Need help with ZCP (Zero contact policy)

Dec 18, 2004
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Do I read it people? Big question! If I do, I think I'm gunna feel like ******. Curiousity did killed the cat. I've been doing good since the breakup on Friday the 13th. I've been going to gym like crazy, reading all the time, hanging with friends, and doing so many other things. I feel darn good I don't want anything to go wrong now and as I'm typing I'm feeling queesy. So let me know people. Yes, you need to run my life. :p

Pic here: http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview.aspx?catid=38&threadid=1780190
 

HN

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copy and paste it here w/o reading it. we'll let you know.
 

Crimzon

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If you feel 'darn good' and are worried about the email messing things up, then you're just convincing yourself that you're 'darn good'. You really aren't. Read it, and don't reply.
 

Rumpltzer

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Pics of his GF for the lazy

It looks like she's got human ears attached to her wall. Is one of them yours?


You have to read the email or you'll wonder about it forever. The real test is whether you respond to it.

Oh, and now that you've brought it up, you also have to post the email here.
 

iwantanewcomputer

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i would just ccause i don't believe knowing something can make you worse off. Decide before you read it how you feel about her and if there is any possibility of getting together, what she needs to say to make it happen. Either you get together again and don't put up with ******, or you put her out of your mind forever. she might have needed to loose you to realize how she feels
 

TheNinja

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read it you baby - she took time to write you can at least read it you owe her that much for all the poontang you got from her.
 

paulney

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Originally posted by: TheNinja
read it you baby - she took time to write you can at least read it you owe her that much for all the poontang you got from her.

She probably wants her underwear back or smth
 

Looney

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It's been 3 years. She probably just wants to know how you're doing. I often want to contact old ex's too if i can.