My mom was 300lb and was beating me for stealing her food when I was skinny

[Gizmo j]

I can't believe I put up for this for so long.

Ever since I could remember I have ALWAYS been skinny, my mom was ALWAYS about 300lb and she was ALWAYS beating a punishing me because I was ALWAYS stealing food!

I was never even given an allowance to buy my own food either.

I basicly had to ask permission to eat anything and most of the time she would say no. And if she said yes it was not for enough food to be satisfied with.

And it was not like my mom just wanted me to eat HEALTHY, she didn't want me to eat ANYTHING! Even if it was fruit and vegetables.

I have a suspicion my mom was afraid of me getting bigger or stronger then her.

When I was 18 I got on food stamps for $160 a month and COULD NOT BELIEVE the amount of food I was able to buy!

Edit: Another thing is, my mom seemed to believe that BECAUSE I was small and she was big, that meant I HAD to eat less and she HAD to eat more. She believed that when your big you "utilized" food and when your skinny the food just goes right through you.

Onetime a co-worker of my mom said I needed to eat something because I was skinny and my mom was SCANDALIZED and said that BECAUSE I was skinny that meant I needed less food.

 

[Muadib]

I can't tell if you are serious, or if this is bs. For your sake, I hope it's bs.

 

[IronWing]

Edit: Another thing is, my mom seemed to believe that BECAUSE I was small and she was big, that meant I HAD to eat less and she HAD to eat more. She believed that when your big you "utilized" food and when your skinny the food just goes right through you.

Onetime a co-worker of my mom said I needed to eat something because I was skinny and my mom was SCANDALIZED and said that BECAUSE I was skinny that meant I needed less food.

Your mom has a future as a conservative economist.

 

[Greenman]

Your mom has a future as a conservative economist.

Let's keep the propaganda in P&N.

 

[nutxo]

Let's keep the propaganda in P&N.

They cant help it. Its their religion.

 

[lxskllr]

Epsom salt is cheap. Mom would be wondering why food went straight through her too if she didn't feed me.

 

[nutxo]

I can't believe I put up for this for so long.

Ever since I could remember I have ALWAYS been skinny, my mom was ALWAYS about 300lb and she was ALWAYS beating a punishing me because I was ALWAYS stealing food!

I was never even given an allowance to buy my own food either.

I basicly had to ask permission to eat anything and most of the time she would say no. And if she said yes it was not for enough food to be satisfied with.

And it was not like my mom just wanted me to eat HEALTHY, she didn't want me to eat ANYTHING! Even if it was fruit and vegetables.

I have a suspicion my mom was afraid of me getting bigger or stronger then her.

When I was 18 I got on food stamps for $160 a month and COULD NOT BELIEVE the amount of food I was able to buy!

Edit: Another thing is, my mom seemed to believe that BECAUSE I was small and she was big, that meant I HAD to eat less and she HAD to eat more. She believed that when your big you "utilized" food and when your skinny the food just goes right through you.

Onetime a co-worker of my mom said I needed to eat something because I was skinny and my mom was SCANDALIZED and said that BECAUSE I was skinny that meant I needed less food.

Was this a long time ago or a recent thing?

 

[Gizmo j]

Was this a long time ago or a recent thing?

Im 25 now, left moms house at 18.

 

[randay]

Im 25 now, left moms house at 18.

have you confronted her about it since leaving?

 

[Gizmo j]

have you confronted her about it since leaving?

Not really.

I ran into her a couple times but never had a real conversation.

 

[Ichinisan]

OP, your mother really messed you up. Now is the time to start building a normal life for yourself.

 

[Gizmo j]

My mom also would say that I was like a sociopath for "stealing" her food, she would be like, "HE STOLE FROM HIS OWN MOTHER! WHAT'S STOPPING HIM FROM KILLING SOMEBODY!?

 

[JEDIYoda]

I can't believe I put up for this for so long.

Ever since I could remember I have ALWAYS been skinny, my mom was ALWAYS about 300lb and she was ALWAYS beating a punishing me because I was ALWAYS stealing food!

I was never even given an allowance to buy my own food either.

I basicly had to ask permission to eat anything and most of the time she would say no. And if she said yes it was not for enough food to be satisfied with.

And it was not like my mom just wanted me to eat HEALTHY, she didn't want me to eat ANYTHING! Even if it was fruit and vegetables.

I have a suspicion my mom was afraid of me getting bigger or stronger then her.

When I was 18 I got on food stamps for $160 a month and COULD NOT BELIEVE the amount of food I was able to buy!

Edit: Another thing is, my mom seemed to believe that BECAUSE I was small and she was big, that meant I HAD to eat less and she HAD to eat more. She believed that when your big you "utilized" food and when your skinny the food just goes right through you.

Onetime a co-worker of my mom said I needed to eat something because I was skinny and my mom was SCANDALIZED and said that BECAUSE I was skinny that meant I needed less food.

ahahahaaaaaaaa you are too funny!! hahahaaaaaaa

 

[BoomerD]

Ya little fuck...how dare you steal food from yo momma? She shoulda hung you up and beat you like a rug...or a pinata.

 

[Red Squirrel]

Damn, if all this is true sounds like you had a crappy childhood, that sucks. Hearing stories like that makes me thankful I grew up in a normal family setting with caring parents. Went to visit my parents today since my grandparents were there too to visit before they head down south for a couple months. Ended up coming back home with food, and wine lol.

 

[Ichinisan]

My mom also would say that I was like a sociopath for "stealing" her food, she would be like, "HE STOLE FROM HIS OWN MOTHER! WHAT'S STOPPING HIM FROM KILLING SOMEBODY!?

Explains a lot. You need to abandon her 100% and never let her poison your life again. Get far, far away.

 

[Fritzo]

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