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my g/f called and told me she is pregnant *update*

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I think he needs more examples from people who've been through this before. Not EXACTLY the same problem, but let see...

Before I got married, I knew my fiancee was a lying, manipulative bi*tch - all of my friends (and most of hers) would take me aside and tell me that I should leave her (even HER mom). But did I listen to them? NOOOOOooooooooooooo!. I thought "I will change her. She's had a hard life so far. She needs me!" Well, after we got married it only got worse. Finally after taking it for 5 years, I finally left her. Looking back on it, I can see the problem was mine - I was just too afraid of letting go of something I had. To think I could have been with someone I deserved and have been alot happier earlier in my life...

"the sadest words are - what might have been..." (sorry for the wrong wording of this quote).

Good luck - remember a little pain right now will make you feel much better in the long run. A little doctor advice, right?
 
Originally posted by: mykol
Maybe you need to ask yourself another question. Hypothetically speaking lets say that she decides that she no longer wants to have sex for whatever reason. Would you still want to spend x years with her? Think long and hard about this. Would you still enjoy her company? Does/would she provide engaging conversation?

What about her specifically makes her so special compared to other girlfriends that you've had (and it had better not be bedroom prowess)? Have you had other girlfriends? Were you a virgin before you met her? What does she think of your other female friends? What do your friends think about her? What sort of relationship does she have with her father? Ask yourself "Why am I with her instead of one of the other 5 billion women in this world" "What has she done to deserve someone as compassionate (ie: gullible) as myself?"

I think you have yourself one of the following women:
a) The Drama Queen - Has a penchant for creating drama over the most trivial things during the most inconvienant times (ie: fake pregnancy during examination period sound familiar?). Loves attention and watches far too many soap operas.
b) The Psycho - Will do anything to keep her boyfriend. Insanely loyal to a frightning degree. Threatens to kill your female friends. Threatens to kill herself if you decide that you no longer want to see her. Court intervention is often neccessary (ie: restraining order).
c) The Manipulator - Lies decieves and tricks in order to position herself for maximum monetary gain. Unlikely to be yours for this species of female is far too cunning to be caught lying and you have yet to establish yourself as a "gold mine".

None of these women are condusive to you living past the age of 40. It is recommended that you ABORT ABORT ABORT!
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best 1st post I've ever read 😀
 
CP, I cannot even begin to imagine what type of weird ass reasoning you have for staying with this chick. This person spelled it out really nice for you:
1) She lied to you.
2) She lied to her mom and your mom.
3) She wreaked emotional havoc on you while you were trying to study for all these school subjects.
4) She selfishly manipulated those around her (you, her mom, your mom) to get what she wants.
5) She did not admit to lying until the doctor confirmed her lie.

So that makes her:

1) A liar.
2) Very selfish.
3) Manipulative
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#4 is the kicker. How in the world are you supposed to trust her? She needs serious mental help. What the hell are you thinking?
 
It's interesting as this thread goes along. It appears that *everyone* has recommended that he leave her because it's hard to tell what she'll pull next. Nobody has said stay with her, work things out and you'll have a happy life forever and ever.

I hope CrazyFool can heed all of the great advice provided here. After all, we only have one life -- and why live it with someone who has "issues" with honesty.

 
Originally posted by: yayo
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
she faked the pregnancy, yes, she didnt mean any harm, i can let it go...
i do adore her, will love her in time...

i mean, i told her how i feel about this.. and liek i said before, i would marry her if i was 5 or 7 years older
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YOU ARE A MORON. MOTION TO BAN BECAUSE I CANNOT STAND THIS LEVEL OF IDIOCY.
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Call me daft, but I think the morons are the ones degrading others because they aren't living your life. WE all know how peachy it is...

You know what they say, if you can't stand the heat, GTF out of the kitchen.
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I'd reply but nothing you wrote here made an ounce of sense.
 
It's time to get rid of her, because she and her mom are manipulative bitches. Wait until you get married, it will only get worse.
 
Originally posted by: DOSfan

However, while I applaud your sense of honor, (I had one once.... But women broke it. 🙁) I would like to point out that no contract signed under duress is accountable by our legal system. (our = USA)

This is a recipie for disaster.

Protect yourself! Yeah, in that way too! (Especially that way. 😛)
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honor!? no this is honor. this is him being a fvcking retard.

Honor is when you get a women pregnant and bust your ass raising the kid. honor is not getting a women pregnant without being married. honor is doing whatever it takes for your children.

don't try to say this is honor. this dirtbag has NO self-respect. if he did he would dump the lieing whore now.



but after reading everything I'm starting to think its all a ploy for attention. either that or he is as dumb as everyone says. i will give the OP the benefit of the doubt and say hes just a attention whore.
 
Originally posted by: DOSfan


However, while I applaud your sense of honor, (I had one once.... But women broke it. 🙁) I would like to point out that no contract signed under duress is accountable by our legal system. (our = USA)

So, while I am not terribly proud of our legal system, I say take that out when you can. 🙂
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that law was used in the tv show, Ed, last night 🙂

 
I have to agree. After reading the other thread, I don't see why you would stay with someone like this. She scared the crap out of you, I'm sure. It's one thing to think you may be pregnant if you don't get your period, but to plain out lie about it and fake it - not cool!
 
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
it felt like the right thing to say at the time.. to calm her down mostly.
since the word came out already.. i will act upon it... in x years..
when i happens, i will make sure that i am in LOVE with her, not for other reasons.
and i will not look back and think twice
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Seriously...

How old are you? And where are your parents?


 
YOU ARE A MORON. MOTION TO BAN BECAUSE I CANNOT STAND THIS LEVEL OF IDIOCY.
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I have to agree.

Now you've dodged a bullet, yet you continue down a path of destruction. One thing I've learned about people is, they don't change. They might change their habits and actions, but inside they're still the same for their whole life. This girl will never change, and it's obvious you won't either. No sense wishing you good luck, because you're destined to be screwed.
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I have to agree.
wtf

you are crazy

she faked a goddamn pregnancy

dump the bitch

now
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I have to agree.

I won't even make a long post to help out crazyperson because he's obviously crazy and oblivious to any advice. Every single person to a one - of the dozens who have read this - think that your gf is a useless bitch of a girl, and yet you are setting course for the biggest mistake of your life. Run? Oh, I think so. Run fast. Run now.
since the word came out already.. i will act upon it...
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She already lied to you - you owe her one, then call it even. Whether you intend to marry her tomorrow or in 200 years after falling in love with her doesn't change the fact that she's a skank ass biotch. When your relationship inevitably degenerates into a steaming mass of excrement (it's there now BTW - so I mean when you realize the reality of it), you'll have nobody but yourself to blame. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me for continuing a relationship with an empty husk of garbage. 😛
 
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
she faked the pregnancy, yes, she didnt mean any harm, i can let it go...
i do adore her, will love her in time...

i mean, i told her how i feel about this.. and liek i said before, i would marry her if i was 5 or 7 years older
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You will, later in life, reflect upon this moment and realize it is the worst decision you've ever made.

Bookmark this page so you can visit us at that time and realize you heard it here first.
 
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: yayo
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
she faked the pregnancy, yes, she didnt mean any harm, i can let it go...
i do adore her, will love her in time...

i mean, i told her how i feel about this.. and liek i said before, i would marry her if i was 5 or 7 years older
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YOU ARE A MORON. MOTION TO BAN BECAUSE I CANNOT STAND THIS LEVEL OF IDIOCY.
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Call me daft, but I think the morons are the ones degrading others because they aren't living your life. WE all know how peachy it is...

You know what they say, if you can't stand the heat, GTF out of the kitchen.
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I'd reply but nothing you wrote here made an ounce of sense.
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lol so what time does the dump open?
 
Anybody here that? That is the sound of the whip being cracked.

She has your stones in a jar. She is a lying POS!. Any woman who would stoop that low deserves to be kicked to the curb with the rest of the trash.

You will be miserable for the rest of your life, trust me I know. Her lies will never end, she will literally rape your manhood for the rest of your life.
 
Originally posted by: Papagayo
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
update to this

been busy lately, org chem, bio, bio, phy midterms...
anyways, we visited a doctor, she is not pregnant, we had a long talk. worked things out
and we are engaged to be engaged... yes, i adore her that much...
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Another Very Stupid man on earth..

The girl sounds Mental and so is her mom...

If you are going to marry her, please get her some help..
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No, I think he's the perfect match for her. Think of the benefits:

1) Some other guy doesn't get suckered by this psycho woman.
2) Some other unsusupecting woman doesn't find herself saddled with a future Darwin Award winner.

🙂
 
She set this up to see how far she can push it. On top of that her MOM is in on it.

When you get married, make sure you get her to sign a prenuptial, or else she's going to clean you out.

Although, I guess a lot of the world survives from leeching from naive fools like you.

 
Originally posted by: CrazyPerson
it felt like the right thing to say at the time.. to calm her down mostly.
since the word came out already.. i will act upon it... in x years..
when i happens, i will make sure that i am in LOVE with her, not for other reasons.
and i will not look back and think twice
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Love, in and of itself, is not a sufficient reason to get married.

Love without trust leads to a failed relationship.

There damned well better be other reasons, in addition to love, that you marry her.
 
Well, you are a fool if you're still with her. Take everyones advice (some very good ones too) and act upon it, geez man it should NOT take 2+ pages of comments to realise this, just a little bit of common sense.
 
Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
YOUR GIRLFRIEND FAKED A PREGNANCY AND YOU ARE MARRYING HER! Way to fall into her trap without her having to use it.
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she used it (and scucessfully), just not in the normally successfully way.
 
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