my girlfriend broke up with me

LongCoolMother

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im so sad... i dont know what to do, it happen last night, i couldnt sleep all night. i just cant stop thinking about her n i cant believe it....i cant concentrate on anything, my homework, its like something stuck to me. it hurts so much, what sucks is i cant get rid of it. i just want to cry, crying makes me feel better, but its so hard to cry nowadays...

~MikeL
 

SaltBoy

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Sorry to hear that man. :(

Keep yourself busy and you'll eventually get over it, I hope.
 

Lizardman

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Dont sweat it too much man. This is something that we all go through at one point or another. You feel like $hit for a couple days and then after that life goes on. Just be optomistic, you know there are other girls.
 

Rallispec

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I'm sorry :(

i'm sure you'll be okay though.. it's going to take some time to get over her- its normal to feel the way you do right... dont be afriad to let it out... Everybody goes through this at least once in their life...

i really am sorry though.. breaking up is never fun to do....
everything happens for a reason though--- who knows what other doors this is going to open up for you...

good luck with things......
~rallispec
 

Rallispec

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<< thnx everyone....i still feel pretty low....but....all i want is for someone to understand how i feel... >>



we all know how you feel... at least i know i do.. I was just in this position last month.. Trust me- it gets better
 

LongCoolMother

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its this feeling....its a really sad feeling, like ur on the verge of crying, or u want to cry, but u cant actually cry. its a really bad feeling. and the worst part is that its always with you, no matter what i do, even when i sleep. i wish i could throw it off, but its so hard...
 

Rallispec

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dont force it out---- just let things work their way out on thier own... you probably have a lot going through your mind right now and are a little overwhelmed by it all..... its going to take some time.. So were you really in love with this girl? Sounds like she meant a lot to you
 

silverpig

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Ya hear that? bootymac just seconded my motion. :)

Go out with your friends and get hammered (if you're of age that is). When you're drunk, almost every girl you see will look better than your ex, and you'll realize for a little while that you're much better off.
 

LongCoolMother

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i guess she did, i know all u say ill get over it eventaully, and i know thats true, but in the meantime, its just hard.....i dont know, i just felt like i should share, thnx rallispec....after this is all over, i think ill take a break n stay single for a while...it has its advantages as well, thnx for all ur supports
 

Rallispec

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<< about 2 years >>



wow... thats a long time.. how old are you?

i've been with my gf about 6 months now.. we broke up over christmas break- after being without eachother for 2 weeks we realized how much we needed one another and got back together..


2 years is a long time-- and you've only been apart from her for one day now.... who knows what will happen tomorrow.. just try to be optimistic.. give it some time--- trust me- its going to be okay :)
 

Arschloch

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I'm sorry to hear. :(

I've been with my girlfriend for over two years now, and I don't know what I'd do if she dumped me. While I don't exactly feel your pain, I can imagine it. :(
 

silverpig

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Okay bootymac, if he doesn't go out this weekend, I invite you to join me in a sympathy outing full of liquor and stripper fueled mayhem. (even if you don't go out, I'm sure as hell gonna. Hey, it's an excuse.) :)



On a less practical, yet more sensitive note, I know where you are Long... I had a gf for almost 3 years in late highschool, and she broke up with me. Not fun. I was a mess for a month, but I made a decision to go out and have fun. A month after that, I had another girlfriend (WAY better looking too hehe). That one only lasted 8 months, but it was fun while it lasted. That was two years ago, and since, I've had flings and casual things, but I hang out with my friends mostly. It's the best. I can get drunk whenever I want to, and don't have to answer to anyone. The single life may seem as though it sucks at first, but after a while, you'll see how much fun it is.


 

veryape

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Did she break up with you because you aren't the "long cool mother" you claim to be?;)