thanks BMC, sorry about the posting, not sure where to post this one in fact. Anyhow I only need one to share like 200k word files etc with my buddy noting major. 10MB/mo. is probably more than I need.
I think it would belong into the "Software" part of the forums.
What you're talking about isn't actually P2P sharing, but more something like a priivate network. These files are just for your buddy and for yourself? Then Shareaza won't do you any good, 'cause it'll share the files with the world!
Maybe something like DC++ is more what you're looking for.