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DannyLove

Lifer
Oct 17, 2000
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<< move on and find another one.

nate
>>

for once I agree with good o nate. how old are you? this is obviously a simply reaction from a girl so the best and only solution is to forget about it and get on with your life. you guys only went out for 2 months, girls come and go, i hope you realize this, it'll be hard ot find the actual one, but you must not stop and think about why she is breaking up with you. let it go. besides havent you learned yet that they are all evil!

danny~!
 

DannyLove

Lifer
Oct 17, 2000
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also, another note: i agree with UnixFreak as well, those were my thoughts but i seriouslly didnt want to contribute so much in a simple girl problem. but UnixFreak got it on the dot, good job, I see we are all mature men around here :)

danny~!
 

DannyLove

Lifer
Oct 17, 2000
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<< Danny,
WTH you doing on here when JLH is on T.V.!?
>>

WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! man! what channel!!! DAMN IT! i'm at work!!! someone record it for me!!!!!!!!!!!

danny~!
:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(
 

UnixFreak

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Nov 27, 2000
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<< . besides havent you learned yet that they are all evil! >>



I agree to a point. The thing is, you have to learn how they think, they are just like we are, in, that they want to see what they can get away with. You just cant let them walk on you, or they will be evil. And every girl is different, its not like they will all do this to you.
 

nomahe

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May 21, 2001
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<< WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! man! what channel!!! DAMN IT! i'm at work!!! someone record it for me!!!!!!!!!!! >>


LOL, No biggie, it's only a movie you've already seen...I still know what you did last summer
I din't know you were working or I wouldn't have brought it up....yea I would of ;)
 

DannyLove

Lifer
Oct 17, 2000
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UnixFreak: thank you, but i was joking :) i know not ALLLLLLLLL women are evil if so i wouldnt have a gf and would be gay.

dannydamnstraight!~!
 

Emulex

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Jan 28, 2001
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definite hint given there. Remember there are more women to men, and in the end its our choice.. Definitely poke her, but shop around too. Hone up your bone up skills meanwhile.


 

Muadib

Lifer
May 30, 2000
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Get out now man, because it will only get worst from this point on. She's playing with your emotions, and it's getting to you. Dude, she's kicking you to curb electronicly, AND YOU STILL WANT TO BE WITH HER!!!! Wake the F up, and get on with your life.
 

kcklla

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Mar 11, 2001
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Well we have talked today for a long time, and I still dont like it but tommarow i hope to meet with her in person. Im going in as a friend and I have told her that, i dont want to date her at the moment and she knows it. I will not be sitting st home crying over this one, but I do want to become friends if anything I still like her a lot but as of now I want her and all you to know we are just friends. Thanks again for all the great advice it has help a ton
 

tantos

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Jan 18, 2001
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Come on man..haven't you learned by now? Women are always playing games to get more and more attention. If you give in, it's over. You are on the path to ruins my friend. Either just sleep with her casually or just give up cuz she doesn't sound like a good gf for you. 2 months is nothing in dating time. So chalk it up as an experience and move on my man.
Other women are waiting for some attention..
 

UnixFreak

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Nov 27, 2000
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I agree totally... Remember man, IMPLY THERE IS ANOTHER WOMAN AFTER YOU.. I know it doesnt make sense, because you think with logic by nature, and women think by emotion... It may seem like the wrong thing to do, but trust me... it will help.
 

obiwaynekenobi

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May 18, 2001
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I had to agree with SOME of the things that DannyLove Said and everything Azraele said. It's very tacky to do it over email. I've always felt if someone drops a bomb like that over email it's becuase they are hiding behind something. OR afraid that you will see something in them when they tell you. It's a two month relationship granted it's not long but if it was intimate it can take a bit to get over it. But seriously dude. Do yourself a favor get over it and deal with it. Don't be a jackass about it though, it's a matter of just being a responsible adult.

and in your future relationship be who you are from start to finish, guys (and I am guilty of this as much as some othere people.) are really sweet and really nice to these girls and try and get on their good side etc.. and they sometimes try to hard. and either the girls fall for it but when they get to know you, they are either turned off because after a while they realize that you are not what you seemed to be. Or they hate the sticky sweet part of it. (because that's what it is. smothering.) and they just don't want anything to do with it. Don't pretend don't act. just be you. it'll save yourself a lot of heartache.

My wife and I met over IRC. and we soon realized that this is going to be harder than we thought, becuase even know we knew each other we didn't really. and everyday is a hard day because the other person isn't whom you thought that they were. and you have to re-learn everything and you learn things about yourself that you didn't know.

I didn't realize that I Was pretending to be something I wasn't until I got married and I went.. 'ohh.. holy Sh*T'

It's a tough road man, dating is never easy. Just take it one step at a time.
 

m1sfit

Junior Member
Jun 6, 2001
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Well, I have mathematically prooved that women are evil.

Women = time x money,
since: Money = Time
Therefore: Women = money x money
women = (money)^2
Money is the root of all evil: Women = (evil^1/2)^2
sums up: women = evil

:D
 

eakers

Lifer
Aug 14, 2000
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if you like the way things are, then stay until you are unhappy. email was really cowardly, talk to her in person about it.

*kat. <-- :) today.
 

unclebud

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Jun 13, 2000
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i don't know what it is about me but i'm disagreeing(sp?) yet again
sorry
i don't know you, haven't seen your posts before, but i think something occurred that has creeped her out
but no offense, REALLY
this is only one of my hunches, and i could be totally off
i'm sure you're a great guy and will find someone who understands you totally
peace
 

OS

Lifer
Oct 11, 1999
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<< women are the devil >>



LOL, who else knows best besides a woman ;)





<< *kat. <-- :) today. >>



Well, always good to hear that some one out there is happy and not perpetually cynical like me.
 

IAmBatman

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Apr 30, 2001
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my girl did the same thing 2 weeks ago. every chick will use that excuse at least once in their life but its best if you move on and forget about her. she'll just end up hurting you even more.
 

Sybz

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Jun 7, 2001
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If your girl emails you something like that, she probably means:

TOP TEN REJECTION LINES GIVEN BY WOMEN (and what they actually mean):

10. I think of you as a brother.
(You remind me of that inbred banjo geek in 'Deliverance.')

9. There's a slight difference in our ages.
(I don't want to do my DAD.)

8. I'm not attracted to you in 'that' way.
(You ugly dork.)

7. My life is too complicated right now.
(I don't want you spending the night or else you may hear phone calls from all the other guys I'm seeing.)

6. I've got a boyfriend.
(I prefer my male cat and 1/2 gallon Ben &amp; Jerry's ice cream.)

5. I don't date men where I work.
(I wouldn't date you if you're in the same solar system, much less the same building.)

4. It's not you, it's me.
(It's you.)

3. I'm concentrating on my career.
(Even something as boring and unfulfilling as my job is better than dating you.)

2. I'm celibate.
(I've sworn off the likes of you or I'd rather be gang raped by midgets or I'd rather drink turpentine and piss on a brush fire or when bats fly out of my butt.)

1. Let's be friends.
(I want you to stay around so I can tell you in excruciating detail about all the other men I meet and have sex with.)

;-)