Need a AIM spy type software

[apac]

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: OHFunds

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: OHFunds
Long story short, I had a rough night lastnight. I wont go into detail but I know she met this guy at college - TTU. She talks on AIM all the damn time, so I am sure she is talking to him on there. I want to figure out if she is telling him off(I asked her to, yes I am giving her another chance) or if she is still playing us both. Please help me out. I know this is stupid guys - buts its the only way I will know if she is still talking to him or has old him off. Thanks in advance. Oh - BTW - I am in Ft Worth - she is in Lubbock at TTU.

Dead-Aim....it works best with previous versions of aim..it's like 4.95 one time fee, it's worth it I think. use it.

What exactly does this software do?

logs convos but forget the software your relationship is over.

It's also a completely seperate aim client. What are you gonna do from here, tell her "Heeey I got this cool new aim program, but after you install it be sure to go to the options and turn on logging! Oh, and whenever you can, send me those logs so I can keep tabs on you!"

He's asking for a trojan-type aim logger. Not good .

 

[OHFunds]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: AbsolutDealage

Originally posted by: OHFunds
I want to save this - I am almost 4 years into this thing. I understand her fling 300 miles away, I just want it to end. Please help me out guys.

Obviously those 4 years mean a lot more to you than they do to her.

I also dated through high school and had a long distance thing during college. I would not have hesitated to chuck the entire relationship out the window if she had cheated on me while I was gone.

Turning a relationship into a long distance one is like putting it in the pressure cooker. Luckily, you saw what her true colors were before you took the next step.

also remember...distance does weird things to people...and calling her a cvnt like other posters are isn't going to help the OP any. He loves her and doesn't see her as that, and honestly she might not be. So again, since I appear to the be the only person trying here to answer his question: I use Deadaim...go to www.jdennis.net i believe is the url

So I just put her screename and it will give me all her conversations?

 

[apac]

Originally posted by: OHFunds

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: AbsolutDealage

Originally posted by: OHFunds
I want to save this - I am almost 4 years into this thing. I understand her fling 300 miles away, I just want it to end. Please help me out guys.

Obviously those 4 years mean a lot more to you than they do to her.

I also dated through high school and had a long distance thing during college. I would not have hesitated to chuck the entire relationship out the window if she had cheated on me while I was gone.

Turning a relationship into a long distance one is like putting it in the pressure cooker. Luckily, you saw what her true colors were before you took the next step.

also remember...distance does weird things to people...and calling her a cvnt like other posters are isn't going to help the OP any. He loves her and doesn't see her as that, and honestly she might not be. So again, since I appear to the be the only person trying here to answer his question: I use Deadaim...go to www.jdennis.net i believe is the url

So I just put her screename and it will give me all her conversations?

Rofl.

 

[FP]

Originally posted by: OHFunds
How can you just walk away from 4 years of an excellent relationship(so I thought). I didnt sleep a damn wink lastnight. I love this girl - was planning the next step soon - but that has now changed.

I didn't say it would be easy. She didn't think it was excellent if she has been cheating. I am assuming you are college age (18-21). If so, cheating during this time (esp. when apart) is not uncommon. New people, new scene, away from parents...

I understand your frustration but spying won't solve anything. You will find yourself constantly doubting her and the spying will become obsessive. The more naggy and angry you are around her will only push her away.

The reason I say walk away is because the only way you two will ever work out is if you start at the ground level and build the trust back up again. You are obviously shattered by this and she is too probably.

I know it sucks and I realize you will probably not take the advice but I wish you well.

 

[ryan256]

Time to curb the biach. Go find you one you can trust.

 

[Cal166]

I used this one before, works perfectly.

http://www.blazingtools.com/bpk.html

EDIT: Sorry for your lost but I can see it clearly where this is going. I have experienced something similar in the past. Either way she will lied to you and If you love her you will believe her lies, eventually she will hurt you in the end.