My Ex's dad is a double standardite POS --FML

[acheron]

Originally posted by: shinerburke
So anyway...pics of the daughter?

Or son's gf.

 

[dotcom173]

Originally posted by: shinerburke
So anyway...pics of the daughter?

ahah, it took 2 pages for someone to say that. I second that.

 

[TehMac]

It's just the way our male dominated culture is. I think Freud had it in reverse when he was talking about the relationships of dads and their daughters. Males are encouraged by virtue of testosterone to go out and get hoes, while females, being perceived as the gentler sex, as well as perhaps more virtuous than males by fact of their more shapely bodies (for the most part) are meant to be protected from this rougher aspect of society.

It's a very ingrained issue within the mindset and subconscious of people I think.

 

[Barfo]

Originally posted by: PingSpike
He knows you banged his daughter dude. You're not a Ninja. He may pretend it didn't happen, but he knows.

I know that, what gets me is he celebrates his son's sex romps and yet he goes out of his way to pretend his daughter and I were nothing but good friends.

Originally posted by: InflatableBuddha
The word you are looking for is "double standard" - i.e. one set of morals and values for the son, and another set for the daughter.

You can't apply hypocrite in this scenario, because the dad isn't the one actually involved with the sex.

A hypocritical scenario might be if the Dad tells his children that drugs are bad, but is secretly a massive pothead (note how he is actually performing an action in this situation).

Perhaps you're right but it's just a matter of semantics, how can I respect a person like that?

 

[shiner]

Originally posted by: TehMac
It's just the way our male dominated culture is. I think Freud had it in reverse when he was talking about the relationships of dads and their daughters. Males are encouraged by virtue of testosterone to go out and get hoes, while females, being perceived as the gentler sex, as well as perhaps more virtuous than males by fact of their more shapely bodies (for the most part) are meant to be protected from this rougher aspect of society.

It's a very ingrained issue within the mindset and subconscious of people I think.

Or as Carl Jung once said:

"Everyone likes to fuck"

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: shinerburke

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: Genx87
The destruction of the american family is good as this example proves.

What?

All work and no play make Genx87...something something....Sarah Palin....get your hands off me you god damned dirty ape.....grumble grumble...stem cells stem cells!!!

Oh, right, I get it.

 

[shiner]

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: shinerburke

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: Genx87
The destruction of the american family is good as this example proves.

What?

All work and no play make Genx87...something something....Sarah Palin....get your hands off me you god damned dirty ape.....grumble grumble...stem cells stem cells!!!

Oh, right, I get it.

Does your Dad know?

If so, does he care?

 

[imported_Devine]

He didnt want to think that his precious was getting pounding or doing anything that wasnt pure. Sons dont get that same kind of treatment whatsoever.

 

[Barfo]

Originally posted by: isekii
Would you like to know that your daughter is getting nailed ?

I'm not having any kids

/win

Originally posted by: shinerburke
So anyway...pics of the daughter?

I might be inclined to post some, but seeing as everyone is siding with her dad...

Originally posted by: acheron
Or son's gf.

You wouldn't want that, decent body, butterface, I don't have pics of her anyway.

 

[cheezy321]

You need to write FML on the end of your subject.

 

[InflatableBuddha]

Originally posted by: barfo

Originally posted by: PingSpike
He knows you banged his daughter dude. You're not a Ninja. He may pretend it didn't happen, but he knows.

I know that, what gets me is he celebrates his son's sex romps and yet he goes out of his way to pretend his daughter and I were nothing but good friends.

Originally posted by: InflatableBuddha
The word you are looking for is "double standard" - i.e. one set of morals and values for the son, and another set for the daughter.

You can't apply hypocrite in this scenario, because the dad isn't the one actually involved with the sex.

A hypocritical scenario might be if the Dad tells his children that drugs are bad, but is secretly a massive pothead (note how he is actually performing an action in this situation).

Perhaps you're right but it's just a matter of semantics, how can I respect a person like that?

I totally understand, and I think the guy is a douche for applying different standards to his son compared to his daughter. I wouldn't respect him for it either. I'm just saying you're not describing it correctly.

"Hypocritical" and "double standard" are not synonyms. They are two terms with distinctly different meanings.

 

[TehMac]

Originally posted by: barfo

Originally posted by: isekii
Would you like to know that your daughter is getting nailed ?

I'm not having any kids

/win

Perhaps that's a bit selfish. You refuse to put yourself in his shoes or understand the position he or ex is in, and yet you call him names and blame him for your inability to close the deal.

I'm not blaming you for your animalian instincts, but I do think that a little more understanding might have gone a long way. Maybe not sneaking around to fuck people.

That just sounds a bit redneck.

 

[Pepsei]

this is freaking normal... unless he's celebrating that his daughter is banging some guy right now. you have no room to talk.

he's not a hypocrite, and i think applying the double standard label is even too far.

POS? i dunno.. maybe for some other reason... but not this one.

 

[Jeeebus]

Originally posted by: barfo
how can I respect a person like that?

I totally agree. Every time some guy will open a taxi door for a girl, but not me, I totally lose all respect for him and want to spit in his face.

Or when a guy will let a girl onto the elevator before him, but if it's just me waiting, he'll go ahead and walk on himself. Son of a bitch should be castrated!

:disgust:

 

[Aikouka]

That's his way of saying, "That's mah boy!" You don't hear a dad saying, "That's mah girl!" when he knows his daughter "scored." It's just inconceivable!

Originally posted by: Baked
Look up the definition for hypocrite, it's not what you think it means.

"You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."

 

[n yusef]

I hope everyone who supports this double standard knows that they are sexist pieces of shit.

 

[Barfo]

Originally posted by: InflatableBuddha
I totally understand, and I think the guy is a douche for applying different standards to his son compared to his daughter. I wouldn't respect him for it either. I'm just saying you're not describing it correctly.

"Hypocritical" and "double standard" are not synonyms. They are two terms with distinctly different meanings.

Double standard it is then, you learn something new everyday.

Originally posted by: TehMac

Originally posted by: barfo

Originally posted by: isekii
Would you like to know that your daughter is getting nailed ?

I'm not having any kids

/win

Perhaps that's a bit selfish. You refuse to put yourself in his shoes or understand the position he or ex is in, and yet you call him names and blame him for your inability to close the deal.

I'm not blaming you for your animalian instincts, but I do think that a little more understanding might have gone a long way. Maybe not sneaking around to fuck people.

I see your point, the funny thing is he was the only one with an issue, the rest of the family was ok with it, like when he was not around we would go to her room and close the door no problem but it just felt dumb having to wait for the old man to fall asleep when he was in the house.

If I had a daughter I wouldn't have completely different standards for the exact same thing.

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: barfo
I see your point, the funny thing is he was the only one with an issue, the rest of the family was ok with it, like when he was not around we would go to her room and close the door no problem but it just felt dumb having to wait for the old man to fall asleep when he was in the house.

If I had a daughter I wouldn't have completely different standards for the exact same thing.

You go ahead and think that

 

[Barfo]

Originally posted by: Jeeebus

Originally posted by: barfo
how can I respect a person like that?

I totally agree. Every time some guy will open a taxi door for a girl, but not me, I totally lose all respect for him and want to spit in his face.

Or when a guy will let a girl onto the elevator before him, but if it's just me waiting, he'll go ahead and walk on himself. Son of a bitch should be castrated!

I guess you pat a guy on the back when you learn he earns more money than his female coworker, for the same amount of work, and you totally support locking up your daughters in the basement to protect them from the outside world :disgust:

Originally posted by: Aikouka
That's his way of saying, "That's mah boy!" You don't hear a dad saying, "That's mah girl!" when he knows his daughter "scored." It's just inconceivable!

Originally posted by: Baked
Look up the definition for hypocrite, it's not what you think it means.

"You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."

As you wish.

 

[PlasmaBomb]

Originally posted by: barfo

Cliffs:

-When we were dating we had to sneak to have sex because dad would be distressed and upset if he couldn't pretend we weren't

It is because you didn't maintain your stance of dominance, duh!

 

[ivan2]

you should date his son.

 

[PlasmaBomb]

Originally posted by: InflatableBuddha
The word you are looking for is "double standard" - i.e. one set of morals and values for the son, and another set for the daughter.

You can't apply hypocrite in this scenario, because the dad isn't the one actually involved with the sex.

A hypocritical scenario might be if the Dad tells his children that drugs are bad, but is secretly a massive pothead (note how he is actually performing an action in this situation).

Excellent post :thumbsup:

Originally posted by: Jeeebus
CLIFFS:

Op is an idiot.


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Originally posted by: shinerburke
So anyway...pics of the daughter?

This

Originally posted by: dotcom173

Originally posted by: shinerburke
So anyway...pics of the daughter?

ahah, it took 2 pages for someone to say that. I second that.

You need to increase the number of posts per page dude.

Originally posted by: barfo

I'm not having any kids

/win

Yeah win for us

Originally posted by: shinerburke
So anyway...pics of the daughter?

I might be inclined to post some, but seeing as everyone is siding with her dad...

Fail.

 

[Barfo]

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: barfo
I see your point, the funny thing is he was the only one with an issue, the rest of the family was ok with it, like when he was not around we would go to her room and close the door no problem but it just felt dumb having to wait for the old man to fall asleep when he was in the house.

If I had a daughter I wouldn't have completely different standards for the exact same thing.

You go ahead and think that

I might be a bit bothered thinking someone's banging my daughter, but I won't celebrate my son doing the same.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: n yusef
I hope everyone who supports this double standard knows that they are sexist pieces of shit.

Oh no!

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: barfo

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: barfo
I see your point, the funny thing is he was the only one with an issue, the rest of the family was ok with it, like when he was not around we would go to her room and close the door no problem but it just felt dumb having to wait for the old man to fall asleep when he was in the house.

If I had a daughter I wouldn't have completely different standards for the exact same thing.

You go ahead and think that

I might be a bit bothered thinking someone's banging my daughter, but I won't celebrate my son doing the same.

I suppose I can believe that.