Need a AIM spy type software

[OHFunds]

Long story short, I had a rough night lastnight. I wont go into detail but I know she met this guy at college - TTU. She talks on AIM all the damn time, so I am sure she is talking to him on there. I want to figure out if she is telling him off(I asked her to, yes I am giving her another chance) or if she is still playing us both. Please help me out. I know this is stupid guys - buts its the only way I will know if she is still talking to him or has old him off. Thanks in advance. Oh - BTW - I am in Ft Worth - she is in Lubbock at TTU.

 

[swimscubasteve]

Try speaking with her.

 

[dartworth]

If you have doubts, it will never work.

Cut your loses and move on with your life...

 

[GuitarDaddy]

Sorry to hear dude

But IMHO if you can't trust her and have to resort to spying, you don't have a relationship worth saving

AFAIK any spying software would have to be installed on her machine in Lubbock

 

[Nikamichi]

You told her to tell the guy off because she let him sleep with her?

 

[MetalMat]

Hey, Im in Fort Worth for one more week myself. Dont spy on her and just ask her if she is.

 

[Axoliien]

Originally posted by: dartworth
If you have doubts, it will never work.

Cut your loses and move on with your life...

 

[OHFunds]

I want to save this - I am almost 4 years into this thing. I understand her fling 300 miles away, I just want it to end. Please help me out guys.

 

[OHFunds]

I did ask her. I know everything. I asked her to decide - and she told me that she wanted me. I know how easy it is to get away with things when your 300 miles away. I want to make sure she is done with him or I am done with her.

 

[AbsolutDealage]

Sorry, but if your girl is away at college in another city, and hooks up with some other guy out there.... it's over. It will happen again when she gets lonely enough, and then you will be the fool.

Screw me once, shame on you. Screw me twice, shame on me.

 

[FP]

Originally posted by: OHFunds
I want to save this - I am almost 4 years into this thing. I understand her fling 300 miles away, I just want it to end. Please help me out guys.

It won't end. Instead of figuring out IF she is cheating you should spend you time figuring out WHY she cheated.

In any case, the best option now would be to walk away and let her get it out of her system. Spying will get you nowhere.

 

[Phoenix86]

CUT AND RUN.

 

[OHFunds]

How can you just walk away from 4 years of an excellent relationship(so I thought). I didnt sleep a damn wink lastnight. I love this girl - was planning the next step soon - but that has now changed.

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: OHFunds
Long story short, I had a rough night lastnight. I wont go into detail but I know she met this guy at college - TTU. She talks on AIM all the damn time, so I am sure she is talking to him on there. I want to figure out if she is telling him off(I asked her to, yes I am giving her another chance) or if she is still playing us both. Please help me out. I know this is stupid guys - buts its the only way I will know if she is still talking to him or has old him off. Thanks in advance. Oh - BTW - I am in Ft Worth - she is in Lubbock at TTU.

Dead-Aim....it works best with previous versions of aim..it's like 4.95 one time fee, it's worth it I think. use it.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: OHFunds
How can you just walk away from 4 years of an excellent relationship(so I thought). I didnt sleep a damn wink lastnight. I love this girl - was planning the next step soon - but that has now changed.

your still young get out now while you can she sounds like a decietful cvnt.

EDIT: don't be so naive and think she Only TALKED to him. Thats pathetic. If you believe that I have some bridges for sale. Its likely this hasnt been her only transgression and in teh future she will have no problem doing it again.

 

[imported_nautique]

Dude just move on and find someone else that will not treat you like dirt.

 

[AbsolutDealage]

Originally posted by: OHFunds
I want to save this - I am almost 4 years into this thing. I understand her fling 300 miles away, I just want it to end. Please help me out guys.

Obviously those 4 years mean a lot more to you than they do to her.

I also dated through high school and had a long distance thing during college. I would not have hesitated to chuck the entire relationship out the window if she had cheated on me while I was gone.

Turning a relationship into a long distance one is like putting it in the pressure cooker. Luckily, you saw what her true colors were before you took the next step.

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: OHFunds
I did ask her. I know everything. I asked her to decide - and she told me that she wanted me. I know how easy it is to get away with things when your 300 miles away. I want to make sure she is done with him or I am done with her.

you sure she boned him? and if so, if there's even a reconciliation, her never speaking to him again should be the first rule you set-down. I dunno man.....

 

[Jikininki]

Originally posted by: OHFunds
How can you just walk away from 4 years of an excellent relationship(so I thought). I didnt sleep a damn wink lastnight. I love this girl - was planning the next step soon - but that has now changed.

Things don't always go as planned. sh!t happens.

I'm really sorry that your gf cheated..but you'll probably be way better off without her. If she was able to cheat on you once..you can bet that she can and will do it again.

good luck dude.

 

[OHFunds]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: OHFunds
Long story short, I had a rough night lastnight. I wont go into detail but I know she met this guy at college - TTU. She talks on AIM all the damn time, so I am sure she is talking to him on there. I want to figure out if she is telling him off(I asked her to, yes I am giving her another chance) or if she is still playing us both. Please help me out. I know this is stupid guys - buts its the only way I will know if she is still talking to him or has old him off. Thanks in advance. Oh - BTW - I am in Ft Worth - she is in Lubbock at TTU.

Dead-Aim....it works best with previous versions of aim..it's like 4.95 one time fee, it's worth it I think. use it.

What exactly does this software do?

 

[apac]

Know why she said she wanted you? Cause she can still string you along and get some on the side. You'll never trust her again, one of my friends just broke up with her bf cause he cheated on her a year earlier and they still tried to make it work.

Time to cut your losses.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: OHFunds

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: OHFunds
Long story short, I had a rough night lastnight. I wont go into detail but I know she met this guy at college - TTU. She talks on AIM all the damn time, so I am sure she is talking to him on there. I want to figure out if she is telling him off(I asked her to, yes I am giving her another chance) or if she is still playing us both. Please help me out. I know this is stupid guys - buts its the only way I will know if she is still talking to him or has old him off. Thanks in advance. Oh - BTW - I am in Ft Worth - she is in Lubbock at TTU.

Dead-Aim....it works best with previous versions of aim..it's like 4.95 one time fee, it's worth it I think. use it.

What exactly does this software do?

logs convos but forget the software your relationship is over.

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: AbsolutDealage

Originally posted by: OHFunds
I want to save this - I am almost 4 years into this thing. I understand her fling 300 miles away, I just want it to end. Please help me out guys.

Obviously those 4 years mean a lot more to you than they do to her.

I also dated through high school and had a long distance thing during college. I would not have hesitated to chuck the entire relationship out the window if she had cheated on me while I was gone.

Turning a relationship into a long distance one is like putting it in the pressure cooker. Luckily, you saw what her true colors were before you took the next step.

also remember...distance does weird things to people...and calling her a cvnt like other posters are isn't going to help the OP any. He loves her and doesn't see her as that, and honestly she might not be. So again, since I appear to the be the only person trying here to answer his question: I use Deadaim...go to www.jdennis.net i believe is the url

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: AbsolutDealage

Originally posted by: OHFunds
I want to save this - I am almost 4 years into this thing. I understand her fling 300 miles away, I just want it to end. Please help me out guys.

Obviously those 4 years mean a lot more to you than they do to her.

I also dated through high school and had a long distance thing during college. I would not have hesitated to chuck the entire relationship out the window if she had cheated on me while I was gone.

Turning a relationship into a long distance one is like putting it in the pressure cooker. Luckily, you saw what her true colors were before you took the next step.

also remember...distance does weird things to people...and calling her a cvnt like other posters are isn't going to help the OP any. He loves her and doesn't see her as that, and honestly she might not be. So again, since I appear to the be the only person trying here to answer his question: I use Deadaim...go to www.jdennis.net i believe is the url

if it ever comes down to spying on your SO its OVER OVER OVER

 

[AbsolutDealage]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
also remember...distance does weird things to people...and calling her a cvnt like other posters are isn't going to help the OP any. He loves her and doesn't see her as that, and honestly she might not be.

BS. Anyone who cheats is not worth being in a relationship with. Period.