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NAYAGT: Awkward situation with a guy friend

Preyhunter

Golden Member
First things first?we are both straight.

My best friend has asked me to do something for him that has made me feel a bit uncomfortable, to say the least. I?ve known this guy and have been best friends with him since elementary school. He?s the kind of friend that I?d not only help to move, but I?d help him move bodies if he needed it. He?s pretty good with the ladies, too. I want to be like him when I grow up.

He told me that he really needed me to do something for him that he wouldn?t normally ask me to do, but he?s kind of worried about it. I asked him what was up and he told me that, for the past few days, he?s had this irritation and some bumps around the bottom of his scrotum near the taint area that he can?t get a good look at. I almost gagged when he said that. I told him that it?s kinda fvcked up to ask me to do something like that and told him he ought to go to a doctor and have it looked at. He said that he didn?t want to go to the doctor, which he never does. This is a guy that broke his pinky finger a while back (or dislocated it badly) and wouldn?t go to the doctor because of it. That same finger is now all crooked. I then joked about the situation and changed the subject because I didn?t want to do it.

Now, I feel kinda bad because he came to me as his best friend with a need and I didn?t help him because of my being uncomfortable with the situation. I?ve thought about it and I?m pretty sure it was uncomfortable for him too, but he found the courage to ask me for this favor because he must be pretty worried. I?d have to be in pretty bad shape to ask another guy to look at my nutsack. I just wish he'd go to the doctor to have it looked at. The problem is, it might take me looking at it and telling him it looks like he needs to go to the doctor for him to actually go.

What should I do? I know it?s easy to tell someone else ?Sure, go look at his nuts? because it would be funny to tell someone to do that, but would YOU look at a scrotum for a friend?
 
Never, under any circumstances get yourself put in a situation where your face is near another mans balls. Unless you are a hot woman.
 
If you are pretty close, pretend to look, and tell him he needs to see a doctor immediately.

In either case, sores in any area of the body need to be checked out. Ulcerations of the skin can become worse, inflammed, burning, and even infected such that the ulcer digs straight to the bone. In his case, his balls.
 
Wow this is gonna be a flamefest, getting in on the ground floor.

If it were me personally, I'd do it for him but I'd do absolutely anything for my close friends... he's obviously really scared and it took a lot of balls (no pun intended) to ask another dude to look at it for him, especially someone who sees him everyday. Just do it, he doesn't have anything down there you've never seen before.
 
if we were like stranded miles away from doctors somewhere yes I'd have a look. other than that.........he needs to not be stubborn and goto a doctor.
 
I'd only do something like that for my very best friend (known him since kindergarten).

If he asked (and it was clear he was genuinely concerned) I would do it since I know he would do the same for me.
 
Dude, he's going to teabag you.

Anyway, think of it like this.

You go down there, and see something funky. What are either of you going to do without the help of a doctor? Put some lotion on it?
 
Originally posted by: Wooglin
Tell him to learn how to use those things that reflect images and stuff. 2 of them even.
Yup, or even hold the mirror up for him to see (you don't have to look, just hold the mirror).

That or make an appt with a doctor and MAKE him go with you, drive him there even. Who knows, it could be serious and his well being could be threatened.
 
Originally posted by: Preyhunter
First things first?we are both straight.

My best friend has asked me to do something for him that has made me feel a bit uncomfortable, to say the least. I?ve known this guy and have been best friends with him since elementary school. He?s the kind of friend that I?d not only help to move, but I?d help him move bodies if he needed it. He?s pretty good with the ladies, too. I want to be like him when I grow up.

He told me that he really needed me to do something for him that he wouldn?t normally ask me to do, but he?s kind of worried about it. I asked him what was up and he told me that, for the past few days, he?s had this irritation and some bumps around the bottom of his scrotum near the taint area that he can?t get a good look at. I almost gagged when he said that. I told him that it?s kinda fvcked up to ask me to do something like that and told him he ought to go to a doctor and have it looked at. He said that he didn?t want to go to the doctor, which he never does. This is a guy that broke his pinky finger a while back (or dislocated it badly) and wouldn?t go to the doctor because of it. That same finger is now all crooked. I then joked about the situation and changed the subject because I didn?t want to do it.

Now, I feel kinda bad because he came to me as his best friend with a need and I didn?t help him because of my being uncomfortable with the situation. I?ve thought about it and I?m pretty sure it was uncomfortable for him too, but he found the courage to ask me for this favor because he must be pretty worried. I?d have to be in pretty bad shape to ask another guy to look at my nutsack. I just wish he'd go to the doctor to have it looked at. The problem is, it might take me looking at it and telling him it looks like he needs to go to the doctor for him to actually go.

What should I do? I know it?s easy to tell someone else ?Sure, go look at his nuts? because it would be funny to tell someone to do that, but would YOU look at a scrotum for a friend?

Tell him I am sorry but your gonna die if you don`t go to Dr..scare the %^$# out of him!!
 
Tell your friend to get one of those things... what are they called... they're pretty popular. They were invented 40,000 years ago, so I know some are still around... oh, a MIRROR, that's it! Tell him to get a mirror.
 
Call the doctor, set up an appointment, drive him there telling him you're taking him out for lunch, shove him in the office and run? He'd have to walk home.

If he's good with the ladies, maybe it's an STD, and if you're his friend, you'll do it.
 
I once walked into a marsh unprotected and ended up with over 20+ ticks in my underwear and all over my body. Unfortunately, I couldn't get to my buttcrack to check if some ticks were in there. I had to ask some ppl to look... no one did =(
 
Reminds me of a joke about a guy that got bit on his butt by a snake.. Friend told him he's going to die..
 
Make the appointment, drive him there, make him go.

That's a pretty good idea. Only problem is, I don't know who his doctor is (if he even has one). I don't know what insurance he has or who would accept it.

If you are pretty close, pretend to look, and tell him he needs to see a doctor immediately.

That thought has crossed my mind, too. That way, I don't actually have to look at his coinpurse and it gets him to the doctor. I'd probably feel guilty for lying to him, though.

If it were me personally, I'd do it for him but I'd do absolutely anything for my close friends... he's obviously really scared and it took a lot of balls (no pun intended) to ask another dude to look at it for him, especially someone who sees him everyday. Just do it, he doesn't have anything down there you've never seen before.

I'd only do something like that for my very best friend (known him since kindergarten).

If he asked (and it was clear he was genuinely concerned) I would do it since I know he would do the same for me.

That's the other side of my dilemma. He is the closest friend I have and we've known each other longer than we've known any of our other friends.

You know he'll say....

"While you are down there......"

No he wouldn't. He'd lose anything that I'd be looking at down there.


 
That's the other side of my dilemma. He is the closest friend I have and we've known each other longer than we've known any of our other friends.

That's your answer right there then.. if you're really a true friend you'd do it. Just get it over with and recommend the doc. I'm not sure what he thinks you'll be able to tell him but maybe it's just jock itch or something...
 
Tell him to see a doctor. Otherwise, WhyTF hasn't he used a mirror, or two, or just taken a fürking picture and looked himself.

He's trying to get his chowdersack near your face. Tell him as a friend it's your responsibility to do what's best for him, i.e making him see a doctor. Looking at his scrotum and saying hmm yeah, it's lumpy, what's that going to do for him? He'll still have to see a doctor.....

 
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