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CptFarlow

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Well, I can't say anything about a wife because I'm still young. But I do have experience. My mother. She had me when she was 36, which would make her....56, 57 in june. Well, it pretty much happened a few years ago, well, when it first started. I didnt realize it until about a year ago. It was like a revelation..."That's why she's been Queen Bi*ch for so long!" It didn't help that she already wore the pants in the family. My father was always going with what she said. "Your mother said to do this so do it.....or else you know how she'll be."

Suggestions: Just what a lot of other people said. Get busy. There is really no getting over it. There are hormone medicines or herbal relaxers I'm sure. Maybe give them a try. I sometimes laugh at what I have been yelled at for. Seems you are experiencing that already.

I wish you luck through these hard times.....
 

tweakmm

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Originally posted by: Otaking
Can't you tell her to be rational?
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dear god........oh man.......

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA


you were kidding right?
 

Grunt03

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Ok I survived yesterday and last night sort of. Yesterday was easy since I left home fo rwork around 5am and didn't get home until 5pm. It was when I got home that things started out fine but soon went bad. I was watching a movie with my children and asked her if she wanted to watch it with us.
From that point on I was getting it from the left and right. I was the one with an attitude problem and everything was my fault. I asked her if her doctor mentioned putting her on hormon pills?
Mistake big time!!!! If she had been a boxer, I would have been receiving uppercuts and jabs to the face.............
From that point on I just shut the door an dwalked away, for the remainder of the evening we didn't speak to one another at all.
Man I cannot figure this stuff out :confused:..........
This truely suck big time............:disgust:
 

SouthPaW1227

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dude your wife is on crack. that is not normal. circumstances or not, it doesn't remove the fact she's a human being with a brain and the ability to rationalize. tell her calmly that she's acting out of control and discuss how you could act to suit her needs so she knows you want to help.

sounds to me like she's taking FULL ADVANTAGE of this and acting like a flippin' lunatic. all else fails pull out the bitch slap
 

Gurck

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Mar 16, 2004
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Time machine, go back & prevent yourself from making The Mistake. Seriously, women are all insane and the innermost dream every last one of them has is to utterly ruin a man. Why would you marry one? :confused:
 

Grunt03

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I will have a discussion with her tonight and see what we can clear up. There is much more to the story than what I have posted thus far. I do understand that she is going through a very hard time right now and want to help her any way I can. If I must take an a$$ chewing daily then that is fine.

This I guess is my way of venting the anger and fustration I have about the entire situation.
 

Grunt03

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things are starting to get a bit better. We sat down and talked about things, she is trying really hard to control her temper, I know it's hard for her, perhaps I shouldn't have said anything to her?