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thescreensavers

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I am bassicly 16 now read

Ok, basically my dad. When ever I dont want to listing to him about some crap, he says "MY father is turning up in his grave" all the time, I am on a tight leash always, I am treated like I am 10. bedtime, and everything.I get in trouble for not turning on a light. Also If I don't want to go to temple.( b/c I stand ther praying for 30 min then the 2.5hours left I stare at the chair inf front of me) he says all this crap about his dad. I cant talk to him as soon as we get in an argument he smaks me yes, he does and if I say no still he takes away my comp and sh!t. he forces me to be with him like if I don't want to watch this 1919 movie that he wants to he forces me to watch he bring up his father and crap. He wants me to put on Teffilin ok I don't I never put it on but every day I lie to him my mom knows but he don't get the picture. Hes is a teacher thats it, if a study comes out saying something he follows it word by word. I know I am getting treated bad b/c No one in my grade is treated like this. No one, only this one kid who has problems and needs to have leashes b/c he has major anger problems..

so you think whats going to happen when I go to collage with no leashes and no restrictions and no crap whats going to happen.

also I am so mad that when he is in his bed dieing in the hospital I he will never see me. ( but I know If i say that I probably wont get money from him or something)


how shouls I talk to him?? If I try to talk to him at any time he is busy and he screams at me if I do talk to him and says those are the rules

WTF SHOULD I DO HELP !!

I am thinking of going on a hunger strike
 

SmoochyTX

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Apr 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: thescreensavers
I am bassicly 16 now read

Ok, basically my dad. When ever I dont want to listing to him about some crap, he says "MY father is turning up in his grave" all the time, I am on a tight leash always, I am treated like I am 10. bedtime, and everything.I get in trouble for not turning on a light. Also If I don't want to go to temple.( b/c I stand ther praying for 30 min then the 2.5hours left I stare at the chair inf front of me) he says all this crap about his dad. I cant talk to him as soon as we get in an argument he smaks me yes, he does and if I say no still he takes away my comp and sh!t. he forces me to be with him like if I don't want to watch this 1919 movie that he wants to he forces me to watch he bring up his father and crap. He wants me to put on Teffilin ok I don't I never put it on but every day I lie to him my mom knows but he don't get the picture. Hes is a teacher thats it, if a study comes out saying something he follows it word by word. I know I am getting treated bad b/c No one in my grade is treated like this. No one, only this one kid who has problems and needs to have leashes b/c he has major anger problems..

so you think whats going to happen when I got to collage with no leashes and no restrictions and no crap.

also I am so mad that when he is in his bed dieing in the hospital I he will never see me. ( but I know If i say that I probably wont get money from him or something)


WTF SHOULD I DO HELP !!

how shouls I talk to him?? If I try to talk to him at any time he is busy and he screams at me if I do talk to him and says those are the rules

How old are you? Basically 16? So you mean 15?

And more importantly, how do you go to collage?
 

dud

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I'm sorry you are having problems but please go back a few grades and learn to write!

I simply cannot understand what you are saying. You english skills are very bad.
 

thescreensavers

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Originally posted by: dud
I'm sorry you are having problems but please go back a few grades and learn to write!

I simply cannot understand what you are saying. You english skills are very bad.

I am sorry But If you could just try and read and maybe tell me What I can do, I have no more choices then a hunger strike
 
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Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Originally posted by: thescreensavers
I am bassicly 16 now read

Ok, basically my dad. When ever I dont want to listing to him about some crap, he says "MY father is turning up in his grave" all the time, I am on a tight leash always, I am treated like I am 10. bedtime, and everything.I get in trouble for not turning on a light. Also If I don't want to go to temple.( b/c I stand ther praying for 30 min then the 2.5hours left I stare at the chair inf front of me) he says all this crap about his dad. I cant talk to him as soon as we get in an argument he smaks me yes, he does and if I say no still he takes away my comp and sh!t. he forces me to be with him like if I don't want to watch this 1919 movie that he wants to he forces me to watch he bring up his father and crap. He wants me to put on Teffilin ok I don't I never put it on but every day I lie to him my mom knows but he don't get the picture. Hes is a teacher thats it, if a study comes out saying something he follows it word by word. I know I am getting treated bad b/c No one in my grade is treated like this. No one, only this one kid who has problems and needs to have leashes b/c he has major anger problems..

so you think whats going to happen when I got to collage with no leashes and no restrictions and no crap.

also I am so mad that when he is in his bed dieing in the hospital I he will never see me. ( but I know If i say that I probably wont get money from him or something)


WTF SHOULD I DO HELP !!

how shouls I talk to him?? If I try to talk to him at any time he is busy and he screams at me if I do talk to him and says those are the rules

How old are you? Basically 16? So you mean 15?

And more importantly, how do you go to collage?


i think he is saying "when" he goes to college...
 

FoBoT

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count your blessings, you could have no family and live in <insert horrible third world country> and live in the streets and eat dirt for breakfast lunch and dinner



count your blessings
 

SmoochyTX

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Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: dud
I'm sorry you are having problems but please go back a few grades and learn to write!

I simply cannot understand what you are saying. You english skills are very bad.

I am sorry But If you could just try and read and maybe tell me What I can do, I have no more choices then a hunger strike

Now THAT was a cool song back in the day! Snapz to you!

But seriously, you really need to learn how to write and spell or I don't see how in the hell you're going to make it more than one semester in 'collage'.

Oh, and the obligatory 'when you move out and get your own place then you can do whatever the fvck you want to do'.
 

thescreensavers

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Originally posted by: FoBoT
count your blessings, you could have no family and live in <insert horrible third world country> and live in the streets and eat dirt for breakfast lunch and dinner



count your blessings

better then here
 

SmoochyTX

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Originally posted by: Corporate Thug
Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Originally posted by: thescreensavers
I am bassicly 16 now read

Ok, basically my dad. When ever I dont want to listing to him about some crap, he says "MY father is turning up in his grave" all the time, I am on a tight leash always, I am treated like I am 10. bedtime, and everything.I get in trouble for not turning on a light. Also If I don't want to go to temple.( b/c I stand ther praying for 30 min then the 2.5hours left I stare at the chair inf front of me) he says all this crap about his dad. I cant talk to him as soon as we get in an argument he smaks me yes, he does and if I say no still he takes away my comp and sh!t. he forces me to be with him like if I don't want to watch this 1919 movie that he wants to he forces me to watch he bring up his father and crap. He wants me to put on Teffilin ok I don't I never put it on but every day I lie to him my mom knows but he don't get the picture. Hes is a teacher thats it, if a study comes out saying something he follows it word by word. I know I am getting treated bad b/c No one in my grade is treated like this. No one, only this one kid who has problems and needs to have leashes b/c he has major anger problems..

so you think whats going to happen when I got to collage with no leashes and no restrictions and no crap.

also I am so mad that when he is in his bed dieing in the hospital I he will never see me. ( but I know If i say that I probably wont get money from him or something)


WTF SHOULD I DO HELP !!

how shouls I talk to him?? If I try to talk to him at any time he is busy and he screams at me if I do talk to him and says those are the rules

How old are you? Basically 16? So you mean 15?

And more importantly, how do you go to collage?


i think he is saying "when" he goes to college...

<sarcastic>Really? I thought he meant he was going to get into some flower or art arrangement or something.</sarcastic>
 

mundane

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Bury your rage, deep in the dark recesses of your rotting heart. Squeeze it in there, compress the coal of resentment under the extreme pressure of teenage angst. Eventually you will have diamond sharp shards of bitterness to poison all of your relationships. That'll show them. They'll rue the day!
 

FoBoT

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Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: FoBoT
count your blessings, you could have no family and live in <insert horrible third world country> and live in the streets and eat dirt for breakfast lunch and dinner



count your blessings

better then here

you have no idea what you are talking about
 

spidey07

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Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: FoBoT
count your blessings, you could have no family and live in <insert horrible third world country> and live in the streets and eat dirt for breakfast lunch and dinner



count your blessings

better then here

Who is paying for your college? Who is putting a roof over your head? Who really needs to get you private tutoring in English?

I'm guessing they are all the same person.
 

thescreensavers

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Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: FoBoT
count your blessings, you could have no family and live in <insert horrible third world country> and live in the streets and eat dirt for breakfast lunch and dinner



count your blessings

better then here

Who is paying for your college? Who is putting a roof over your head? Who really needs to get you private tutoring in English?

I'm guessing they are all the same person.

you see its not only that, Idk about that is about Stress ,and other crap, I cant handle Ether way it does not change my mind and makes me think of suicide ether way so I dont care
 

eakers

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you have 2 years left. Get good grades, go to college and never look back.

Until then, deal with it. It sounds like he is trying to help.
 

biggestmuff

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Originally posted by: thescreensavers
I am bassicly 16 now read

Ok, basically my dad. When ever I dont want to listing to him about some crap, he says "MY father is turning up in his grave" all the time, I am on a tight leash always, I am treated like I am 10. bedtime, and everything.I get in trouble for not turning on a light. Also If I don't want to go to temple.( b/c I stand ther praying for 30 min then the 2.5hours left I stare at the chair inf front of me) he says all this crap about his dad. I cant talk to him as soon as we get in an argument he smaks me yes, he does and if I say no still he takes away my comp and sh!t. he forces me to be with him like if I don't want to watch this 1919 movie that he wants to he forces me to watch he bring up his father and crap. He wants me to put on Teffilin ok I don't I never put it on but every day I lie to him my mom knows but he don't get the picture. Hes is a teacher thats it, if a study comes out saying something he follows it word by word. I know I am getting treated bad b/c No one in my grade is treated like this. No one, only this one kid who has problems and needs to have leashes b/c he has major anger problems..

so you think whats going to happen when I go to collage with no leashes and no restrictions and no crap whats going to happen.

also I am so mad that when he is in his bed dieing in the hospital I he will never see me. ( but I know If i say that I probably wont get money from him or something)


how shouls I talk to him?? If I try to talk to him at any time he is busy and he screams at me if I do talk to him and says those are the rules

WTF SHOULD I DO HELP !!

I am thinking of going on a hunger strike

I don't think you have to worry abou that! lol


 

SmoochyTX

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Apr 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: FoBoT
count your blessings, you could have no family and live in <insert horrible third world country> and live in the streets and eat dirt for breakfast lunch and dinner



count your blessings

better then here

Who is paying for your college? Who is putting a roof over your head? Who really needs to get you private tutoring in English?

I'm guessing they are all the same person.

you see its not only that, Idk about that is about Stress ,and other crap, I cant handle Ether way it does not change my mind and makes me think of suicide ether way so I dont care

Here we go with the suicide talk. You DO realize you're not the only teenager that's ever dealt with this right? Or are you just being an attention whore right now?

If you truly believe your parents are being abusive then call Family Services. If not, then suck it up and deal. We've all been there (some are still there) and it sucks sometimes but it doesn't last forever.

:roll:
 

hzl eyed grl

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Originally posted by: dud
I'm sorry you are having problems but please go back a few grades and learn to write!

I simply cannot understand what you are saying. You english skills are very bad.

 

MrChad

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Aug 22, 2001
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Originally posted by: eakers
you have 2 years left. Get good grades, go to college and never look back.

Until then, deal with it. It sounds like he is trying to help.

:thumbsup:
 

waggy

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Dec 14, 2000
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Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: FoBoT
count your blessings, you could have no family and live in <insert horrible third world country> and live in the streets and eat dirt for breakfast lunch and dinner



count your blessings

better then here

Who is paying for your college? Who is putting a roof over your head? Who really needs to get you private tutoring in English?

I'm guessing they are all the same person.

you see its not only that, Idk about that is about Stress ,and other crap, I cant handle Ether way it does not change my mind and makes me think of suicide ether way so I dont care

damn drama from emo kids.

"my life sucks! I'm going to commit "suicide" whaaa whaaa whaa"
 

sash1

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Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: FoBoT
count your blessings, you could have no family and live in <insert horrible third world country> and live in the streets and eat dirt for breakfast lunch and dinner



count your blessings

better then here

Who is paying for your college? Who is putting a roof over your head? Who really needs to get you private tutoring in English?

I'm guessing they are all the same person.

you see its not only that, Idk about that is about Stress ,and other crap, I cant handle Ether way it does not change my mind and makes me think of suicide ether way so I dont care

Those two bolded statements right there make me think there is something extremely fvcking wrong with you?

Do you seriously think you are the only kid with family problems? Or personal problems?

They are your fvckin' parents, and as much as you may hate them, or rather, think you hate them. They are (I'm sure) paying for all your sh!t.

And don't get your hopes up about having no leash in college. If they pay for your education, they still have control over you. As long as you live with your parents, it's their rules. So deal with it.

If you want a better/different life, then be proactive about it and move out.