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My Girls MISERY + Severy ACUTE problem continues...please with my misery..plz..thanks :)(

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This only works if she has the net and uses it a decent amount.. but.. one sly trick that I picked up is to ask her friend for her E-mail address, take a quick look at any profile that she has, then see what she likes. Then ask her friend to 'Introduce' you two online. Talk a bit about what she likes (her friend could help you out) common ground.. music.. movies.. anything. Then once you know her half decently, ask which school she's at, if you know her from school. If not, ask her where she works. If you know her at school, pull out some line about realizing that you're at the same school and arange a time to meet. Then ask her out. If not, then arrange a place to meet, maybe a restaraunt or something. Buy her something, then ask her out.

I've used this once. Works pretty well..

The only problem is that the 'Building phase', where you get to know what she likes, (And do some research on it) takes a bit of time.
 
Here's what you do

Ask out some other girl that you aren't the least bit attracted to. If she says no, at least you have some practice. If she says yes, go out with her until the girl you REALLY want notices. Then she'll want you due to the law that chicks always want what another chick has.

However, by that time maybe you will have developed a real relationship with the girl you asked out first and you may not want this other girl anymore.

Oh, and why doesn't the caption say a bunny with TWO pancakes on its head???
 
"Do you have any girl pals? That can help talk to girls. Approach her as a friend instead of targetting beyond that. At least its easier to crack jokes."

ANSWER: NO i have NO GIRL PALS, all of my friends are guys and NO I AM NOT GAY EITHER.

"more important question - is he in grade school, or middle school?"
I am now in my last year of high school and going to uni this september. I turned 17 in January 23rd.

Why i have crap with girls: I am from Singapore and since grade/elementary school to high school i have been to an ALL GUYS school.

Today at lunch i saw her again 🙁
 
Originally posted by: nanyangview

"more important question - is he in grade school, or middle school?"
I am now in my last year of high school and going to uni this september. I turned 17 in January 23rd.

Why i have crap with girls: I am from Singapore and since grade/elementary school to high school i have been to an ALL GUYS school.

Today at lunch i saw her again 🙁
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Forget it then. When you go to college it's a completely different ballgame. Any relationship you may have had with this girl is probably too little, too late right now. You'll have a much better selection where you're going, and a much more friendly environment.

But then again, since summer's almost here and you won't be back in the fall, ASK HER OUT YOU GODDAMN WUSS.

MAYBE you'll be rejected.
MAYBE she'll laugh at you.

WHO THE HELL CARES. JUST DO IT. You can never get anywhere if you don't try. If you're so scared of rejection and failure, you'll carry this problem with you for the rest of your life. Get over it now before you become like our 30-year-old depraved virgin friends at ATOT.
 
Originally posted by: FishTankX
This only works if she has the net and uses it a decent amount.. but.. one sly trick that I picked up is to ask her friend for her E-mail address, take a quick look at any profile that she has, then see what she likes. Then ask her friend to 'Introduce' you two online. Talk a bit about what she likes (her friend could help you out) common ground.. music.. movies.. anything. Then once you know her half decently, ask which school she's at, if you know her from school. If not, ask her where she works. If you know her at school, pull out some line about realizing that you're at the same school and arange a time to meet. Then ask her out. If not, then arrange a place to meet, maybe a restaraunt or something. Buy her something, then ask her out.

I've used this once. Works pretty well..

The only problem is that the 'Building phase', where you get to know what she likes, (And do some research on it) takes a bit of time.
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Why the hell would you go through all this, when all it takes is 10 secs to talk to her yourself? Stop playing games and just be yourself and ask her.
 
Originally posted by: Moralpanic
Originally posted by: FishTankX
This only works if she has the net and uses it a decent amount.. but.. one sly trick that I picked up is to ask her friend for her E-mail address, take a quick look at any profile that she has, then see what she likes. Then ask her friend to 'Introduce' you two online. Talk a bit about what she likes (her friend could help you out) common ground.. music.. movies.. anything. Then once you know her half decently, ask which school she's at, if you know her from school. If not, ask her where she works. If you know her at school, pull out some line about realizing that you're at the same school and arange a time to meet. Then ask her out. If not, then arrange a place to meet, maybe a restaraunt or something. Buy her something, then ask her out.

I've used this once. Works pretty well..

The only problem is that the 'Building phase', where you get to know what she likes, (And do some research on it) takes a bit of time.
Click to expand...

Why the hell would you go through all this, when all it takes is 10 secs to talk to her yourself? Stop playing games and just be yourself and ask her.
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Mostly because she didn't know me at all, and I used this as an ice breaker. You know, get to know what she likes and stuff.
 
Even if you do acutally ask her out what then. You realize you are gonna have to talk to her in person on a date.

Convo:
Girl: Hey hows it going?
Him: Good.
Girl: Well thats great how do you like my hot tight sweater that makes me look so hot?
Him: Ummmm. Ummmm you look good.
Girl: Where are we going for our date?
Him: Somewhere.
Girl: Ok Ok can you say more then 3 words in a answer? Ask me some questions?
Him: Yes. How's it going?
Girl: Good.
Him: I am a little nervous.
Girl: Yea I can tell. You know who I like its that hunky football player . You know number 69. Ohh that reminds me thats my favorite posistion.
Downhill from here.

But you live and you learn. My first date I couldn't stop commenting how beautiful my dates eyes were. She liked it but kinda made her weirded out. Luckily Im still with her.

I had a crush once with the same problem but I never did anything about it.
 
I find it easier to speak to a person

1. Who knows a little about me before hand

2. Who I know a little about beforehand.

That's just me though. It also helps if she likes you before hand.
 
stop stressing, take 2 shots walk up and talk.
aint gonna get over the fear of talking to women unless you start doing it.
whats the worst that could happen? she turns you down in dramatic fashion in front of people? who cares. you're going to uni anyway.
 
Damn.. you really react physically to her. Maybe it's better for you to forget about her, at least for a while. I wouldn't want to be with a girl that made me freak out.
 
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