversation!

 

[Usul]

As long as it's not love with the stripper, you can have fun

And find a new home, away from your ex gf.

 

[DannyLove]

bigrash9 BWHAHAHAHAHH!!! yea, thats perfect advise man, HAHAHAHHA

I recommed that you talk to her, if she's not cool with it than tell her to pack her bags cause theres a new chick moving in (im talking about the stripper for all those slow people out there......&quot;ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh&quot:Q

 

[myputer]

Why not let your girlfriend strip at the party?

 

[Emulex]

take your girlfriend to a strip bar, no s**t, show her what goes on and all. she may enjoy it. many girls are cool with it. Then she'll know its just a bunch of ho's dancing and theres nothing to worry about. The fact that you dont touch the strippers or get a lap dance but have a good time with her will defuse the situation.


(ive had some girls ASK me to buy them a lapdance (from another girl))..

whoa.

 

[Double Trouble]

Sheesh, if she's THAT uptight about you seeing naked women, she has some issues.

Anyway, just tell her the truth. You'll be at the party, you'll have a good time, and you won't touch any of the strippers. If that's not acceptable to her, dump her, she's not the kind of person you want to be in a relationship with -- she'll run your life in no time.

 

[Static911]

um..wat is a stripper? J/K!

Static911

 

[eakers]

the boy was invited to go to a strip club last night, he didnt go.
we tried to talk about it, though he had already decided he wouldnt go before i even knew. i couldnt tell him not to go but i didnt understand why he would pay some girl to get nekkid for him when he has me constantly striving for his attention 24/7. and i admit its my own self image problems that make me think this way. but yeah he didnt go.

in your case though its different cuz one of your friends are getting married. explain that she cant take it as a personal insult towards her cuz really thats probley how she feels. cuz thats how i would.

*kat. <-- my 0.02