- Jun 19, 2000
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After he finished high school, he went to college like normal people. However he quit college after going for a month and had no motivation to look for a job.
So basically he stayed at home all day to sleep, eat, watch tv, internet. My mom kept pushing him to either go to school or find a job, but he does not listen and just tells her to STFU.
Then my mom asked me to help find him a job so I did. I got him a job as an office assistant. I talked to my boss who basically handed my brother the job because he wanted to do me a favor since he liked me. However things did not go so well. When he went to work, he would not comb his hair or brush his teeth and wore baggy high school kid clothes. Mind you this is an OFFICE environment where everyone dresses professionally. Of course I talked to him about it but he just ignored me. He was quite lazy at his job too. He barely did any work and just surfed the internet and kept eating snacks the whole day. Things that should have taken him an hour to do, took him like 2 or 3 days. After about 2 months, they wanted to fire him. I talked my boss into giving my brother another chance and he did. So I warned my brother that he better get his act together because this is your final shot. He has that "you can't tell me want to do attitude" so he did not listen. He still continued to be a lazy and not caring so eventuallly he got fired about a month ago. I did not even try to talk my boss out of it becuase I felt he was reasonable for giving my brother 4 EXTRA MONTHS to get his act together. So he is back at home again being a useless bum and not looking for a job or doing anything with his life.
He is also disrespectful and yells at my mom all the time for no reason. Like when my mom would bring him food while he is watching TV on the couch, he would yell at her to GTFO because he is not hungry. :| And he acts like he is entitled to everything. Since he can't afford to buy a car, he takes my mom's car, even when she needs it to get to work.
I think my brother is a lost cause. He is 22yrs old acts like a freaking loser. I told my mom to just kick him out but she doesn't want to do it because she is afraid he might retaliate.
So basically he stayed at home all day to sleep, eat, watch tv, internet. My mom kept pushing him to either go to school or find a job, but he does not listen and just tells her to STFU.
Then my mom asked me to help find him a job so I did. I got him a job as an office assistant. I talked to my boss who basically handed my brother the job because he wanted to do me a favor since he liked me. However things did not go so well. When he went to work, he would not comb his hair or brush his teeth and wore baggy high school kid clothes. Mind you this is an OFFICE environment where everyone dresses professionally. Of course I talked to him about it but he just ignored me. He was quite lazy at his job too. He barely did any work and just surfed the internet and kept eating snacks the whole day. Things that should have taken him an hour to do, took him like 2 or 3 days. After about 2 months, they wanted to fire him. I talked my boss into giving my brother another chance and he did. So I warned my brother that he better get his act together because this is your final shot. He has that "you can't tell me want to do attitude" so he did not listen. He still continued to be a lazy and not caring so eventuallly he got fired about a month ago. I did not even try to talk my boss out of it becuase I felt he was reasonable for giving my brother 4 EXTRA MONTHS to get his act together. So he is back at home again being a useless bum and not looking for a job or doing anything with his life.
He is also disrespectful and yells at my mom all the time for no reason. Like when my mom would bring him food while he is watching TV on the couch, he would yell at her to GTFO because he is not hungry. :| And he acts like he is entitled to everything. Since he can't afford to buy a car, he takes my mom's car, even when she needs it to get to work.
I think my brother is a lost cause. He is 22yrs old acts like a freaking loser. I told my mom to just kick him out but she doesn't want to do it because she is afraid he might retaliate.