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My friend died...

Xionide

Diamond Member
Last night my friend Adam called me at about 7PM last night asking if he could come over. I said sure and he said he needed to go shopping at some stuff at the mall first and then he would be over here.

At 9 PM I called his house and his mom said that he was out with his sister. I pretty much figured he wasnt going to come over as it was getting late.

Midnight: I get a call from his dad saying he needs to talk with him, he seemed worried that he hadnt arrived yet.

1:30AM: I called his dad to see if Adam had contacted his dad yet, he hadnt. I figured it got late and he just went to kevins to hang out (kevins house isnt as far aways as mine) and I went to sleep.

3AM: Everbody is asleep at my house and dan pulls up to the house with kevin. My mom woke up but by the time she went downstairs the were already gone. They probably saw that no one was up and decided to leave without even knocking on the door.

9AM: I get a call from kevins dad asking if I had heard or seen kevin or adam, he told me that he was worried because there was on accident on the heights involving a pickup truck. They where in a pickup. This worries me.

10AM: I get up after falling asleep again to call dans house. His mom picked up and I asked her if she had heard from Adam yet. She said yes in a serious and sad voice. I asked her whats going on. Kevin is dead she tells me. Adam and him were in a car accident. I thought that it was just a cruel joke but it wasnt. There was alchohol involved and they crashed the truck. When dan came to the truck was on fire. Kevin was unconcious and he could not get him out in time.

Kevin just had gotten out of jail for a crashing and sending his friend through a windshield.
His friend was severely injured and kevin had to spend 3 months in maximum security prison. He was just getting his life back on track and went back to school and returned to his job.

Adam is devastated. And I pray that he doesnt do anything stupid. I need to talk to him but I dont know how. This is the worst day of my life. I cant stop shaking and I cant believe this is happening. I dont even know why I am typing this right now. Everything is just so skrewed up. MY mom is blaiming herself because she could have got up faster and caught them or something, at least thats how she feels.

-Xionide
 
my condolences. its a sad feeling, and i dont wish it upon anyone. especially if the person is young. i had a friend who passed on a year and 3 months ago in a car accident that killed him, and 2 other guys in the car. he was 27.

edit: as bad as the circumstances are (drinking and such involved), a person's life is involved, and thats what the main focus is.
 
Your mom shouldn't blame herself. I'm sorry for your loss though, but you can't blame anyone except the two guys in the car for their actions. Take some time off, keep to yourself, and I wouldn't talk to this Dan (fixed) guy until you're ready to be civil.

I'm sorry. 🙁
 
Originally posted by: jumpr
Your mom shouldn't blame herself. I'm sorry for your loss though, but you can't blame anyone except the two guys in the car for their actions. Take some time off, keep to yourself, and I wouldn't talk to this Kevin guy until you're ready to be civil.

I'm sorry. 🙁

No kevin is dead. Adam was driving he is alive.
 
Originally posted by: jumpr
Your mom shouldn't blame herself. I'm sorry for your loss though, but you can't blame anyone except the two guys in the car for their actions. Take some time off, keep to yourself, and I wouldn't talk to this Kevin guy until you're ready to be civil.

I'm sorry. 🙁

You mean dan.. kevin was killed in the accident unfortunately.
 
Oh, whoops. I read it wrong, I thought Kevin was driving and had done it in the past as well.

Yes, Adam shouldn't put friend's lives in danger like that
 
Originally posted by: Xionide
Originally posted by: jumpr
Your mom shouldn't blame herself. I'm sorry for your loss though, but you can't blame anyone except the two guys in the car for their actions. Take some time off, keep to yourself, and I wouldn't talk to this Kevin guy until you're ready to be civil.

I'm sorry. 🙁

No kevin is dead. Dan was driving he is alive.

does adam = dan?
 
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
Originally posted by: Xionide
Originally posted by: jumpr
Your mom shouldn't blame herself. I'm sorry for your loss though, but you can't blame anyone except the two guys in the car for their actions. Take some time off, keep to yourself, and I wouldn't talk to this Kevin guy until you're ready to be civil.

I'm sorry. 🙁

No kevin is dead. Dan was driving he is alive.

does adam = dan?

yeah
oops
oh well
 
Originally posted by: anxi80
my condolences. its a sad feeling, and i dont wish it upon anyone. especially if the person is young. i had a friend who passed on a year and 3 months ago in a car accident that killed him, and 2 other guys in the car. he was 27.

edit: as bad as the circumstances are (drinking and such involved), a person's life is involved, and thats what the main focus is.

these guys are both 18
 
Drinking and driving are never a good idea. 🙁

Your mom shouldn't blame herself. It's not her fault.

 
Originally posted by: Azraele
Drinking and driving are never a good idea. 🙁

Your mom shouldn't blame herself. It's not her fault.

I know and I already told her but its something that she is going to need to realize for herself. She knows its not her fault but she feels like she could have done something about this and she didnt.
 
Originally posted by: Xionide
Originally posted by: jumpr
Your mom shouldn't blame herself. I'm sorry for your loss though, but you can't blame anyone except the two guys in the car for their actions. Take some time off, keep to yourself, and I wouldn't talk to this Kevin guy until you're ready to be civil.

I'm sorry. 🙁

No kevin is dead. Dan was driving he is alive.


I thought Kevin and Adam got into an accident, not Dan. According to what you've told us. Your story isn't very easy to follow through.
And why use fictitious first name as if this was some kind of a sexual assault story?
 
Originally posted by: NeoPTLD
Originally posted by: Xionide
Originally posted by: jumpr
Your mom shouldn't blame herself. I'm sorry for your loss though, but you can't blame anyone except the two guys in the car for their actions. Take some time off, keep to yourself, and I wouldn't talk to this Kevin guy until you're ready to be civil.

I'm sorry. 🙁

No kevin is dead. Dan was driving he is alive.


I thought Kevin and Adam got into an accident, not Dan. According to what you've told us. Your story isn't very easy to follow through.
And why use fictitious first name as if this was some kind of a sexual assault story?

Is that better sh!thead.
 
Originally posted by: Xionide
Originally posted by: NeoPTLD
Originally posted by: Xionide
Originally posted by: jumpr
Your mom shouldn't blame herself. I'm sorry for your loss though, but you can't blame anyone except the two guys in the car for their actions. Take some time off, keep to yourself, and I wouldn't talk to this Kevin guy until you're ready to be civil.

I'm sorry. 🙁

No kevin is dead. Dan was driving he is alive.


I thought Kevin and Adam got into an accident, not Dan. According to what you've told us. Your story isn't very easy to follow through.
And why use fictitious first name as if this was some kind of a sexual assault story?

Is that better sh!thead.

Some people have so little sensitivity to situations like this, it makes me wonder if they have the slightest notion of the horrific pain of losing someone very close.

My condolences to you, your family, and your friends.

ups
 
Originally posted by: upsciLLion
Originally posted by: Xionide
Originally posted by: NeoPTLD
Originally posted by: Xionide
Originally posted by: jumpr
Your mom shouldn't blame herself. I'm sorry for your loss though, but you can't blame anyone except the two guys in the car for their actions. Take some time off, keep to yourself, and I wouldn't talk to this Kevin guy until you're ready to be civil.

I'm sorry. 🙁

No kevin is dead. Dan was driving he is alive.


I thought Kevin and Adam got into an accident, not Dan. According to what you've told us. Your story isn't very easy to follow through.
And why use fictitious first name as if this was some kind of a sexual assault story?



Is that better sh!thead.

Some people have so little sensitivity to situations like this, it makes me wonder if they have the slightest notion of the horrific pain of losing someone very close.

My condolences to you, your family, and your friends.

ups


Point taken, but still don't understand the motive of using a false name.
 
Ouch. There is some serious pain going on here, inside quite a few people. 🙁🙁 Can't imagine losing a child like that, or a friend for that matter. I wouldn't want to be adam at this point either. 🙁
 
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