<< thnx everyone....i still feel pretty low....but....all i want is for someone to understand how i feel... >>
Many folks have been in your shoes, even some who won't admit they had any feelings for some girl. I dated a girl for 3 years, and I really cared about her. She broke up with me (oh yes, probably 50% of men lie about that, too), and I thought - uhg - there goes my everything.
It might not seem like it right now, but after some time you'll find it hard to believe that you were feeling so low over this. At least you're not trying to put-on some "I didn't care about her anyway" front, which means you're dealing with your real feelings. Mope around for a few days if you need to, but no more than that. There's just no point in it, unless you like punishing yourself, which is absolutely useless.
Resume your normal life, as much as you can, call up some friends and go out. If not this weekend, then definitely next weekend. No excuses. I'm not especially fond of advising people to deal with their sorrow by going out and getting drunk, because some folks find too much refuge in that. But, a little partying never hurt anyone, just use some common sense.
Last but not least, and I know this may not make you feel better right now, but it will in time:
There's plenty fish in the SEA buddy!
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