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My pet peeve...tardiness!

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Originally posted by: Medellon
My biggest pet peeve is people who are constantly tardy or late! I am very punctual and when I say I'll be somewhere at a certain time I do everything I can to be on time. If I know I won't be able to make it(which is rare)I will call well beforehand. The problem is I have a relatively new girlfriend who is always running late and is never on time. She's such a sweet girl that I don't want to get mad at her but it really bothers me. How do I go about telling her? This is not a racist remark but it seems different ethnic groups regard time differently. For example, Hispanics and African-Americans I find are usually more relaxed with time while people of Asian descent are more rigid. Thoughts?

Here's what you do, tell her to meet you somewhere at say 3pm, but don't show up till 4... then you'll get there right when she does, problem solved.

I do this with all my friends cause they all Asian and they ALWAYS LATE, & it ain't no stereotype either 😛

I tell them to meet up at 6 when in reality we're suppose to meet at 7. I get there at 6:45 and guess what, they still not there yet...
 
I must be severely anal then. I always end up places 1/2 to 1 hour early because I am worried about being late. Then when I see people walking into class late I get pissed and stare at them.
 
Well, I'm am single-handedly trying to break us Americans from the rigid "never be late" policy. I'm habitually late.

Ryan
 
i'm always 15 minutes late to everywhere, all the time, like clockwork. i really try to be on time, i swear, but it's just impossible.
 
Originally posted by: rbloedow
Yea, americans are so anal about time. I live in Panama for a good part of my life, and being on time was never important. You were expected to be a little late, etc. Hell, even teh movies started about 10 minutes then they were supposed to. Americans put too much importance on being on time.
I thought Americans were known to be fat and lazy... thus leading to tardiness if you think about it...

Anyway, I'm Asian and I'm always on time. None of this "fashionably late" / everybody-look-at-me-I'm-here-now crap.
 
I get there when I get there, but I try to be (and usually am) on time. Unless something is seriously important I don't see what the big deal is. But then again I know alot of ultra-punctual nuts, and I can't stand them. BTW, you might not want to get in relationship with someone who doesn't share your "on-time" views.
 
Originally posted by: jumpr
I am psychotically punctual. It makes me really nervous if I'm not 15 minutes early for an appointment, because what if I cant find the room, or I get lost, or I have to take an emergency crap or something else disastrous? I think it always pays to be early.

My high school newspaper advisor (VERY cool, btw) told me once that he was meeting some students for dinner (who happened both to be African-American). One of them got there early and the other one was late. While they were waiting, the early student commented that the other kid was running on C.P.T. (Colored People's Time). When he told me that story, I thought it was hilarious - apparently C.P.T. dictates a 15 minute buffer of lateness.

😀

i am a stickler for being on time. i hate peple that are late because they waste MY time.

and HAHHHAHHHA emergency craps...i know what u mean!! AHHAHAHAAH
 
let me get this out of the way. your ethnicity remark is bullcrap. the consistantly late people on my job are of all races. you have people that respect time and those that do not, race is not a factor. you are stereotyping.... anyway...


My wife is a tardy person. After years of being a victim to her lack of respect for my time, I laid down the law. I told her that I have spent my last second waiting for her and if she is running late, I will leave her. period. tardiness shows a lack of respect, inconsideration and selfishness that I do not take lightly. Time is precious, feel free to waste yours if you like, but you better treat mine like gold or we have a problem. tardiness is a sign of immaturity IMHO.
 
Interesting quotes from an artcle entitled:

The Relativity of Time. Attitudes about punctuality vary from country to country.


"In many areas (including most of Southern Europe, Latin America, Africa, and the Middle East), time is a servant, not a master. The idea that a person should be ruled by the clock is amusing. In these countries, it's fine if a person is on time. But it's also fine if a person is late. After all, life is complex, and many things happen. If you spot a friend on the way to an appointment in Paris, surely it is more important to chat with your friend than to rush to some arbitrary deadline!"

"In contrast, time is money in the United States and most of Northern Europe. Minutes are a precious resource. There are never enough of them. When someone is late, they have wasted your time, which is a serious insult."

"It is impossible to say which way of looking at time is correct. Both are appropriate--in their own environments. We generally prefer the prevailing attitude of our native culture."

"Absolute punctuality is expected in Germany, the Netherlands, Finland, and Japan. In those countries, you'd better be there early, because every minute counts. And being late demonstrates that you cannot be trusted to keep your word or manage your time.
Countries where virtual punctuality is expected include the United States, Canada, Denmark, and Sweden. In those countries, most people will not be insulted if you are less than five minutes late. (Remember, that's most people--there are sticklers for exact punctuality in all cultures.)
Some countries consider you to be on time if you arrive less than a half-hour late. Such relatively punctual countries include Norway, Austria, Belgium, France, and much of Asia.
Countries that practice moderate punctuality allow someone to arrive an hour late. These include Spain, Portugal, Italy, and most of Latin America.
And then there are the nations of the Middle East and Africa, where punctuality is not traditionally valued. In such places, people could show up hours late (or not at all) without conveying an insult."


 
Originally posted by: Medellon
My biggest pet peeve is people who are constantly tardy or late! I am very punctual and when I say I'll be somewhere at a certain time I do everything I can to be on time. If I know I won't be able to make it(which is rare)I will call well beforehand. The problem is I have a relatively new girlfriend who is always running late and is never on time. She's such a sweet girl that I don't want to get mad at her but it really bothers me. How do I go about telling her? This is not a racist remark but it seems different ethnic groups regard time differently. For example, Hispanics and African-Americans I find are usually more relaxed with time while people of Asian descent are more rigid. Thoughts?

i hate when ppl eat and make noise. like smacking the food or something. My x does that, drove me crazy. so impolite
 
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