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My girlfriend thinks she is falling in love with me....
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Hmmm... could be complicated. Real questions are, how much do you like this girl? and how much do you respect her?
If you just like her, think she'd make a good booty call, etc. then you can string this along for a while without much to worry about.Since it's SHE who confessed love first, she's already made a monumental commitment in her mind (well for a typical female anyway, and especially based on what you said about her history) and so is likely not all that willing to give you up easy. Heck, I've known enough girls who love the slime and stay by their side regardless of how they're treated.
Now, for the respect angle. If you respect her, and want this relationship to have some kind of a serious future, it's best to tell her to cool it. How you'd go about doing that I can't say, you know this girl best of anyone here. Since you're writing here and apparently feeling conflicted about her confession of love, you should explain this to her now, so she dosen't start making long term plans when you're still thinking about looking elsewhere.
The latter approach also has the added bonus of flushing her out if she's a realtionship psycho and regards you two as a couple already. If she acts like this is the worst thing in the world that's happened to her, and generally goes off the deep end, that's a pretty clear sign that the relationship was not meant to be. (yet)
If you just like her, think she'd make a good booty call, etc. then you can string this along for a while without much to worry about.Since it's SHE who confessed love first, she's already made a monumental commitment in her mind (well for a typical female anyway, and especially based on what you said about her history) and so is likely not all that willing to give you up easy. Heck, I've known enough girls who love the slime and stay by their side regardless of how they're treated.
Now, for the respect angle. If you respect her, and want this relationship to have some kind of a serious future, it's best to tell her to cool it. How you'd go about doing that I can't say, you know this girl best of anyone here. Since you're writing here and apparently feeling conflicted about her confession of love, you should explain this to her now, so she dosen't start making long term plans when you're still thinking about looking elsewhere.
The latter approach also has the added bonus of flushing her out if she's a realtionship psycho and regards you two as a couple already. If she acts like this is the worst thing in the world that's happened to her, and generally goes off the deep end, that's a pretty clear sign that the relationship was not meant to be. (yet)
Men give love to get sex
Women give sex to get love
It's that simple, look at Eakers post on the first page.
Women give sex to get love
It's that simple, look at Eakers post on the first page.
abracadabra1
Diamond Member
I knew it the minute I met her.
I had to convince them with money and well, choloroform. I WISH it was easy as a coy look.
thirtythree
Diamond Member
I don't know you, but after reading your post, I think I'm in love :heart:
edit: seriously though, maybe she's a little emotionally immature. how old are you and her?
edit: seriously though, maybe she's a little emotionally immature. how old are you and her?
JeffreyLebowski
Lifer
there you go, that is the litmus test right there. If she really loves you you'll be able to pull of the dirty sanchez.
RaynorWolfcastle
Diamond Member
No the litmus test is the reaction after you pull the Houdini. Look up urban dictionary if you're not familiar with the term.
deejayshakur
Platinum Member
personally i'd be weary with any girl that would try to woo you like that. then again, my gf is a rare breed these days--i had to work for her.
read this good read if you can get through it.
like one dude, i told her after 3 weeks and she didnt say it back until like 3 weeks after. you just know it. and no, no hanky panky until after. like i said, she's a rare breed. limited edition. now go get yours now.
edit: grammar. werd
read this good read if you can get through it.
like one dude, i told her after 3 weeks and she didnt say it back until like 3 weeks after. you just know it. and no, no hanky panky until after. like i said, she's a rare breed. limited edition. now go get yours now.
edit: grammar. werd
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