Need girl help.....

[Doodoo]

I jus need to know if i'm an overprotective ahole...or not. Well me and my gf of 1.5 years were doin great untill she started working at this other place. She works like long shifts and has barely any free time. Well she barely has any free time with me. And she likes to hang out with the people at work which i have a problem with even though she barely has time for me. She has a problem with some of my female friends and i don't hang out with them cuz i know she has a problem with them. The time she does spend with me is after work...where all we do is get something to eat...have sex...and then i get to watch her sleep for the rest of the nite. Ahhh...i dun even know what to do anymore...we've almost broken up like 2 times in the past month.

 

[pillage2001]

I guess you just need time to adapt to the thought that she's working? tried talking to her?

 

[Fuzzmuncher]

Been there.. much sympathy to you.
Talking is the only way we got through it. Seemed like hell at the time, but its all good now.




Good luck man

 

[Doodoo]

Shes worked before...but in a girl store with only other girls...weve been talkin bout it ever since she started her new job....i know its not fair to keep her from her friends...but...i dunno....

 

[The Wildcard]

Yes, whatever you do, DO NOT TRY TO KEEP HER FROM HER FRIENDS. that will only spell disaster. Never make her decide between you or her friends. Just give her alot of space and make her see that you are trying. You should be rewarded. (well i would think so)

 

[PCAddict]

That is a tough situation. She keeps you from hanging with some of your friends because they are female. But, yet it's all good for her to hang out with these new friends (some of which are male) from the new job. Gee, that's fair.

You must handle it delicately. Sometimes even asking questions can get you in trouble, even when you have the best intentions.

 

[Dameon]

I'd say insist on equality. One way or the other. Which is more important to her... her friends or her jealousy? You might just start off with casually mentioning you're going to go out with some of folks @ work after you get off tonight. If she questions, reply that you assumed that since she'd been doing the same it was ok for you. Make her say it if she's going to pull a double standard on you.