Seriously though,
Its very generous of your friend to offer support to the Red Cross right now,
but,
even if he was sitting at home in his living room greeving like most of America,
that doesn't give anyone the right to make lame or otherwise threats to uninvolved people.
Tell your friend that some (wish I could say more) Americans are able to seperate our feelings of anger and hatred to those
that actually were involved in this horrible incident, and do not feel that any more innocent people should be tormented.