My girlfriend left me... Updated 9/6/05

[Eli]

I am still in a state of shock. I am devastated.. I don't know what to do.

I have never experienced anything like this and it is the worst feeling I have ever felt in my entire life.

I had no warning.. I thought everything was fine..

I mean sure we had our problems, but everybody does.. I had no idea they were so severe in her eyes as to think her only option is to leave me...

She didn't even tell me why.. I think that is the worst part.. I'll never know why...

I've cried myself to sleep 2 dozen times since she told me she didn't want to be with me anymore earlier this afternoon..

What am I supposed to do now? I feel empty and alone... life is suddenly not very life-like... what is the point?

God, I never thought it would end this way.... I wish I knew why...

sorry, i don't know why I typed all this here.. there is nobody else online. I think I will go cry myself back to sleep before I throw up..

 

[KK]

sorry dude

 

[kalster]

sorry man, i hope you feel better

 

[clarkey01]

Chin up son, you dont need that whore.

 

[dug777]

crapola mate, have a few beers with some mates, usually makes me feel better when i'm down

 

[Zugzwang152]

wow this is a surprise. from the way you talked about her, it seemed like a done deal. sorry about that man, i know how it feels.

 

[Eli]

I don't think you understand.. I had *NO* idea.. I can't believe this.. I was still just as in love with her as the first day we met... I don't know how I'm going to deal with this... I can't believe that I'm never going to wake up next to her again.. I can't believe she left me... we were going to get married...

 

[crisscross]

that sucks man, but there is nothing anybody can do to make you feel better, as they say time is the best healer take whatever lessons you can from this relationship and try to move on.

 

[DivideBYZero]

Sorry dude. Been there.

 

[Sheepathon]

Incubus says it pretty well: "Don't let the world bring you down. Not everything here is that fvcked up and cold. Remember why you came and while you're alive experience the warmth before you grow old."

Chin up, Eli. The best is yet to come.

 

[Cheezeit]

sorry man

but there'll be better

 

[Xionide]

After a rough relationship I was talking to a very wise man about what I should do about the way I feel. He looked at me and said "so the bitch was cheating huh? Well their is one thing that will make it better" He then made an "o" with his left hand using his index finger and thumb and stuck his other index finger in and out of the hole. I will never forget his lesson.

 

[Eli]

She wasn't cheating.. she told me that at least.. she hadn't met anybody else.

She's going to live with her dad in Arizona.

Her biological dad that has had NO contact with her for many, many years and all a sudden she wants to run away and live with him..

I wish I knew what I did to make her decide that she doesen't want to be with me anymore... she could have just went to live with him for a while, we didn't have to break up...

I think yesterday was the worst day of my life...

 

[EyeMWing]

Originally posted by: Eli
I wish I knew what I did to make her decide that she doesen't want to be with me anymore... she could have just went to live with him for a while, we didn't have to break up...

You didn't do anything. Women are inherently unstable and stupid. I wish I had something more I could say, but the philosophical bits aren't working at 7AM.

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: dug777
crapola mate, have a few beers with some mates, usually makes me feel better when i'm down

I wish I had some alcohol..

on second thought, maybe it's not such a good idea. I'll stick to my marijuana.

 

[imported_goku]

Originally posted by: Xionide
He then made an "o" with his left hand using his index finger and thumb and stuck his other index finger in and out of the hole. I will never forget his lesson.

PWNED!!!! AHAHHAHA ROFL

 

[Mucho]

I've been there, keep in mind one thing "time heals all pain' tomorrow you will feel better and the day after even better...

 

[imported_goku]

Originally posted by: EyeMWing

Originally posted by: Eli
I wish I knew what I did to make her decide that she doesen't want to be with me anymore... she could have just went to live with him for a while, we didn't have to break up...

You didn't do anything. Women are inherently unstable and stupid especially under the age of 25. I wish I had something more I could say, but the philosophical bits aren't working at 7AM.

 

[gar3555]

holy hell...the exact same thing happened to me about 2 1/2 weeks ago...pretty much exact same thing...3 years together, and bam! we're no good for each other, she wasn't happy. It was all news to me. Here's what you do. Don't be depressed...man I did that sh!t. it gets you no where. After a week of sitting around crying, I realized, that I had to get over her. So get your buds together, and go out. Just have a good time. Don't worry about anything. It will help volumes. Most women are inherently evil.

Good luck

 

[Amused]

Bummer. It hurts, I know.

But at least she did it now, and not after you married, shared assets and had kids.

 

Bluto: [thrusting six-pack into Flounder's hands] My advice to you is to start drinking heavily.

 

[EyeMWing]

Originally posted by: Mucho
I've been there, keep in mind one thing "time heals all pain' tomorrow you will feel better and the day after even better...

Heh. Not to be a downer, but I got worse before I got better. Eventually I ended up fabricating reasons to hate her. Amusingly appropriate. I have it on my wall.

 

[dug777]

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: dug777
crapola mate, have a few beers with some mates, usually makes me feel better when i'm down

I wish I had some alcohol..

on second thought, maybe it's not such a good idea. I'll stick to my marijuana.

lol

nah, beer and mates is a great cure all

 

[Pepsei]

WOW, THAT's a suprise.... good luck man.

when my first gf (yes, the ugly one that I dreamt about) dumped me, it came as a big suprise to me too. i thought every thing was okay too. and the bitch waited until i helped her moved into her dorm too. in fact, right after I move her last heavy ass box too.
"we need to talk"

that was the best thing ever happend to me that year.

 

[MulLa]

Hey I know how you felt. When the person that you thought meant the entire world to you just suddenly left and disappeared. You're lost and have no idea what to do at all.

Like Mucho has put it. Only time can heal your wounds... It's going to be hard and you might never recover fully but you'll get there!

You have all our support!!!