Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: eits
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: BD2003
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
OK came back from work today, I feel good, because I have worked 6 extra hours @ 1.5 payrate and there wasn't much to do , me and a bunch of co-workers just sat down and told jokes to each other the whole 6 hours, while each of us did some light paperwork 😀.
Anyway, I looked at the log for today and she have called sick so I didn't see her there.
PS : I hope no smart-ass tells me to call her and see how she is doing.
Ya, don't call her. Hopefully she'll call you sometime this weekend.
Ofcourse I am not calling her, I have called her enough, now it's all up to her, if she calls me on the weekend or early on Monday then she is saved (me 2), otherwise if she doesn't call on the weekend nor on Monday,
then she can kiss the chance to be with a nice guy that appreciates her and loves her goodbye.
you just met the broad!!!
We have been working together for half a year.
I didn't make a move untill this vacation thing of mine got around so that things don't get complicated at work, most probably I am not going to go back to work I have other plans career wise (something else), and I wouldn't call her a broad! As I said we are still in the first stages here and we need to make baby steps towards each other, the only thing that I don't like so far is that she have been hesitant a bit and will see if she doesn't cancel the monday date then I have a very good feeling that there is a low probability after that for things to go bad .
Why am I nervous a bit (OK maybe a lot!) ? Because I haven't been attracted to a girl like I am now with this one for a very long time, she just has something that all these fancy looking spicy hot girls that I have met through work, school, daily life...etc wouldn't ever be able to have, what is that thing ?
I don't know, and I am not sure if I will ever be able to know, I just feel calm around that girl, I feel that all my worries are behind me, and I joke around her and I watch that beautiful smile of her and I feel happy, she actually makes me laugh deep from inside when she is teasing me / joking with me, and the best part is that we feel kind of similar too, so it's not a one way thing either.
What pisses me off is that some guys here think that I am talking about some regular girl here that I am just practicing dating on!!
When I tell you that the last real date for me was 5 years ago, this must say that I don't fck around! I don't pick a random girl, and the girls that I pick are just rare as diamonds if you look at things through my eyes.
I am trying to recover my emotional life that I have left to rust for years I might get really nervous here and there in my posts but I am not really like that in life, I am not some clumsy guy, I am a reasonable person, I am a successful person (maybe not emotionally I guess), if you think why I am asking for directions, instead of asking just one or two of my friends for 2nd opinions, I can get hundreds of extra opinions here, and God knows how much help I got from here, I think it's not the pointers that were that got me to where I am in this attempt, but it's the motivation that I get from the persistent members here that just don't want to see another member give up while they know they can help.
- I have nothing to lose if I try, and I will for sure lose if I don't try, I prefer I try.
- I will feel very bad if things don't work out, but of course that's all up to her, I will still regard her as a nice person both ways , but deep inside I know I will still feel the pain that I am feeling right now as I type.
For those that helped me so far, thank you, and don't give up on me yet, these couple of days are crucial to me on a level higher than you would think it is from where you are reading this, I am going to need a lot of support, I love this girl and I think this is the girl that I might keep my eyes on after graduation (you know
😉).
And for those who are trying to insult me or want to make fun of me or give me bad advice , go ahead, what goes around, comes around. Just remember that one day you might be stuck on some issue and you are going to reach out for help, here on AT or friends or whatever are you sure you want the same thing for you ?