My ex-gf married a rich guy.

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BooGiMaN

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well she did marry a better man than you..

but hey look at the bright side...he is kissing the lips that sucked your c@ck....so he is in fact sucking your dick in a roundabout way...
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
With people having smaller and smaller families and spending so much money to rear and educate those few children that they do have, a lot of parents encourage daughters to not settle for just anybody. Think about it, if you're going to spend big bucks on orthodontists,dance lessons,piano, college,enrichment classes and the like are you going to be thrilled if your daughter runs off to live in poverty ? If yiou rear a daughter to expect the best you hope that she won't run off and cheapen herself by getting pregnant,quitting school or marrying the first guy that asks her.

Think about it,you guys want the best wife that the market will bear,a slim,trim gal with movie star clear skin and those perfectly straight teeth, you want her well educated and more and more these days you expect she'll be a big earner... young women are thinking the same things

I'm not saying that women shouldn't set high standards: where you got that from my post is not clear to me. What I meant by my post was that many young people (most of the people around me, including many of my close friends) have unrealistic expectations of what they can afford and what they deserve as young, inexperienced workers in the American labor force. I am saying that I've seen this activity in many young women, notably a few close friends of mine, who married attractive, talented young men, and then immediately saddled them with hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. More than they needed, at least in my opinion, and borderline in terms of what they can afford.

But, of course, everyone is free to make their own choices in life. Just don't expect me to be too sympathetic if they come back to bite you in the ass.
 
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like that marriage will last.. she married for money.. not love...

i make a bet in 5 years she is divorced with kids.
 

spidey07

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Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
With people having smaller and smaller families and spending so much money to rear and educate those few children that they do have, a lot of parents encourage daughters to not settle for just anybody. Think about it, if you're going to spend big bucks on orthodontists,dance lessons,piano, college,enrichment classes and the like are you going to be thrilled if your daughter runs off to live in poverty ? If yiou rear a daughter to expect the best you hope that she won't run off and cheapen herself by getting pregnant,quitting school or marrying the first guy that asks her.

Think about it,you guys want the best wife that the market will bear,a slim,trim gal with movie star clear skin and those perfectly straight teeth, you want her well educated and more and more these days you expect she'll be a big earner... young women are thinking the same things

I'm not saying that women shouldn't set high standards: where you got that from my post is not clear to me. What I meant by my post was that many young people (most of the people around me, including many of my close friends) have unrealistic expectations of what they can afford and what they deserve as young, inexperienced workers in the American labor force. I am saying that I've seen this activity in many young women, notably a few close friends of mine, who married attractive, talented young men, and then immediately saddled them with hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. More than they needed, at least in my opinion, and borderline in terms of what they can afford.

But, of course, everyone is free to make their own choices in life. Just don't expect me to be too sympathetic if they come back to bite you in the ass.

Man if there ever was a quoted for truth this has to be the winner.
 

petejk

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my ex is probably going to do the same thing......with the dude she's with now...lol
now this guy has to deal with her mental problems....i'm making bank now

anyway...she was a good piece of ass....
 

dr150

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Originally posted by: tec699
I found out the information from a close friend. So I did some investigation on my own and yea he's rich. :(

Oh well. If she is happy then I'm happy.

btw, I think issues like this matter to men because we tend to be competitive. We don't want to see our ex loved ones married to someone that makes more in one month then you make in a year.


You're better off without her if she was materialistic and had a gold digging heart.

Move on and find someone better........much better! So far, your fortunes are good not being with her any more. :thumbsup:
 

Dangerer

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i dated a model for a while. It was an interesting relationship but she was a little crazy so things didn't work themselves out like i'd imagine. Now she's dating some quasi rock star dude or something. oh well c'est la vie
 

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Originally posted by: Dangerer
i dated a model for a while. It was an interesting relationship but she was a little crazy so things didn't work themselves out like i'd imagine. Now she's dating some quasi rock star dude or something. oh well c'est la vie

Pics?
 

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Lifer
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Originally posted by: tweakmm
Originally posted by: Orsorum
You're correct, it IS an ego thing. Here's another ego wakeup for you: some young men are born into wealthy families with good DNA. My family had neither, although I've never had to worry about putting food on the table.

I've never heard anyone outside of my circle of friends refer to good DNA before. I'm always too afraid to bring the issue up because people will automatically label me as racist or classist.

That being said, rich white girls are soooo hot. :D

I'm not classist, I've just seen it in a few people around me. One of my best friends is this way, good-looking, intelligent, charming, and skinny. Think Justin Timberlake but shorter and smarter. He's disciplined but doesn't work out all that much, yet still has the skinny/muscular build.

Another childhood friend of mine is like that, save the intelligence, and more arrogance. He's good-looking, charming, and wealthy, and he's never afraid to show it off. Funny thing is by the time I'm 30 I'm sure I'll be making more than him and his circle of friends, maybe combined, but it doesn't make a difference in that I'll never look as good as him nor will I be as charming.

And that's all you have in life, most people at least. You have your mind, and your work ethic. That's all you have going for you. Use it to your benefit.
 

CHfan4ever

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Would you marry a rich women?

I tough so.

Im pretty sure she didnt marry this guy because he is rich you know.But if the person you just met is really rich, well why not.
 

batmanuel

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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Just remember...no matter how rich her new husband is...you fvcked her first.

eh, it's about who strikes hardest, not who strikes first/

Yeah, that kind of reminds me of this girl I knew from high school as a friend. The first guy she slept with must not have done a great job, because she mentioned in a conversation one day that the second guy she slept with was the one that actually managed to bust her cherry. After a while, he became known as "Stubby". It was pretty funny at the time.
 

PandaBear

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I hear ya. Been there also (just ex gf, not ex wife).

You will get over it, it is frustrating at first but I will pick someone that loves me every day than someone that have better quality that choose a rich guy over me. Life is too short to worry about other people's businesses. Live with a good spirit and find someone you love and will love you back.
 

rh71

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The world would be such a better place if I won the lottery.
 

DAGTA

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Originally posted by: TheGoodGuy
like that marriage will last.. she married for money.. not love...

i make a bet in 3 to 5 years she is divorced with 75% of his money.

Fixed
 

rchiu

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe

With people having smaller and smaller families and spending so much money to rear and educate those few children that they do have, a lot of parents encourage daughters to not settle for just anybody. Think about it, if you're going to spend big bucks on orthodontists,dance lessons,piano, college,enrichment classes and the like are you going to be thrilled if your daughter runs off to live in poverty ? If yiou rear a daughter to expect the best you hope that she won't run off and cheapen herself by getting pregnant,quitting school or marrying the first guy that asks her.


Think about it,you guys want the best wife that the market will bear,a slim,trim gal with movie star clear skin and those perfectly straight teeth, you want her well educated and more and more these days you expect she'll be a big earner... young women are thinking the same things

Heh, I guess I better start teaching my sons no to believe in the very concept described by the vows that every husband and wife makes when they get married. How does that go again? for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, til death do us part?

I guess I have been too romantic, thinking love should be the criteria for a marriage, not the money, appearance or whatever else that people are looking for these days. Well, if girls can start marring people based on if the man can provide them the materialistic things or not, I guess men shouldn't have to feel too bad when we start see other peole when our wife become fat and old. It's all about going out to get what we want in this world, isn't it?
 

MagicConch

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Rich people get jealous when their ex g/f leave for a guy with different attractive qualities they don't possess. Grass seems greener on the other side always. Some rich people, especially at young age, can also feel somewhat isolated by their wealth. That's what a wealthy friend told me anyway.