Well here it is,
I have a friend. He is one of the best people that ever walked the earth. Recently, his girlfriend and him broke up. So the situation is this: she believes that her parents are so adamant about their wishes for her and her future husband that she is only good for a doctor. She said that the reason why they HAD to break up was the fact that he will not be a doctor, so thus her parents won't like him. Because she does not have the preverbial "balls" to go against her parents, she broke up and hooked up with this guy that will be a pharmacist. She swears up and down that they are not hooked up (and so does he) but you have to be an idiot to not see it. Now my beef with her: We used to be good friends while she was hooked up but now I hate her. Why? because she exemplifies everything that I am against. First and foremost, that she can believe one thing so strongly (ie, her relationship with my friends and her belief in a simple non-material life) and just throw it away at a whim. Because of this, I have been recently calling her a whooore and I feel bad about it so I came up with multiple solutions:
1) Call her and tell her what I think about her and her actions, beliefs, etc. and just stop calling her names. I would tell her that she is whacked and let her know that I am not down with her but still apologize for the name calling and offer her advice about what I believe she should do.
2) Call her and apologize for what I said and forget her all together and never acknowlwdge her existancce.
3) 2 + harrass that new boyfriend of hers and beat the hell out of him for screwing around with my firend and his business.
I will entertain any thoughts you guys might have for me. What should I do??
I have a friend. He is one of the best people that ever walked the earth. Recently, his girlfriend and him broke up. So the situation is this: she believes that her parents are so adamant about their wishes for her and her future husband that she is only good for a doctor. She said that the reason why they HAD to break up was the fact that he will not be a doctor, so thus her parents won't like him. Because she does not have the preverbial "balls" to go against her parents, she broke up and hooked up with this guy that will be a pharmacist. She swears up and down that they are not hooked up (and so does he) but you have to be an idiot to not see it. Now my beef with her: We used to be good friends while she was hooked up but now I hate her. Why? because she exemplifies everything that I am against. First and foremost, that she can believe one thing so strongly (ie, her relationship with my friends and her belief in a simple non-material life) and just throw it away at a whim. Because of this, I have been recently calling her a whooore and I feel bad about it so I came up with multiple solutions:
1) Call her and tell her what I think about her and her actions, beliefs, etc. and just stop calling her names. I would tell her that she is whacked and let her know that I am not down with her but still apologize for the name calling and offer her advice about what I believe she should do.
2) Call her and apologize for what I said and forget her all together and never acknowlwdge her existancce.
3) 2 + harrass that new boyfriend of hers and beat the hell out of him for screwing around with my firend and his business.
I will entertain any thoughts you guys might have for me. What should I do??
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