My gaydar went off the other day, is it too sensitive or accurate?

[Nitemare]

A guy walks up to me and strikes up a conversation. One of the first things he asks is what cologne I'm wearing. He was very animated, friendly and trying to be funny. Although he did not talk with a lisp...the whole what cologne are you wearing, made me think of the many times I've asked a girl what perfume or lotion she was wearing....with the intent of befriending them to get in their pants.

Applied the cologne in the morning, this was like 14 hours later and it's not even the good stuff

 

[GasX]

he was either gay or a metrosexual (i.e gay but still in the closet...)

 

[Mill]

I'd never ask a random stranger that, but I'd ask my friends that. Well, I take that back. If the cologne was really fvcking bad ass I might. But I totally wouldn't get his number. At least not on the first date. :lips:

 

[GasX]

If he isn't gay, he sleeps with men who are...

 

[JulesMaximus]

Was he hot?

Pics?

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Was he hot?

Pics?

I'd probably tap it if I were you...



Applied the cologne in the morning, this was like 14 hours later and it's not even the good stuff

 

[Ime]

Just tell him you aren't interested.

 

[TekChik]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Was he hot?

Pics?

LMAO!!!!!

 

[Brutuskend]

Well we know it WASN'T mill.

 

[Murpheeee]

well if he is gay.......he probably thinks you are gay too

 

[DaFinn]

Change the cologne... ASAP!

 

[pyonir]

Some dude asked me that one time...he was trying to sell imitation crap.

 

[Spamela]

"Gaydar" usually refers to the ability of gays
to detect other gays.

 

[minendo]

Originally posted by: Nitemare
A guy walks up to me and strikes up a conversation. One of the first things he asks is what cologne I'm wearing. He was very animated, friendly and trying to be funny. Although he did not talk with a lisp...the whole what cologne are you wearing, made me think of the many times I've asked a girl what perfume or lotion she was wearing....with the intent of befriending them to get in their pants.

Applied the cologne in the morning, this was like 14 hours later and it's not even the good stuff

Yes, because all homosexuals talk with a lisp.

 

[rh71]

The show Playing It Straight (I catch it on BT) is a good indication that you cannot tell a gay man from a straight man by the stereotypical gestures and speech patterns.

You can only tell if you get to know the person to see how they act in certain situations.

 

[bigalt]

Originally posted by: Spamela
"Gaydar" usually refers to the ability of gays
to detect other gays.

yeah dude, straight guys don't need gaydar. because whether or not he was hitting on you, you're still not going to get with him.

and by you, i mean everyone except for you.

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: Murpheeee
well if he is gay.......he probably thinks you are gay too

I never take my wedding band off

 

[Platypus]

doubtful, can't a guy be friendly without people making ridiculous claims about them without even knowing them?

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: bigalt

Originally posted by: Spamela
"Gaydar" usually refers to the ability of gays
to detect other gays.

yeah dude, straight guys don't need gaydar. because whether or not he was hitting on you, you're still not going to get with him.

and by you, i mean everyone except for you.

Back in my single days I would at least check the ring finger before making a move

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
doubtful, can't a guy be friendly without people making ridiculous claims about them without even knowing them?

Like....You fill those jeans out nicely, big boy

that's why I started a poll. I'm not comfortable enough to ask a stranger what cologne he is wearing, plus like I could really care.

 

[Buttzilla]

what were you wearing? when i used to work at banana republic i got asked quiet a few times if i was gay...mostly by women, man it sucked cause it was so hard to hit on them. apparently, it's stereotyped that guys who work at BR or Gap are gay.

 

[Platypus]

Originally posted by: Nitemare

Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
doubtful, can't a guy be friendly without people making ridiculous claims about them without even knowing them?

Like....You fill those jeans out nicely, big boy

that's why I started a poll. I'm not comfortable enough to ask a stranger what cologne he is wearing, plus like I could really care.

Just because you're too scared of what people think of you when you ask someone a simple question doesn't mean everyone else is.

 

[pyonir]

Originally posted by: Buttzilla
apparently, it's stereotyped that guys who work at BR or Gap are gay.

It isn't a stereotype if it's true.

 

[GasX]

Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation

Originally posted by: Nitemare

Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
doubtful, can't a guy be friendly without people making ridiculous claims about them without even knowing them?

Like....You fill those jeans out nicely, big boy

that's why I started a poll. I'm not comfortable enough to ask a stranger what cologne he is wearing, plus like I could really care.

Just because you're too scared of what people think of you when you ask someone a simple question doesn't mean everyone else is.

Just because you aren't afraid to ask the question, doesn't make you not a nancy boy for asking...

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: Buttzilla
what were you wearing? when i used to work at banana republic i got asked quiet a few times if i was gay...mostly by women, man it sucked cause it was so hard to hit on them. apparently, it's stereotyped that guys who work at BR or Gap are gay.

pink tank top, spandex shorts and a fluorescent green cap...

j/k jeans, sneakers and a golf shirt