My brother is moving back in

Cabages

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Well, im sitting here, watching some fvckin good Sopranos, when I hear something bangin around. Now, no ones supposed to be home until later tonight, so obviously I get off my ass and I go see who this is.

My long haired, irresponsible, somewhat transsexual "gay" brother is apparently moving back in. After being kicked out no less than six months ago, he again makes a stupid fvckin mistake and has NO money and gets kicked out of his place.

Apart from this idiot being incompetent with money, he seems to want to cross dress, which is the whole reason he was kicked out in the first place. He's such an asshole, every fvckin opportunity he gets, he likes to throw in my families face his beliefs, which we have constantly told him to keep to himself. This part I really dont get, as I also have different beliefs which I never force on them.

He might even be kicked out of college, wouldnt surprise me at all. The dumass decides to take some trip somewhere over some final, and fails a fvckin class.

Meanwhile, we all get to adjust to him moving back in. We have no idea where hes gonna park, where his room will be, or who the hell he is anymore. We havent even seen or heard from him in the past 6 months, and he comes crawling back. My parents gave him some time to get his finances together before kicking him out, and somehow he's wasted it.

I dont normally like to write about my life, but im pissed as hell. I came out from watching Sopranos and almost started bashing his head in.

Cliffs:
My brothers an asshole

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Cabages

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Originally posted by: Viper GTS
So you live at home too, right?

Viper GTS

Ya, I just graduated high school though, and I should be moving out in a few weeks.
 

Tiamat

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consider yourself lucky in that you can move away from him and try your hardest in college so you dont end up like him. Meanwhile, hopefully your parents can get the courage to kick him out. If they don't, they are just supporting his failures.
 

mooglekit

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Man, two suggestions of suicide in two unrelated threads in three days by two different posters...I'm all for free speech, but is that really necessary guys? :confused:

OP, hope everything works out for you...

Edit: and no, my sarcasm meter isn't busted ;)
 

tHa ShIzNiT

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No, I think suicide is in order here for the brother. That would greatly alleviate the OP's problems.
 

nakedfrog

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Do you just say he's gay because he likes to cross-dress?
Them kicking him out over cross-dressing is pretty lame, and isn't going to do much to help his mental state.
 

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Originally posted by: child of wonder
He must perform seppuku for your family's honor to be restored.

Or asphyxiate himself while.... ah nevermind...

 

Cabages

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Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Do you just say he's gay because he likes to cross-dress?
Them kicking him out over cross-dressing is pretty lame, and isn't going to do much to help his mental state.

Well, my parents caught him with a guy on the couch. I dont want to go into details.

Its not lame, they told him if he did, he couldnt live there. I dont really know if they kicked him out, it was just his choice to keep doing it. I dont know what will happen now.

Hes also really flamboyant. I know most gay people are, but its just really annoying. He says the grossest stuff, and even if you dont give a sh!t that hes gay, he will tell you about it.
 

nakedfrog

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Originally posted by: Cabages
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Do you just say he's gay because he likes to cross-dress?
Them kicking him out over cross-dressing is pretty lame, and isn't going to do much to help his mental state.

Well, my parents caught him with a guy on the couch. I dont want to go into details.

Its not lame, they told him if he did, he couldnt live there. I dont really know if they kicked him out, it was just his choice to keep doing it. I dont know what will happen now.

Hes also really flamboyant. I know most gay people are, but its just really annoying. He says the grossest stuff, and even if you dont give a sh!t that hes gay, he will tell you about it.

That's some great parenting right there.
And no, most gay people aren't flamboyant.
 

lupi

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Find a local extended stay motel, pay about 3 weeks or so for him there and never let him into the house.

Gives him some time to learn about real life or we have another Tommy2k thread in a couple years.
 

Cabages

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Originally posted by: nakedfrog
That's some great parenting right there.
And no, most gay people aren't flamboyant.

Are you being sarcastic? My meter seems broken.

And I would have to differ, every gay person ive met has been flamboyant.

Originally posted by: DarkThinker
Give him a skirt he can't refuse?

lol, dont make me throw up.
 
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Originally posted by: Cabages
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
That's some great parenting right there.
And no, most gay people aren't flamboyant.

Are you being sarcastic? My meter seems broken.

And I would have to differ, every gay person ive met has been flamboyant.

consider the possibility that you've seen just about nothing in this world.
 

PaNsyBoy8

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Originally posted by: Cabages
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
That's some great parenting right there.
And no, most gay people aren't flamboyant.

Are you being sarcastic? My meter seems broken.

And I would have to differ, every gay person ive met has been flamboyant.

Originally posted by: DarkThinker
Give him a skirt he can't refuse?

lol, dont make me throw up.


While your brother doesn't sound like the most responsible adult (i.e. failing out of school and losing his apt) but it doesn't like like he's a jerk or has done anythign wrong execpt for being gay. If that's enough for you to turn away from your own family, i feel worse for him than i do you.

 

glutenberg

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Originally posted by: Cabages
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
That's some great parenting right there.
And no, most gay people aren't flamboyant.

Are you being sarcastic? My meter seems broken.

And I would have to differ, every gay person ive met has been flamboyant.

Originally posted by: DarkThinker
Give him a skirt he can't refuse?

lol, dont make me throw up.

Ahh yes, the high school kid who has met most of the gay people in the world thus able to make such a great statistical anaylsis.
 

Cabages

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Originally posted by: PaNsyBoy8
Originally posted by: Cabages
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
That's some great parenting right there.
And no, most gay people aren't flamboyant.

Are you being sarcastic? My meter seems broken.

And I would have to differ, every gay person ive met has been flamboyant.

Originally posted by: DarkThinker
Give him a skirt he can't refuse?

lol, dont make me throw up.


While your brother doesn't sound like the most responsible adult (i.e. failing out of school and losing his apt) but it doesn't like like he's a jerk or has done anythign wrong execpt for being gay. If that's enough for you to turn away from your own family, i feel worse for him than i do you.

Did you even read my OP?

Originally posted by: glutenberg
Originally posted by: Cabages
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
That's some great parenting right there.
And no, most gay people aren't flamboyant.

Are you being sarcastic? My meter seems broken.

And I would have to differ, every gay person ive met has been flamboyant.

Originally posted by: DarkThinker
Give him a skirt he can't refuse?

lol, dont make me throw up.

Ahh yes, the high school kids who's met most of the gay people in the world to make such a great statistical anaylsis.

FFS people. Its not like your the supreme knowledge on gay people. It may be different around here, I dont know, it might have to do with the strong focus on religion here. Its not like I study the cultural differences between gays half way across the world. Would you like it if I changed it to say that most people around where I live, most of my brothers friends and my friends brother are all flamboyant?

A lot of people are flamboyant, its not always a bad thing, its just if you cant realize that some people find it distasteful in the way you dress or the way you talk, I would say thats bad. Him, all his friends, and all the gay people I have met cant hold a fvckin conversation without bringing up how they are gay, not that thats bad, but they go into all the little details about it. They cross dress, and for some reason want to make it evident that they are actually men, which kinda defeats the purpose of them cross dressing.

Originally posted by: Inspector Jihad
Originally posted by: Cabages
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
That's some great parenting right there.
And no, most gay people aren't flamboyant.

Are you being sarcastic? My meter seems broken.

And I would have to differ, every gay person ive met has been flamboyant.

consider the possibility that you've seen just about nothing in this world.

I could say the same to you. I could say it to everyone. Pretty worthless comment.
 

AnyMal

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Originally posted by: Cabages
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
That's some great parenting right there.
And no, most gay people aren't flamboyant.

Are you being sarcastic? My meter seems broken.

And I would have to differ, every gay person ive met has been flamboyant.

Originally posted by: DarkThinker
Give him a skirt he can't refuse?

lol, dont make me throw up.

He's not sarcastic. You have met a lot more gay people then you suspect, because majority of them are not flamboyant. Your brother's sexual preferences have nothing to do with his lack of "life skills" it's just a convenient excuse for him to use.