Wow, how many guys have you dated in the last....say three months. It seems to me that each thread you create about this subject involves a different guy. If that's the case then you need to ask your self what the common denominator in these failed relationships is.......that would be you if you're having trouble figuring it out.
I'm not trying to be a smart ass, I'm just making an honest observation based on what facts you present.
Get yourself right before you try to get right with someone else.
BTW, the girl I'm with now, she and I had what you call "sexual relations" the first night we met. We did so because it felt right and we both are mature enough to know what we want and not pvssyfoot around it. This relationship has lasted three months so far and only seems to be getting stronger.....my point is, I don't know if it's a problem of "things moving too fast" with you necessarily, as much as it is you seem to like a bit of drama in your life.
