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Matt2

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So, right before i left for college, I started talking to this girl that I had liked my entire high school career. WE hit it off and next thing I know, she says we're together.... awesome right? Not really, a week later i move to San Diego for college and she goes to UC Santa Barbara.

Even though we are pretty far apart, she insists she wants to be with me.

ok, so I finally made the six hour drive on Friday (traffic) and I go visit her.

Well we go to dinner and hang out with her new friends and some people that I knew from high school that go there now.

So we're just walkin around, drinkin, and I kinda get the idea that she is ignoring me. I come to realize that in fact she is totally blowing me off for these other people she made friends with. So, I'm sitting in her dorm room, she hasnt said a word to me and I just get up and leave. She asked me where I was going and I just kept walking. I ended up meeting some people and partying with people i had never met before. I wake up in the morning in someone's dorm room, she calls me and says she wants to talk to me, I'm lying there hung over saying to mslef, "hell no". I ran into her best friend and we talked and I told her how frustrated and how angry I was and she agreed with me that it was pretty messed up.

So I leave UCSB mad, angry, frustrated, sad and depressed. I get home to San Diego and apparently she called everyone I knew and told them that I had totally ignored her the whole night and ditched her for other people and that she never wanted to talk to me again because I was so F***ed up for what "I" did and that they should be mad at me too.

Is this not the most messed up thing u have ever heard?

I guess the moral of this story is that a pretty girl will not only break your heart, but also add insult to injury. Gentleman, beware, this girl is loose in thee world and has no feelings for others, and I am sure she is not alone.
 
Red Dawn

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: Matt2
So, right before i left for college, I started talking to this girl that I had liked my entire high school career. WE hit it off and next thing I know, she says we're together.... awesome right? Not really, a week later i move to San Diego for college and she goes to UC Santa Barbara.

Even though we are pretty far apart, she insists she wants to be with me.

ok, so I finally made the six hour drive on Friday (traffic) and I go visit her.

Well we go to dinner and hang out with her new friends and some people that I knew from high school that go there now.

So we're just walkin around, drinkin, and I kinda get the idea that she is ignoring me. I come to realize that in fact she is totally blowing me off for these other people she made friends with. So, I'm sitting in her dorm room, she hasnt said a word to me and I just get up and leave. She asked me where I was going and I just kept walking. I ended up meeting some people and partying with people i had never met before. I wake up in the morning in someone's dorm room, she calls me and says she wants to talk to me, I'm lying there hung over saying to mslef, "hell no". I ran into her best friend and we talked and I told her how frustrated and how angry I was and she agreed with me that it was pretty messed up.

So I leave UCSB mad, angry, frustrated, sad and depressed. I get home to San Diego and apparently she called everyone I knew and told them that I had totally ignored her the whole night and ditched her for other people and that she never wanted to talk to me again because I was so F***ed up for what "I" did and that they should be mad at me too.

Is this not the most messed up thing u have ever heard?

I guess the moral of this story is that a pretty girl will not only break your heart, but also add insult to injury. Gentleman, beware, this girl is loose in thee world and has no feelings for others, and I am sure she is not alone.
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No the moral of the story is that idiots play head games and then whine about it on ATOT when they get negative results.
 
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Matt2

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what head game was that?

Sorry if I am whining...

Had to vent somewhere i guess
 
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Hubris

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Throwing a tantrum and having it backfire in your face doesn't get much sympathy. You're an adult now, you need to TALK with other people to work things out.
 
rudeguy

rudeguy

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Originally posted by: Matt2
So, right before i left for college, I started talking to this girl that I had liked my entire high school career. WE hit it off and next thing I know, she says we're together.... awesome right? Not really, a week later i move to San Diego for college and she goes to UC Santa Barbara.

Even though we are pretty far apart, she insists she wants to be with me.

ok, so I finally made the six hour drive on Friday (traffic) and I go visit her.

Well we go to dinner and hang out with her new friends and some people that I knew from high school that go there now.

So we're just walkin around, drinkin, and I kinda get the idea that she is ignoring me. I come to realize that in fact she is totally blowing me off for these other people she made friends with. So, I'm sitting in her dorm room, she hasnt said a word to me and I just get up and leave. She asked me where I was going and I just kept walking. I ended up meeting some people and partying with people i had never met before. I wake up in the morning in someone's dorm room, she calls me and says she wants to talk to me, I'm lying there hung over saying to mslef, "hell no". I ran into her best friend and we talked and I told her how frustrated and how angry I was and she agreed with me that it was pretty messed up.

So I leave UCSB mad, angry, frustrated, sad and depressed. I get home to San Diego and apparently she called everyone I knew and told them that I had totally ignored her the whole night and ditched her for other people and that she never wanted to talk to me again because I was so F***ed up for what "I" did and that they should be mad at me too.

Is this not the most messed up thing u have ever heard?

I guess the moral of this story is that a pretty girl will not only break your heart, but also add insult to injury. Gentleman, beware, this girl is loose in thee world and has no feelings for others, and I am sure she is not alone.
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sounds like you acted immature

if you had tried to talk to her instead of being an asshat and pouting like a 3 year old, you might have gotten some action.

you might want to think about how you acted, and how you blew it with this girl to prevent things like this from happening again in the future
 
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Eli

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Originally posted by: rudeguy
Originally posted by: Matt2
So, right before i left for college, I started talking to this girl that I had liked my entire high school career. WE hit it off and next thing I know, she says we're together.... awesome right? Not really, a week later i move to San Diego for college and she goes to UC Santa Barbara.

Even though we are pretty far apart, she insists she wants to be with me.

ok, so I finally made the six hour drive on Friday (traffic) and I go visit her.

Well we go to dinner and hang out with her new friends and some people that I knew from high school that go there now.

So we're just walkin around, drinkin, and I kinda get the idea that she is ignoring me. I come to realize that in fact she is totally blowing me off for these other people she made friends with. So, I'm sitting in her dorm room, she hasnt said a word to me and I just get up and leave. She asked me where I was going and I just kept walking. I ended up meeting some people and partying with people i had never met before. I wake up in the morning in someone's dorm room, she calls me and says she wants to talk to me, I'm lying there hung over saying to mslef, "hell no". I ran into her best friend and we talked and I told her how frustrated and how angry I was and she agreed with me that it was pretty messed up.

So I leave UCSB mad, angry, frustrated, sad and depressed. I get home to San Diego and apparently she called everyone I knew and told them that I had totally ignored her the whole night and ditched her for other people and that she never wanted to talk to me again because I was so F***ed up for what "I" did and that they should be mad at me too.

Is this not the most messed up thing u have ever heard?

I guess the moral of this story is that a pretty girl will not only break your heart, but also add insult to injury. Gentleman, beware, this girl is loose in thee world and has no feelings for others, and I am sure she is not alone.
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sounds like you acted immature

if you had tried to talk to her instead of being an asshat and pouting like a 3 year old, you might have gotten some action.

you might want to think about how you acted, and how you blew it with this girl to prevent things like this from happening again in the future
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Regs

Regs

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I had a similar experience. When you feel like the girl was blowing you off I mean. It was mostly because I wasn't verbal enough to tell her how I felt about her.

Take for instance my passed date last Friday. We went to a party, she goes walking around ignoring me, talking to other guys, etc... So I'm here in the party shoved between 200 other people saying to myself: "Screw this I'm leaving" . So I went outside for some air not even telling my date where I am. So about...5 minutes later, sure enough I get a cell phone call. First call I never picked up, mostly because I couldn't hear it ring with all the noise going around, but the 2nd time I did pick up. Sure enough it was her asking where the hell I was, she sounded apologetic, however so did I. Once I told her over the phone how I felt she immediately left the party to go for a walk with me.

Later on we made kissy kissy in the car and had a great night.

Your problem is that you assumed that she was blowing you over. You both wanted attention to each other but none of you gave it, you just stubbornly waited.
 
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Jzero

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You are a ball-dropper and a whiner. You misinterpret her actions, then you blow her off, then you are a complete asshole to her, and SHE'S messed up for being mad at you? Grow the F up!
Welcome to the world of mature adults. When you are in a social setting with a woman and her friends, she isn't going to fawn all over you all night, because she's doing this thing that those of us "in the know" like to call "BEING SOCIAL."
If you wanted her to pay attention to you, you need to make your own freaking way. Enter the conversation. Be social. Don't be a clingy, whiny, PITA.
 
Red Dawn

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: Jzero
You are a ball-dropper and a whiner. You misinterpret her actions, then you blow her off, then you are a complete asshole to her, and SHE'S messed up for being mad at you? Grow the F up!
Welcome to the world of mature adults. When you are in a social setting with a woman and her friends, she isn't going to fawn all over you all night, because she's doing this thing that those of us "in the know" like to call "BEING SOCIAL."
If you wanted her to pay attention to you, you need to make your own freaking way. Enter the conversation. Be social. Don't be a clingy, whiny, PITA.
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Oh the Irony!
 
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Orsorum

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Originally posted by: Jzero
You are a ball-dropper and a whiner. You misinterpret her actions, then you blow her off, then you are a complete asshole to her, and SHE'S messed up for being mad at you? Grow the F up!
Welcome to the world of mature adults. When you are in a social setting with a woman and her friends, she isn't going to fawn all over you all night, because she's doing this thing that those of us "in the know" like to call "BEING SOCIAL."
If you wanted her to pay attention to you, you need to make your own freaking way. Enter the conversation. Be social. Don't be a clingy, whiny, PITA.
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I see. Tell us more.
 
johnjohn320

johnjohn320

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Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: Matt2
So, right before i left for college, I started talking to this girl that I had liked my entire high school career. WE hit it off and next thing I know, she says we're together.... awesome right? Not really, a week later i move to San Diego for college and she goes to UC Santa Barbara.

Even though we are pretty far apart, she insists she wants to be with me.

ok, so I finally made the six hour drive on Friday (traffic) and I go visit her.

Well we go to dinner and hang out with her new friends and some people that I knew from high school that go there now.

So we're just walkin around, drinkin, and I kinda get the idea that she is ignoring me. I come to realize that in fact she is totally blowing me off for these other people she made friends with. So, I'm sitting in her dorm room, she hasnt said a word to me and I just get up and leave. She asked me where I was going and I just kept walking. I ended up meeting some people and partying with people i had never met before. I wake up in the morning in someone's dorm room, she calls me and says she wants to talk to me, I'm lying there hung over saying to mslef, "hell no". I ran into her best friend and we talked and I told her how frustrated and how angry I was and she agreed with me that it was pretty messed up.

So I leave UCSB mad, angry, frustrated, sad and depressed. I get home to San Diego and apparently she called everyone I knew and told them that I had totally ignored her the whole night and ditched her for other people and that she never wanted to talk to me again because I was so F***ed up for what "I" did and that they should be mad at me too.

Is this not the most messed up thing u have ever heard?

I guess the moral of this story is that a pretty girl will not only break your heart, but also add insult to injury. Gentleman, beware, this girl is loose in thee world and has no feelings for others, and I am sure she is not alone.
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No the moral of the story is that idiots play head games and then whine about it on ATOT when they get negative results.
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Harsh, but agreed. You have felt she was ignoring you, but rather than ever mentioning it, you blew her off and left. She asked where you were going, and you just pouted. Next day, she wanted to talk to you, and you still pouted. Do you realize that you never actually told her that you felt like she was blowing you off? Nope, I'll bet she has no idea. All she knows is you walked out on her, and refused repeatedly to tell her what was going on, then picked up your toys and went home.
 

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EvilYoda

EvilYoda

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And you say freshman in college, eh? Looks like you missed some social classes in high school then. Seriously, you were both wrong, and that never turns out well.
 
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