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Need advice on a sweet/romantic thing to do for a girl?

kenthuang

Senior member
This might sound lame to some of you, but what the hell...
I just met a girl of my dream past weekend. So I don't know her very well plus she probably don't even know I'm interested. But what I do know is that shes the type of girl who is shy/conservative also looks good that likes attention and aggressive guys.

What should I do to show her that I'm interested, yet sweet enough to catch her off guard?

There is one problem: I have to go thru her friend (also a girl) to get this dream girl to come out. But this girl is CocBlocking cuz she has a thing for me. 😕
 
why do you have to go through her? (EDIT: her friend that is)

i would try talking with her first and try finding out what she likes. if her friend has the hots for you i really wouldn't trust her.


after you find out what she likes plan some kind of romantic date.
 

ask for her phone # and ask her out.
I wouldn't do anything else though besides that.
Don't want to over do it the first time.
 


<< But what I do know is that shes the type of girl who is shy/conservative also looks good that likes attention and aggressive guys. >>



Hmm... conservative girl that likes the bad boy to bring out the agressiveness in her, eh?

Simple... tell her friend straight up - I like your cute/conservative friend - NOT you.

That's how you fight this battle... if she wants to block you from getting to the girl &quot;of your dreams&quot; you gotta fight back w/ words that will knock her back and give her a heads up that you're NOT her type.

If you just got to know this girl, a good thing to do would be to ask her to a cup of coffee and ask her all the questions that would come to your head that night. Appropriate questions that is.. something that she'd love to answer.

First you get to know her... then you become her friend... then you take it to the next level... if she truly is the girl of your dreams then you'd have no problem waiting on the relationship and taking your time...

GOod luck

><GG>
 
Thanks for the 411, but I have to go through her friend because I only got her number, plus shes the &quot;leader&quot; of the group of girls. This dream girl wouldn't come out by herself if her friend was there.

GoldenGuppy, I have done something like what you said. I called up the girl and did tell her that I think her friend is cute (indicating that I didnt want her) and asked her to have my dreamgurl's number. She replied I have to ask her (dreamgurl) first if its okay. But that was two days ago. I haven't got a reply back! I was thinking this chick probably didn't even ask at all. Now I'm afraid I won't ever see my dreamgurl again!
 
dude, you should just go for it... that way, you can't say that at least you didn't try...

as for the girl that's all over you... just be straight up with her and tell her she's not your type...

just my .02
 
Just send some of your soiled and filthy underwear with a note that says,

&quot;Dear Honey, I want to see if you will make a good wife for me. Please wash these as best you can. The woman who washes them the best will be the leading candidate to be my future wife. Sincerely, Your Potential Husband.&quot;
 
Talk a lot about threesomes to the girl who is cockblocking. She will help you with the &quot;girl of your dreams then&quot; 🙂 Good luck

Edit: i'm serious btw
 
Why not just try calling the friend of your &quot;dreamgirl&quot; again? It's only been two days. Sometimes, it can take a while before a message gets across to the other person, especially when you're having to go through someone else.

If it takes any more then a week or a week and a half, I may start becoming suspicious, however.

SQ
 
just point the girl you like toward this thread, because everyone knows someone who uses the word cockblocker really is sweet and sincere.
 
Sorry no pic of this dreamgurl.

Do any of you think me asking her friend for the dreamgurls number a bad move? I mean when I did that, I felt I ain't ever gonna see them again.

But I do know what school the dreamgurl goes to, should I go down and open every classroom in search of her? hahaa...I feel like a stocker.
 
The funny thing is that I don't think of her sexually. Trust me I'm a dog. But theres something about her I don't feel like a girl to fool around wit.
 
Ask the girl you 'don't really like, but she likes you', if she'd be willing to have a manage et trois; yourself, herself, and this dream girl.. That way, if she says &quot;Yes!!&quot;, you get laid by two at once. If she says &quot;No!!&quot; shes bound to tell the cute girl just how disgusting and forward/fresh you are, this dream girl, being conservative, will naturally agree with her friend. However, at the same time, her 'naughty' side, being thrilled by aggressive men, will be so turned on she'll approach you with prospects for sex!!

Frankly, you can't lose..

(Note to self: read other responses before eagarly posting..)
 
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