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alkemyst

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Originally posted by: sonz70
So, I have a date tonight. A real date, like... This girl from work (my IT job) asked me out to the bar here in town, I said yes. So, it's been a while since I've been on a real date (5 months to be exact). Now, I'm going over to her place to meet her, after shes done work, we both live within walking distance of the bar (about 15mins walk),

So, since neither of us are driving, what do I do at the end of the night?, offer to walk her home. Wait for her to ask me too?. Or say goodbye at the bar?


I know I'm going to get flamed for this, but perhaps in thr 50+ posts that poke fun at me, the 3 or 4 atot'ers who date regularily can provice some insight.

Thanks

just do her behind the first cover you get, then say goodnight.

seriously...if you hit it off follow her wherever she goes.

the comes follows.

However, you probably know this.
 

Sentinel

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Jun 23, 2000
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honestly, just go with the flow and be a gentleman. if it seems right, walk her home, if the date is sour, don't.
 

tami

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Originally posted by: sonz70
So, I have a date tonight. A real date, like... This girl from work (my IT job) asked me out to the bar here in town, I said yes. So, it's been a while since I've been on a real date (5 months to be exact). Now, I'm going over to her place to meet her, after shes done work, we both live within walking distance of the bar (about 15mins walk),

So, since neither of us are driving, what do I do at the end of the night?, offer to walk her home. Wait for her to ask me too?. Or say goodbye at the bar?


I know I'm going to get flamed for this, but perhaps in thr 50+ posts that poke fun at me, the 3 or 4 atot'ers who date regularily can provice some insight.

Thanks

so is this confirmation that you broke up with your gf after she discovered your side job?
 

sonz70

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Apr 19, 2005
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Originally posted by: tami
Originally posted by: sonz70
So, I have a date tonight. A real date, like... This girl from work (my IT job) asked me out to the bar here in town, I said yes. So, it's been a while since I've been on a real date (5 months to be exact). Now, I'm going over to her place to meet her, after shes done work, we both live within walking distance of the bar (about 15mins walk),

So, since neither of us are driving, what do I do at the end of the night?, offer to walk her home. Wait for her to ask me too?. Or say goodbye at the bar?


I know I'm going to get flamed for this, but perhaps in thr 50+ posts that poke fun at me, the 3 or 4 atot'ers who date regularily can provice some insight.

Thanks

so is this confirmation that you broke up with your gf after she discovered your side job?


Yeah, like I said earlier, when she found out, she couldn't take it anymore and ended it :(
 

bsobel

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Dec 9, 2001
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So, since neither of us are driving, what do I do at the end of the night?, offer to walk her home. Wait for her to ask me too?. Or say goodbye at the bar?

Walk her home, don't try anything. If you actually liked her, in a day or two after ask her out on a 'proper' date. Then, at the end of that date, try everything.

Of course, dating someone at work is just plain stupid. Not that I often follow my own advice...

Bill
 

slycat

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Jul 18, 2001
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WTF?,....ur a guy right? ..an escort?...that cool, escorting women right?
so whats this bj bullcrap?! :|
 

Rookie

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Originally posted by: bsobel
So, since neither of us are driving, what do I do at the end of the night?, offer to walk her home. Wait for her to ask me too?. Or say goodbye at the bar?

Walk her home, don't try anything. If you actually liked her, in a day or two after ask her out on a 'proper' date. Then, at the end of that date, try everything.

Of course, dating someone at work is just plain stupid. Not that I often follow my own advice...

Bill

QFT!! :frown:
 

rmrf

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May 14, 2003
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Originally posted by: slycat
WTF?,....ur a guy right? ..an escort?...that cool, escorting women right?
so whats this bj bullcrap?! :|

you'll need to search for the thread in which the OP first started the escort job. you'll understand then.