davmat787
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- Nov 30, 2010
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There's a significant difference between a white person being racist against blacks and a black person being racist against whites, and that difference is our shared history. Whites have had power in this country since it was founded and blacks largely have not; even today, the leadership in this country is disproportionately white and racial minorities are disproportionately in poverty. Being a member of the race with all the power and looking down your nose at minorities is not the same as being the member of a minority and being pissed off at how the white people in power treat you. It's inherently different.
I think what happened to Paula Deen was an overreaction; she made mistakes and she apologized for them. But you can't compare the actions of a wealthy white woman using racial slurs in the antebellum south to a poor black kid in North Carolina who hated white people because they used those same slurs against him. It's nice to be in favor of equality, but arguing that all racism is the same is ignoring the centuries of inequality that preceded it.
So how long do we allow some groups a pass as described in your first sentence or two? When does it expire and adults of all races are expected to treat each other with respect? Or do we keep looking back in time for further justifications?
If I felt as you did, I would worry about the pendulum, and when it will start swinging back. Eventually, enough will see through the BS or finally hear n****** at an NBA game one too many times and snap. Black players say it all the time throughout the game, and the NBA won't even fine them $100.00. Sterling is ostracized of course.
Of course the situations are different, but as long as society expects people to conform to these inequities, real racism will simmer until perhaps it is too late and boil over again.
