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Cuda1447

Lifer
Jul 26, 2002
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Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: FoBoT
count your blessings, you could have no family and live in <insert horrible third world country> and live in the streets and eat dirt for breakfast lunch and dinner



count your blessings

better then here

Who is paying for your college? Who is putting a roof over your head? Who really needs to get you private tutoring in English?

I'm guessing they are all the same person.

you see its not only that, Idk about that is about Stress ,and other crap, I cant handle Ether way it does not change my mind and makes me think of suicide ether way so I dont care

damn drama from emo kids.

"my life sucks! I'm going to commit "suicide" whaaa whaaa whaa"



LOL, I agree, this is drama. But at the same point, anyone who whines isn't Emo.


lol @ waggy
 

KarenMarie

Elite Member
Sep 20, 2003
14,372
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Go to school, bust your ass to get great grades. Become 18, move out and get a good job with your good grades. Then you can be indpendent and not have to put up with it.

Until then... lay low, keep your mouth shut and do what you are told. If you don't like it, pretend you do and smile.

 

Suture

Senior member
Sep 17, 2003
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Holy crap I almost got a headache from reading that.

Here's a tip: STAY IN SCHOOL.
 

waggy

No Lifer
Dec 14, 2000
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Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: thescreensavers
Originally posted by: FoBoT
count your blessings, you could have no family and live in <insert horrible third world country> and live in the streets and eat dirt for breakfast lunch and dinner



count your blessings

better then here

Who is paying for your college? Who is putting a roof over your head? Who really needs to get you private tutoring in English?

I'm guessing they are all the same person.

you see its not only that, Idk about that is about Stress ,and other crap, I cant handle Ether way it does not change my mind and makes me think of suicide ether way so I dont care

damn drama from emo kids.

"my life sucks! I'm going to commit "suicide" whaaa whaaa whaa"



LOL, I agree, this is drama. But at the same point, anyone who whines isn't Emo.


lol @ waggy

well the suicide crap got me
 

Rock Hydra

Diamond Member
Dec 13, 2004
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If it's that bad, you can move out. Maybe another family member will take you in. That might be an option...but you should talk to your parents. And you need to keep cool, because I've seen people claim to "talk" to their parents (read: bitch/whine to their parents) about their issues and that never works either.
 

Bryophyte

Lifer
Apr 25, 2001
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You poor baby. Your dad spends time with you, is trying to raise you with morals and discipline. Wah, wah, wah.

Is it possible for you to bring a book to read during the 2.5 hours you claim to be sitting at temple staring at the chair in front of you?

Some day you'll wish you hadn't acted like such a spoiled little sh1t when you were young and your dad just wanted to share stuff with you (like his favorite movies and his religion.) I have no idea what you mean when you said "He wants me to put on Teffilin".
 

SmoochyTX

Lifer
Apr 19, 2003
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Update!

Just wanna make sure this poor chap hasn't offed himself. Maybe somebody from AT could verify that the guy didn't commit suicide????
 

Number1

Diamond Member
Feb 24, 2006
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549
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When you live with your parents, you pretty well have to live by their rules and guidance. I don't know too many 15 years old who agree with everything their parents said. You have to learn to live with your parents. It's not going to be easy and nobody can do it for you.
If there is physical abuse, contact a social worker.

Good luck and keep going to school, you need it.
 

waitman

Diamond Member
Oct 27, 2002
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It 's not worth offing yourself over. In a couple years, you will be on your own and you can do what you want. Just don't let it beat you down. My old man used to beat the crap outta me, sometimes I deserved it. Anyways I made it through and now he's gone and I don't miss him. That's the way life is, sometimes bad, sometimes good. When you get older your outlook will change, just keep that in mind. Good luck
 

dug777

Lifer
Oct 13, 2004
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Originally posted by: diegoalcatraz
Bury your rage, deep in the dark recesses of your rotting heart. Squeeze it in there, compress the coal of resentment under the extreme pressure of teenage angst. Eventually you will have diamond sharp shards of bitterness to poison all of your relationships. That'll show them. They'll rue the day!

 

FoBoT

No Lifer
Apr 30, 2001
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fobot.com
Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Maybe somebody from AT could verify that the guy didn't commit suicide????

how are we going to do that?


to the OP , finish high school and join the military, they'll take care of you and make you love "the good old days"
 

SmoochyTX

Lifer
Apr 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: FoBoT
Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Maybe somebody from AT could verify that the guy didn't commit suicide????

how are we going to do that?


to the OP , finish high school and join the military, they'll take care of you and make you love "the good old days"

Meant somebody from AT (not ATOT, more like mods or something)....LOL

This has happened in the past where a member committed suicide or went on a killing spree and they did nothing.
 

FoBoT

No Lifer
Apr 30, 2001
63,084
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fobot.com
what makes you think a mod can do something? they have a magic phone number list of members? they going to email the guy? :confused:
 

sash1

Diamond Member
Jul 20, 2001
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Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Originally posted by: FoBoT
Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Maybe somebody from AT could verify that the guy didn't commit suicide????

how are we going to do that?


to the OP , finish high school and join the military, they'll take care of you and make you love "the good old days"

Meant somebody from AT (not ATOT, more like mods or something)....LOL

This has happened in the past where a member committed suicide or went on a killing spree and they did nothing.

from his profile:
Last Visited On: 09/26/2006 10:37 PM

From his OP, it sounds like his parents have a bedtime for him, so most likely he's just asleep.
 

SmoochyTX

Lifer
Apr 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: sash1
Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Originally posted by: FoBoT
Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Maybe somebody from AT could verify that the guy didn't commit suicide????

how are we going to do that?


to the OP , finish high school and join the military, they'll take care of you and make you love "the good old days"

Meant somebody from AT (not ATOT, more like mods or something)....LOL

This has happened in the past where a member committed suicide or went on a killing spree and they did nothing.

from his profile:
Last Visited On: 09/26/2006 10:37 PM

From his OP, it sounds like his parents have a bedtime for him, so most likely he's just asleep.

You never know nowadays. Crazy kids. ;)
 

newParadigm

Diamond Member
Jul 30, 2003
3,667
1
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Dude, it probobly sucks, but just deal, like others have said, you'll be on your own soon.

And for YHWH's sake, don't fvcking off yourself over this.
 

Rumpltzer

Diamond Member
Jun 7, 2003
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Christ.


You'd better not be a native Engrish speaker or I'm going to have to come and punch you in the head.

Here's the deal, you're "basically 16" and it's the fall. I'm guessing that puts you in your parents house for another 2 years at most. Go to school, make good grades, work on your Engrish, apply to college (not community college, and have someone read your application essay), and leave home when you're done with high school.

Ideally, claim emancipation or financial independence from your parents while in college and get the government to help you pay for your own education. It works, and it wasn't that hard when I did it.

You're sixteen and you live with your parents. Suck it up, then leave as soon as you can and don't go back.
 

thescreensavers

Diamond Member
Aug 3, 2005
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Jees I dont post for a bit and every one thinks things, Well today we are having this family talk. So.... w/e hopefully this crap can end but like every once else said I am just going to have to live with it for 2 more years. SmoochyTX STOP LOL I am here. I am bassicly venting
 

Slick5150

Diamond Member
Nov 10, 2001
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Dude.. Seriously.. Learn how to write. Your posts are painful and make me want to hurt myself.