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Sounds like she's really pushing for the marriage thing. It honestly shouldn't be that way and I'd tell her to cool it on that for a while. You two are really young and there is no hurry.

To be real honest, if I had a girlfriend that was pushing to get married when it was obvious that we both weren't of the same frame of mind about it, I'd probably dump her. Marriage is a very serious thing and it just shows too much immaturity and/or insecurity on her part to be pushing like that.
 
propose....

plan wedding 2 years in advance...

don't show up to wedding...

she'll get the picture when only her side of the family comes to the wedding....

cheer🙂
 
Originally posted by: maziwanka
Originally posted by: Semidevil
Originally posted by: MCrusty
Are you both citizens? She could be trying to pull a fast one ya...
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well, lets not put citizenship thing into play...just kind of, "what would you do in this type of situation...?"



I mean, I always thought when it comes to something like marriage, you have to be ready when both sides are ready no?
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you're an idiot. she's playing you and wants to become a citizen.

i wouldn't have been this harsh but your gf pulled out the classic line,

She tells me she wants us to get married, and she says stuff like "I can give up my life for you, why can't you give up anything for me?" stuff like that.
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which is code for "i'm a b!tch."
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Agreed. Dump her. The citizenship is a key issue. You need to consider why she wants to get married so quickly? Because she loves you so much and can't stand being not married? or because she needs citizenship? The former seems a lot less likely than the latter. Tell her that if she loves you so much then she can wait until you are ready.

 
u are going to grad school so u have make a better life for both of you, she should see that, and she is usig the i'm giving up my life for you, and your not, thats low

Dogg
 
Drop her. Seriously. If she's gonna be this manipulative and controlling during your dating phase, it's gonna be a LOT worse during the marriage. You'll regret it for the rest of your life.
 
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