My gf and I broke up last night

MAME

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This is my first and probably last thread (for a while at least) about my gf. I'm not posting for any reason really, not looking for advice or anything.

She moved to Japan about 8 months back and won't return to the States for 3+ years. I have 1 more year of school before I could even consider going to Japan to live. So before we drag it on too long, I decided (while she partially agreed) to break up now while we still cared for eachother (I don't want her out of my life).

It wasn't fun but I think it was for the best. She was a really good gf, I mean really really good. Paid for way more than half of meals and other things. Really generous and I *NEVERRRRRRRRRRRR* ever had to worry about cheating in the slightest.

Oh, and I know you want pics and I did get her to agree that as long as her face isn't in it, I could post her pic (she doesn't like the whole strangers knowing who you are thing). So I will post a pic sometime, but not right now.
 

DainBramaged

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It wasn't fun but I think it was for the best. She was a really good gf, I mean really really good. Paid for way more than half of meals and other things. Really generous and I *NEVERRRRRRRRRRRR* ever had to worry about cheating in the slightest.

You make it sound so clinical and sanitary.
 

MAME

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Originally posted by: Anubis
at least it ended on a good note
you got thoes pics ready to put online yet?

literally working on it right now

I'm doing a file reduction thing with mspaint. The pics take up half as much room and look exactly the same. Takes a little while, but it's coming!

Got aim? I can talk there
 

MAME

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Originally posted by: Kelvrick
Didn't you just get back from visiting her?

I sure did. Not even 2 weeks ago. We talked about this before so it's not like I dumped her out of the blue. We were talking about it the day after I came back to the States. We just made it official last night.

We were supposed to talk about it while in Japan but I fvcked up and left 1 day early, while she was at work still!
 

Aimster

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I didnt read it, but you will get back together

I just read it. If it was meant to be it will happen. Long distance relationships are hard. Just hang in there buddy and everything will be fine.
 

MAME

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Originally posted by: Aimster
I didnt read it, but you will get back together

I just read it. If it was meant to be it will happen. Long distance relationships are hard. Just hang in there buddy and everything will be fine.

Heh, well I assure you we won't be back together soon. Perhaps later on, in a year or 2. But not as a long distance couple.

As for me, I'm ok. She was pretty upset though. But we already have emailed eachother and I think it'll be a good post-relationship situation.
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: MAME
She was a really good gf, I mean really really good. Paid for way more than half of meals and other things. Really generous and I *NEVERRRRRRRRRRRR* ever had to worry about cheating in the slightest.

That's the criteria by which you judge whether a girlfriend is "good" or not? :confused:
 

dc

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Originally posted by: DaWhim
japanese women are obedient, they are taught that way.

good thing they still live in the age of feudal japan. :roll:
lol.

good luck MAME.
 

Koing

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Originally posted by: DainBramaged
It wasn't fun but I think it was for the best. She was a really good gf, I mean really really good. Paid for way more than half of meals and other things. Really generous and I *NEVERRRRRRRRRRRR* ever had to worry about cheating in the slightest.

You make it sound so clinical and sanitary.

A guy I know said that exact same thing about Americna porn...

Well glad you don't feel too bad Mame but it.

If you guys were meant to be you guys will hook up later.

Koing
 

MAME

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: MAME
She was a really good gf, I mean really really good. Paid for way more than half of meals and other things. Really generous and I *NEVERRRRRRRRRRRR* ever had to worry about cheating in the slightest.

That's the criteria by which you judge whether a girlfriend is "good" or not? :confused:

lol, no. I was pointing out random traits that were (relatively) unique

believe you me, I care about her very much is many different ways