He was married a couple years ago to his girlfriend of over ten years. She's been like a sister to me, a person that I would go to if i needed advice or help with anything. She was always level-headed and apparently stable. Anyways, since they've been married, they've been running into huge problems.
She has been going through many changes in a very short amount of time. She wanted to buy a truck (coming from a fixed-up Honda Prelude), changed styles of music (from pop to rock), clothes, and got a boob job. This was in a period of less than a few months. She's a social worker, and from what I've heard, most of her coworkers are pretty trashy, so that might be from which she's deriving these influences. Plus, she deals with farked up families all day long, so i'm guessing that a good portion of that negative energy's taken home with her everyday.
Now, on his end, he's pretty stable. He hasn't gone through much change in the years past. He's always been very affectionate towards her, and loves to spend time with her.
But the problem is, before they were married, everything was fine. Several months into the marriage and everything turned to sh|t. Now they had an argument about her feeling as if he's holding her back from what she wants to do (which involves "bigger and better" things), so a divorce may be (or is) on the horizon.
In those few months when they purchased a house and things went crazy, WTF happened? Can you guys offer any explanation as to why things made a complete 180 turn? And could this be described as normal in any way?
But most importantly, how do i help the poor guy.
She has been going through many changes in a very short amount of time. She wanted to buy a truck (coming from a fixed-up Honda Prelude), changed styles of music (from pop to rock), clothes, and got a boob job. This was in a period of less than a few months. She's a social worker, and from what I've heard, most of her coworkers are pretty trashy, so that might be from which she's deriving these influences. Plus, she deals with farked up families all day long, so i'm guessing that a good portion of that negative energy's taken home with her everyday.
Now, on his end, he's pretty stable. He hasn't gone through much change in the years past. He's always been very affectionate towards her, and loves to spend time with her.
But the problem is, before they were married, everything was fine. Several months into the marriage and everything turned to sh|t. Now they had an argument about her feeling as if he's holding her back from what she wants to do (which involves "bigger and better" things), so a divorce may be (or is) on the horizon.
In those few months when they purchased a house and things went crazy, WTF happened? Can you guys offer any explanation as to why things made a complete 180 turn? And could this be described as normal in any way?
But most importantly, how do i help the poor guy.
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