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Need advice concerning a nice girl I know.

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Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: GuitarDaddy
9:30 "update, just hold on tight to your keyboard"

10:13 " expect updates in 6-7 hours, go to sleep now"

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What are you laughing at , you too go upstairs to bed young man, I will be serving updates in the morning downstairs 😛
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Awww... just a few more minutes!!!! 🙁

/skulks off to bed.....
 
Originally posted by: AcidBath
9.5 hours later..... hellllooo?
my fingers are raw from gripping this damn keyboard all night
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OK children, updates are served , now finish all your updates and be good 😛

All I have to say is WOW what a fckn morning it was indeed weehew!!
 
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: AcidBath
Wow, an update. Now all that is left to do is:
D
H
I
T
B

😀
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Ohh come on man. Unless you have been "hiring a womans services" you have not gotten laid in 5+ years. Your hands have blisters! Don't BS us by saying that tapping it isn't even on your mind right now!
 
Originally posted by: AcidBath
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: AcidBath
Wow, an update. Now all that is left to do is:
D
H
I
T
B

😀
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:disgust:
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Ohh come on man. Unless you have been "hiring a womans services" you have not gotten laid in 5+ years. Your hands have blisters! Don't BS us by saying that tapping it isn't even on your mind right now!
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GETTING PHYSICAL WITH HER IS MY LAST CONCERN!!!
Further down the road if the relation evolves into a seriouse constructive one then maybe, but absolutley not ATM or in the near future
 
All I can say is, you did the right thing. No chick should lead you around in circles, and you did the right thing by presenting a situation for her to fess up to however she feels. Sometimes girls aren't very good at mustering up the courage to flat out say how they feel, and if she is as timid as you make her sound, then she probably falls into that category. It does bother me a little that she neglected to let you know that she couldn't go out on Monday though. I would have to be really sick to do that, just because I would feel badly about leaving someone hanging and wondering what the deal was.

But overall, you laying it on the line was good. You got out what you wanted to say, and gave her the opportunity to do the same. You've done all you can do, you've made yourself clear about your feelings, and the ball is clearly in her court now. If she doesn't take it, then she's not interested, and if she does, congratulations. You have presented things in the best way possible, with minimal pressure, and if she's not interested, it's her own damn fault and her loss.

Thumbs up for being a solid guy who sounds like he has his head screwed on right. Not all girls suck, and it sounds like you deserve one of the good ones. 🙂
 
I agree with Rill22, to your credit it did take a lot of guts to do what you did. Bravo on that. However, it was a little creepy reading the conversation between you two. The compliment about her teeth/smile was fine, but it seemed to me she felt she was put on the spot. The whole "confession" was not a good idea...but, maybe it'll work out. Good luck.
 
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
I agree with Rill22, to your credit it did take a lot of guts to do what you did. Bravo on that. However, it was a little creepy reading the conversation between you two. The compliment about her teeth/smile was fine, but it seemed to me she felt she was put on the spot. The whole "confession" was not a good idea...but, maybe it'll work out. Good luck.
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My thoughts exactly. Complimenting a girl with such a forceful confession is perfectly romantic if you've been dating a while, or perhaps best friends forever.

But this? Nah-uh. From the recap, it comes across as creepy and weird.
 
Originally posted by: Rill22
All I can say is, you did the right thing. No chick should lead you around in circles, and you did the right thing by presenting a situation for her to fess up to however she feels. Sometimes girls aren't very good at mustering up the courage to flat out say how they feel, and if she is as timid as you make her sound, then she probably falls into that category. It does bother me a little that she neglected to let you know that she couldn't go out on Monday though. I would have to be really sick to do that, just because I would feel badly about leaving someone hanging and wondering what the deal was.

But overall, you laying it on the line was good. You got out what you wanted to say, and gave her the opportunity to do the same. You've done all you can do, you've made yourself clear about your feelings, and the ball is clearly in her court now. If she doesn't take it, then she's not interested, and if she does, congratulations. You have presented things in the best way possible, with minimal pressure, and if she's not interested, it's her own damn fault and her loss.

Thumbs up for being a solid guy who sounds like he has his head screwed on right. Not all girls suck, and it sounds like you deserve one of the good ones. 🙂
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I really think it's time to thank all of those who helped motivate me through all of this, and Rill22 is not an exception, thank you Rill for your kind words and moral support I really don't know how I would have made it without all of you guys's and girls's support and determination to see another member happy.

I wish the best of luck to all of you in all your ventures and I hope this thread helps every guy out there who knows a lady that he admires and respects, to muster up enough courage to put things on the table and talk about it and most IMPORTANTLY BE SINCERE!!!!!
 
Originally posted by: LanceM
Originally posted by: bobbybe01
I agree with Rill22, to your credit it did take a lot of guts to do what you did. Bravo on that. However, it was a little creepy reading the conversation between you two. The compliment about her teeth/smile was fine, but it seemed to me she felt she was put on the spot. The whole "confession" was not a good idea...but, maybe it'll work out. Good luck.
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My thoughts exactly. Complimenting a girl with such a forceful confession is perfectly romantic if you've been dating a while, or perhaps best friends forever.

But this? Nah-uh. From the recap, it comes across as creepy and weird.
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I couldn't hold it any longer, next week I might not have enough time to do all of that with her, so I just had to spit it out before my classes start you know, I just had to put everything on the table, and let her give me a very honest answer, if it did sound creepy the way I typed it, I wish you could see her back there, she was one happy girl and I felt it, I don't think a guy ever held her with that much respect and honesty before!! I really felt she was a completley a different person after she took that cover of shyness off .
 
hmmmm, $10 says she doens't call or she does call and things go nowhere fast

not to be a d!ck, but there's nothing attractive about softly persuing a girl for weeks/months and then breaking under the mental strain (of which she knew nothing) and confessing all
 
Originally posted by: davestar
hmmmm, $10 says she doens't call or she does call and things go nowhere fast

not to be a d!ck, but there's nothing attractive about softly persuing a girl for weeks/months and then breaking under the mental strain (of which she knew nothing) and confessing all
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Don't you think it's a possibility that I have realized before. But I don't care now, I showed her what type of a guy I am , and laid my feelings on the table
it's up to her now, I am glad that there is nothing that I can regret anymore, I did my part and the rest is up to her. If she comes out later and tells me that she doesn't think we can go on with this attempt at least I would be able to know that it's not me, and that it's just a matter of finding another girls as opposed to thinking about it as a problem in me.
 
Nice Job man. I sincerely hope you get what you want, and wish you all the luck in the world with getting it.
 
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