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Well, if it turns out she's pregnant & if it goes full term & if you get married, kids are great, and you 2 should have a great looking kids.
 
Originally posted by: Red
Originally posted by: pyonir
Originally posted by: Red
I blame violence and sexuality on tv, along with porn on the internet.
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Keep running your mouth and you're not gonna get a Christmas card with our family picture on it.
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I've already seen your mom. No thanks.
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Shut it, please. If you wanna be negative all the time I'd like to ask to refrain from posting in my threads. Why are you always negative? You joke with Roger, I joke with Roger. You get along with people, I get along with people... yet you always come and ride me in my threads. Please stop.
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Not our fault when you make it so easy for us
 
buy a ring and give it to her when she gets back.

the test drive is over. time to put your money where your <*> was.
 
Originally posted by: pyonir

Don't forget a lot of the Elite members.
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Actually, I've never had a problem with an Elite, in fact I've been personally helped by a couple.

The people I have an issue with are the proprietary fvckers who're using this communal space to indulge in egocentric emotional excesses. Especially, as you mentioned, trying to imply that a thread they've started or wherein they've posted, is somehow sacrosanct. It's public space people, get over your d4mn self.
 
I'm actually going through the same problem. Tho my gf has not missed her period or actually its not that time of the month yet. But shes been having stomach problems and wierd pains on parts of her body. But taking BC does alter the period timing to go whacky. I've gone through this with different girls in the past and nothing ever happens, and I'm still crossing my fingers, tho I keep making the same mistakes.
 
My wife sometimes gets hers late if she's been ultra-stressed, even taking them everyday...

You're probably OK... Wouldn't worry overly much..
 
Originally posted by: djheater
Actually, I've never had a problem with an Elite, in fact I've been personally helped by a couple.

The people I have an issue with are the proprietary fvckers who're using this communal space to indulge in egocentric emotional excesses. Especially, as you mentioned, trying to imply that a thread they've started or wherein they've posted, is somehow sacrosanct. It's public space people, get over your d4mn self.
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Oh i've gotten help from a lot of the Elite's as well...also gotten a lot of help from senior members, golden, diamond, platinum and lifers.

The rest of your post...couldn't agree more. 🙂
 
After reading how all these possible pregnancies cause brain damage in men, maybe getting snipped is worth it.

Red, if she is pregnant, remember that nobody else on this board is more deserving of a little monster that does nothing but drain money and break everything (jk) 😀
 
Originally posted by: DevilsAdvocate
Originally posted by: Nebor
Originally posted by: DevilsAdvocate
Originally posted by: Nebor
That's not an irreversible fate, unless you have a problem with the doctors that fix mistakes.
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... if you want to call another human being a mistake.
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I won't get into it. Different people have different ideas of what a "human being" is, pertaining to being technically alive. I really don't care if you think I'm a heartless child killer.
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Your words. Not mine. I just think that people should take responsibility for their "mistakes"
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They are... they're correcting the mistake before it becomes an even bigger one that they couldn't handle.

Yes, it sounds callous, cruel, politcally incorrect, whatever... but it's my opinion, tis all..
 
Originally posted by: IHYLN
OMG WHERE ARE YOUR MORALS? SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE?!!
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You, sir, are no gentleman.

Well dude, not much you can really do. Ball is in your fiancee's court. I will say if she turns out to be for sure pregnant you need to go on vacation. Just take a month or whatever, see the sights, get some carefree relaxation in, 'cause you're probably never going to vacation the same way again. Not that vacationing with your kids can't be rewarding and enjoyable, but you get the idea.

Go to Hawaii. Unless you, like, live there or something.
 
Originally posted by: pyonir
Originally posted by: Red
Shut it, please. If you wanna be negative all the time I'd like to ask to refrain from posting in my threads. Why are you always negative? You joke with Roger, I joke with Roger. You get along with people, I get along with people... yet you always come and ride me in my threads. Please stop.
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Because 90% of your threads are complete garbage and flamebait. I get tired of it. I will not refrain from posting in your threads, as this is a message board I am registered to, and as such, am allowed to post in any thread that is open.

Regardless, you come into threads and do the same thing. Spouting off about your "morals" and how you can twist it around to fit your need to blame television, movies, pornography, whatever else it is this week. Then you start an argument in the thread about it, because you just HAVE to say something. It's annoying, isn't it?
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Just to fan the flames some... what does the bible teach about pre-marital sex?
 
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: pyonir
Originally posted by: Red
Shut it, please. If you wanna be negative all the time I'd like to ask to refrain from posting in my threads. Why are you always negative? You joke with Roger, I joke with Roger. You get along with people, I get along with people... yet you always come and ride me in my threads. Please stop.
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Because 90% of your threads are complete garbage and flamebait. I get tired of it. I will not refrain from posting in your threads, as this is a message board I am registered to, and as such, am allowed to post in any thread that is open.

Regardless, you come into threads and do the same thing. Spouting off about your "morals" and how you can twist it around to fit your need to blame television, movies, pornography, whatever else it is this week. Then you start an argument in the thread about it, because you just HAVE to say something. It's annoying, isn't it?
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Just to fan the flames some... what does the bible teach about pre-marital sex?
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That it is ok as long as you have:

a) Kidnapped and raped the person but intend to marry them.

b) The person was a Gentile and you intend to kill them and their whole family.

c) It's ok as long as you repent.
 
She should just take the test now, at 2.5 weeks past it will be very accurate. No matter how she 'feels', it seems you are going through some sort agony (stomach in knots, not able to focus, etc.) so let her know it would help you out.

Good luck, either way.
 
Originally posted by: DevilsAdvocate
You were going to marry her anyway, and you were likely going to have kids anyway. It just happened a little earlier than you would have liked.

Embrace it.

I would look on the bright side. If she is pregnant, you don't really have to wear protection for about 9 months. 😉
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I have to agree with this. My wife and I had talked about getting married after being together for 2 1/2 years and then one day, she found out she was pregnant. So, we just hurried the wedding by a few months. No big deal man. You say you were getting married anyway, just go ahead and do it. Sounds a lot like my situation 12 years ago. Still happily married to this day. Just go for it man.🙂
 
You are both attractive, you will have a beautiful baby 🙂 Fatherhood rules, and even though it'll make your life tougher the rewards will easily outweigh that. BTW, condoms to me are like eating a steak in plastic wrap, you can chew it, but you can't taste it 😉
 
Originally posted by: rahvin
That it is ok as long as you have:

b) The person was a Gentile and you intend to kill them and their whole family.
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You also have to be raping that gentile, right? The bible does say a lot about being able to rape people who disagree with you.
 
Originally posted by: DevilsAdvocate
You were going to marry her anyway, and you were likely going to have kids anyway. It just happened a little earlier than you would have liked.

Embrace it.

I would look on the bright side. If she is pregnant, you don't really have to wear protection for about 9 months. 😉
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If she is also on board with this.

Anyways most women esp the first pregnancy aren't full term...if you make it past the 3 month mark of still being pregnant then I'd start to worry.

Missing a pill for a whole week is kind of moronic if you guys are still having sex.
 
The part that scares me about Red being a dad besides him not getting tools for fathers day because he already is one is that we'll have more threads about sh1t such as: "Why is my baby black?" and "My wife comes home late while I'm barefoot in the kitchen".
 
Originally posted by: Nebor
Originally posted by: Red
Well, I've always preached responsibility, and I think this will prove to be a test of my character.

My mother had an abortion, I wouldn't get one. It seems like a really easy way out, but at the same time it seems like a really unresponsible thing to do.

I'll suck it up either way.
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It's not really your decision though. Technically you can't get an abortion.
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Leave troll, you wanna talk about abortion rights start a thread in P&amp;N. OP good luck either way 😀
 
Originally posted by: Nebor
Originally posted by: Red
Originally posted by: Nebor
Originally posted by: Red
Well, I've always preached responsibility, and I think this will prove to be a test of my character.

My mother had an abortion, I wouldn't get one. It seems like a really easy way out, but at the same time it seems like a really unresponsible thing to do.

I'll suck it up either way.
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It's not really your decision though. Technically you can't get an abortion.
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You're right 😉 As soon as she told me, I said "do what you want to do, but I'll support you either way." The easy-way-out side of my personality is telling me to try to talk her into aborting, but my... right-thing-to-do side (my better side) is telling me to be a man for once.
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You have no say in this. You have to stick with the "Do whatever you think is right" path or she will hate you forever and blame you. Seriously. Don't endorse either way if you plan on staying with this woman.
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Out of curiosity have you ever BEEN with a woman? She isn't gonna be like F*ck him its my decision I don't want him telling me his opinion, esp if they are engaged. She'll want help making the decision, and yes it IS partly his decision he will have to care for the child down the road as well as the mother, he is allowed to voice his opinion, he can't make her do something she doesn't want to do, but he is entitled to share his opinion.
 
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