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[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: Nutdotnet

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: lytalbayre
I hate to be a downer, but it sounds like he is taking advantage of you. He might claim to love you, but what is he really doing to benefit the relationship. There is no excuse for not trying to do something.

Perhaps you guys should put everything on hold until you get your degrees and he grows up a little. If you still care for eachother then, go for it! You don't necessarily have to kick him out of your life completely, but downgrade him to a friend for a while.

And, being illegal does not preclude getting a driver's license or a job. thumbs down for your man.

Umm, how could he get a drivers license when he is illegal? Besides, he is a full time college student. And he cannot get a job because of his responsibilites. He has to take care of his sister while his mother works. He will not abandon his mother.

How can he be a college-student and be an illegal?

Because he talked to the school about it. And they let him in. But he cannot receive grants or loans. His mom has to pay.
I doubt he could talk to the department of public transportation about it.

 

[Chryso]

All you need for a drivers license is a couple of kinds of ID. That should be much easier to get than getting in college.

 

[lrad50]

Talk to him about it.

 

[dullard]

Originally posted by: lrad50
And what gender are u btw?

Turn on your signitures, and look at his posts.

I say it isn't worth it. A long distance relationship doesn't have enough to sustain itself. When you are in a LDR, you only see the good side and never the bad side (since you are both so happy to see each other). Thus, he likely is no where as great as you think he is (and vise versa). Plus, you've only been dating a month - get out while you can.

If he really is the right guy for you, he'll be there when you are out of college.

 

[aidanjm]

Good luck Zysoclaplem! Keep us updated.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: aidanjm
Good luck Zysoclaplem! Keep us updated.

He broke up with me. After everything I did. Perhaps it's for the best, who knows. I'm still sad and angry though.