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Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: voodoodrul
Originally posted by: Koing
That situation sucks.

When was the last time you massaged her? Do that next time then have some sex then you can go game after or just relax or fall asleep 😛

Koing

lol.. If I do that, I'll be kicked right the hell out the door.. No, no.. Falling asleep is just bad form and playing a game afterwards would mean I should remove all sharp objects from her reach..

No it's not. Make sure she has lots of fun then she shouldn't care what you do afterwards. Falling asleep isn't bad form, it is usually the case afterwards at night anyway 😛

So when did you last do something for her like so? Surely she'd appreciate it and wouldn't hassle you so much when you do your own things?

Tell her to get a part time job? Help out at a local charity?

I wouldn't be with such a demanding person. I need my time to train!

Koing


As far as the "fun" goes, that certainly wasn't a problem until this weekend.. A bit too much if you ask me, but that's how she is. She doesn't have a problem with that aspect of things..

She has a full time job, but again, as a teacher, she will have the summer off. I'll need to do something about that for my own sanity. Sitting at home is never a good thing.
 
Originally posted by: SZLiao214
My room mate as the same sort of girlfriend as you do. If he tried to spend time with his friends she guilt trips him. A lot of girls are able ot hang out with their boyfriends while doing stuff with other people, but she is too selfish and needy to be that way.

Does she still do sweet things for you? Those selfish girls always seem to get colder.


Yes, she still does, but she is quite obviously getting progressively colder. *shrugs*
 
Originally posted by: Nikamichi
If your relationship is so boring that you have to play an MMO for 2 hours, especially during the weekend, you've got other issues to worry about.

Please. I'm guessing you are either unattached, or have no hobbies or interests of your own outside your girlfriend and her leash?
 
Originally posted by: AznMthr
Originally posted by: Nikamichi
If your relationship is so boring that you have to play an MMO for 2 hours, especially during the weekend, you've got other issues to worry about.

spend more time with the girl. its a compromise. no one wants to be in a relationship who surfs online all day.

He lives with her!

Don't be a pussy and back down everytime your girl throws a fit. That only reinforces that kind of behavior.

Not worth being with that kind of person IMO...you cant change them back to normal people, but you can prevent it from happening at the start.
 
Originally posted by: voodoodrul
Originally posted by: SZLiao214
My room mate as the same sort of girlfriend as you do. If he tried to spend time with his friends she guilt trips him. A lot of girls are able ot hang out with their boyfriends while doing stuff with other people, but she is too selfish and needy to be that way.

Does she still do sweet things for you? Those selfish girls always seem to get colder.


Yes, she still does, but she is quite obviously getting progressively colder. *shrugs*


If you stay, you deserve what you get...
 
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