My heart has now stopped beating

[BadNewsBears]

Let the flaming begin!
http://www.morningafterpill.org/mapinfo1.htm

 

[Gage8]

Originally posted by: Slasher2k
I hate to say this, but if you play with fire, you get burned..

that's right man...welcome to life

 

[NuclearFusi0n]

Originally posted by: Munchies
Let the flaming begin!
http://www.morningafterpill.org/mapinfo1.htm

wayyyyyyyyyy too late for that. =\

 

[SagaLore]

 

[SagaLore]

It could be a miscarriage.

 

[anno]

As for the more reliable form of birth control, we've never had any scares like this before. We both agreed sex is not worth this sort of scare, so we won't be needing that anymore.

you sound like a caring and mature young man, your girlfriend is a fortunate young lady. I'm not sure how realistic this particular decision is, though.

the health department wherever you live offers free/low cost womens health services through their family planning clinic. privacy is assured (parents won't find out.. this was the case when I availed myself of these services in the 70's, privacy laws have only improved over the years.. no worries). I don't know where you live, but here is the info from the backwards state of south carolina.

I'm not just giving you idle advice.. I've been there myself.. now I have a 19yo daughter with a 20yo boyfriend. I prefer not to think about these things, if I happen to I prefer to think they're not happening! but.. they're both adults, and it's really none of my business. I had my turn to make my choices, and my years to have a say in hers, and now it's not my turn anymore. so.. best I can do from here out is watch and be proud when appropriate and worry when I can't help myself.., offer advice when it's solicited, keep it to myself when it's not and trust that while she will surely make choices that I might wish she wouldn't from here on out, they will at least not be stupid choices.

if you, or your girlfriend, were mine, I'd wish you'd get yourselves to the family planning clinic, asap.

anno

 

[Viper GTS]

[EDIT]I was a little long in replying, I missed an update. I will leave this post intact, but you have obviously already made the decision (and a good one, if you stick to it).[/EDIT]

Something you might want to consider, if the possibility of pregnancy terrifies you so much are you really in any position to be having sex?

Pregnancy is always a possibility, & although you take every precaution to avoid it if it happens it should not be something that makes your heart stop.

IMHO you have no business having sex, as you're obviously incapable of dealing with the consequences.

Viper GTS

 

[gordy]

Originally posted by: Viper GTS

IMHO you have no business having sex, as you're obviously incapable of dealing with the consequences.

Viper GTS

exactly, sex is over-rated

lol, you never see in the media the post-coital "Honey, grab me a towel i'm dripping everywhere..."

 

[Pepsi90919]

Originally posted by: djheater
Don't be so egocentric. You're probably not scared half as sh!tless as she is right now.

<--- Got my 20 year old girlfriend preggers when I was 22


(happy ending, we're very happily married with two beautiful daughters now)


50 years ago a pregnancy at your age would have been completely normal. This idea of a prolonged adolescence is silly. You're an adult, you had sex, you might have a baby. Deal.

BTW: I don't believe pregnancy tests work at such an early stage. She SHOULD go to her doctor about the discharge etc. period.

wow, seems like you've got the answer to all of life's problems in that little bubble of yours.

 

[Iron Woode]

Originally posted by: SagaLore
It could be a miscarriage.

It could be a lot of things.

They should see a doctor asap.

My ex had irregular periods. They weren't enjoyable either. And, yes, she got pregnant at 19 (I was 24). After 2 months she had a miscarriage. It was horrible and painfull and very sad. It is also very hard on a relationship.

Just go see a doctor already to find out what is going on.

 

[zCypher]

You can't always prevent it. Sometimes a woman can get pregnant despite taking all the necessary precautions. Good luck!

 

[CPA]

Originally posted by: Alphathree33

Originally posted by: Ulfwald
This is going to sound disgusting, but...... If something did happen and she is preggars, but severe cramping and discharge are occuring, she could be having a miscarriage. Find out for sure from a Dr., don't sit there and specualte about it.

Good point but... a miscarriage after at most three days of pregnancy?

Most definitely, and I only know from experience. My wife had one only 12 days after becoming pregnant.

 

[DevilsAdvocate]

You need to take your gf to a doctor.

Also - what is wrong with all of you people who pile on a guy when he is down?

 

[gordy]

Originally posted by: zCypher
You can't always prevent it. Sometimes a woman can get pregnant despite taking all the necessary precautions. Good luck!

ya you can:

men: keep it zipped
women: close yer legs

100% effective

 

[Mookow]

Originally posted by: zCypher
You can't always prevent it. Sometimes a woman can get pregnant despite taking all the necessary precautions. Good luck!

Yup. My mom was on the pill, my parents were using condoms, and yet... here I am!

 

[yakko]

Has she been under a lot of stress lately? That can cause a menstral cycle to go out of whack. It may also be something besides a pregnancy. When was the last time she saw her OB/GYN?

 

[Viper GTS]

Originally posted by: Mookow

Originally posted by: zCypher
You can't always prevent it. Sometimes a woman can get pregnant despite taking all the necessary precautions. Good luck!

Yup. My mom was on the pill, my parents were using condoms, and yet... here I am!

Funny, my conception story is remarkably similar.

I always knew my parents were on birth control when I was conceived, I didn't know until recently that they were using TWO methods.



Viper GTS

 

[Mookow]

Originally posted by: Viper GTS

Originally posted by: Mookow

Originally posted by: zCypher
You can't always prevent it. Sometimes a woman can get pregnant despite taking all the necessary precautions. Good luck!

Yup. My mom was on the pill, my parents were using condoms, and yet... here I am!

Funny, my conception story is remarkably similar.

I always knew my parents were on birth control when I was conceived, I didn't know until recently that they were using TWO methods.



Viper GTS

I'm also known as occassionally being a stubborn bastard. I think I demonstrated that early in life

 

[Shantanu]

What do you want us to tell you? You shouldn't have put your d|ck where it didn't belong.

 

[Hammer]

take her to the doctor. at least then you know what you're dealing with.

 

[Alphathree33]

So we went to the doctor. Long story short, she's not pregnant. It might just go away, she might have a yeast(sp?) infection.

Whew.

 

[her209]

Don't do the crime if you won't do the time.

 

[JeffreyLebowski]

go to the pet store and get two rats. Starve them for a few days, then tie them to a string and set them loose on her (|), they'll take care of the rest.

 

[hdeck]

Originally posted by: Viper GTS

Originally posted by: Mookow

Originally posted by: zCypher
You can't always prevent it. Sometimes a woman can get pregnant despite taking all the necessary precautions. Good luck!

Yup. My mom was on the pill, my parents were using condoms, and yet... here I am!

Funny, my conception story is remarkably similar.

I always knew my parents were on birth control when I was conceived, I didn't know until recently that they were using TWO methods.



Viper GTS

that's nothing. my grandma had her tubes tied and still got pregnant with my uncle!

 

[Kemosabe1447]

Originally posted by: MichaelD
Go to the local grocery/drug store and purchase a pregnancy test kit. They are about $12-$15. Read the instructions that came with it before using to ensure the most accurate results possible. If it comes up positive, she needs to go get a pregnancy blood test done; those are 100% accurate.

Good luck to you; it would suck having to get married at 20 years old.

But if she's open to an abortion, then your problems are solved. Good luck.

NOTE:
The above comment (you know which one) is my statement and not an invitation to start a flame war. Any nasty comments directed my way will be ignored.

This is not a flame...but all I wanted to say was please don't kill anyone...