Originally posted by: frankierx
Okay....I have a new friend who is a woman....she's got a boyfriend with leukemia.....who lives many states away.....we went out to dinner...I paid...she dropped me off where my car was parked....we've talked via email for about a couple of weeks prior to this.....talked on the phone once aftwards and prior to the dinner.....looking to talk to her again via email and phone and having dinner again same time and place 2 weeks from now.....buddy of mine says not to get attached to her....I said I won't allow myself to.....anyone else in this same situation who has friends who are women and are attractive and make you feel hot....prolly as the friendship continues I may loose this hot feeling but doubt it since she is hot...
Yep, that should do it. One first class ticket to hell.
Originally posted by: Rage187
Originally posted by: frankierx
Okay....I have a new friend who is a woman....she's got a boyfriend with leukemia.....who lives many states away.....we went out to dinner...I paid...she dropped me off where my car was parked....we've talked via email for about a couple of weeks prior to this.....talked on the phone once aftwards and prior to the dinner.....looking to talk to her again via email and phone and having dinner again same time and place 2 weeks from now.....buddy of mine says not to get attached to her....I said I won't allow myself to.....anyone else in this same situation who has friends who are women and are attractive and make you feel hot....prolly as the friendship continues I may loose this hot feeling but doubt it since she is hot...
Yep, that should do it. One first class ticket to hell.
What would you suggest for me to do?
y'all don't even know how close the girl is to her boyfriend and you're drawing conclusions already.
on the other hand, imagine yourself getting some terminal diseases and your gf starts looking somewhere else...
on the other hand, imagine yourself getting some terminal diseases and your gf starts looking somewhere else...
don't listen to these fsckers.
keep it zipped up till the bf's fate is sealed and all is well. you have every right to make friends with her, and if she's attractive, you have every right to think so. don't cheat with her, and you'll get yours eventually.
keep it zipped up till the bf's fate is sealed and all is well. you have every right to make friends with her, and if she's attractive, you have every right to think so. don't cheat with her, and you'll get yours eventually.
Originally posted by: frankierx
Originally posted by: Rage187
Originally posted by: frankierx
Okay....I have a new friend who is a woman....she's got a boyfriend with leukemia.....who lives many states away.....we went out to dinner...I paid...she dropped me off where my car was parked....we've talked via email for about a couple of weeks prior to this.....talked on the phone once aftwards and prior to the dinner.....looking to talk to her again via email and phone and having dinner again same time and place 2 weeks from now.....buddy of mine says not to get attached to her....I said I won't allow myself to.....anyone else in this same situation who has friends who are women and are attractive and make you feel hot....prolly as the friendship continues I may loose this hot feeling but doubt it since she is hot...
Yep, that should do it. One first class ticket to hell.
What would you suggest for me to do?
haha... there's a special place in hell for vultures like you buddy... you're destroying your karma man.
someone make this man elite, he's got a "luvya" vibe going on.
He's not gay according to what he says....and he's put my communication blunder behind us.
Aye Aye coach Phil Jackson ( head coach of the bulls when MJ won many titles).
Thanks...I will take this to heart....
i'm not going to say i wish the same fate on you but if you happen to catch or develop an almost 100% fatal disease after you do the dying man's gf, don't cry about it.
....on second thought if this chick is willing to cheat on HER dying bf then i say go for it. don't get serious because if she'll cheat on a dying man she'll cheat on you too.
....on second thought if this chick is willing to cheat on HER dying bf then i say go for it. don't get serious because if she'll cheat on a dying man she'll cheat on you too.
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Originally posted by: Zugzwang152
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keep it zipped up till the bf's fate is sealed and all is well. you have every right to make friends with her, and if she's attractive, you have every right to think so. don't cheat with her, and you'll get yours eventually.
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Thanks...I will take this to heart....
1) While she claims to have this "boyfriend" in another state, we don't know how attached she is or how strong the relationship is. He's not her fiancé. There are now vows.
2) She might be in a state of shock from the illness of her boyfriend.
It's hard to tell at this point what her intentions are. She might not be in the best frame of mind for using her judgement. Again, though, this depends on her attachment to the boyfriend.
I would just tread gently with this situation.
2) She might be in a state of shock from the illness of her boyfriend.
It's hard to tell at this point what her intentions are. She might not be in the best frame of mind for using her judgement. Again, though, this depends on her attachment to the boyfriend.
I would just tread gently with this situation.
Originally posted by: frankierx
hmm.....well in that case I will wait until the relationship is over and keep it zipped. I shall continue to make friends with her and to make sure she is happy.
what's the point in waiting... that's not going to change anything. you should see if she'd do you now while her dying bf is still here, then you'll know she's a rotten low-life instead of finding out later, possibly after you've fallen in love and exposed to getting really hurt.
You don't want to be a victim? You mean like develop a deadly disease and then have your girlfriend date on the side?
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