My brother's marriage is in shambles...

[Rookie]

Originally posted by: Megatomic
Just be there for whatever he needs your help with. If he needs you for anything I'm sure you'll know.

Regarding the wife, it sounds like she found someone else. She's transforming herself into someone else for someone else.

Agreed... Very much so....

 

[biostud]

Sorry, to hear.
I know this isn't any help, but I found this comment extremely funny:

"changed styles of music (from pop to rock)"

 

[Injury]

AT can't help fix this situation. From the sounds of it, I don't think intense counselling can, either. But I will say that someone changing their lifestyle is not a bad thing and that there are probably more underlying issues that we (or you) don't know about. What I'm saying is that there isn't just one thing making this happen. There never is.

I suggest that even though you care for them, give them their space and don't violate their trust by telling secrets or making suggestions to either one behind the other's back. If they want to save their marraige, they are the only ones that can do it.

 

[jspeicher]

beer is always a good place to start.

 

[Geekbabe]

Stay out of it, most mariages end eventually anyways,just be glad for him that no kids are involved, encourage him to celebrate the fact thast soon he'll be tappin some young strange and he'll have most of his earnings and investments intact.

 

[ericb]

My first thought when I read about all of the changes was "affair". Is she is not changing for him then she is changing for someone else. I guess it could be a severe mid life crisis as she approaches 30 but those are a lot of drastic changes in a short amount of time and she's still well over a year away from 30. Not good either way for him.

 

[DurocShark]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Stay out of it, most mariages end eventually anyways,just be glad for him that no kids are involved, encourage him to celebrate the fact thast soon he'll be tappin some young strange and he'll have most of his earnings and investments intact.

:thumbsup:

 

[Hammer]

she's met someone else. mark my words. all those changes are her adapting to the other person.

 

[dquan97]

Originally posted by: Hammer
she's met someone else. mark my words. all those changes are her adapting to the other person.

likely possibility IMO

 

[Pacfanweb]

Originally posted by: erikiksaz
But most importantly, how do i help the poor guy.

Kill him now. Much less painful.

Edit: Because she's definitely riding someone else. He'll thank you in heaven later.