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Zysoclaplem

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Now I am having second thoughts. I think I ruined the possible relationship by allowing us to move so fast. It's only been a week though. But I am starting to feel like it's probably not gonna work. Should I just end it, or ignore those feelings and see where things go?
 

BrianH1

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its not going to work. you have to be mount kilamanjaro for at least a month. let your bed sheets cool down before you bring someone else in.
 

DougK62

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If you think it won't work then end it. If you think it has a chance then stick around. After just a week, it really is this simple.

 

notfred

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Well, I'd rather be in your situation than my current "haven't met anyone. at all. in a while." situation.
 

bobbybe01

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Yeah, it's a little bit vague as gigapet said...

But my #1 rule when it comes to dating, always go with your gut. Follow it. It always works without fail.
 

PimpJuice

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Now I am having second thoughts. I think I ruined the possible relationship by allowing us to move so fast. It's only been a week though. But I am starting to feel like it's probably not gonna work. Should I just end it, or ignore those feelings and see where things go?

make your own damn decision. You havent given enough information for anybody to help you out. The only advice I can give from the above is stop being a slut.

 

GasX

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Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: gigapet
vague post of the day.

Would you like details?

yeah what makes you think you ruined things........
The other guy didn't want to cuddle afterwards and he is feeling vulnerable and scared...
 

Ryan

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Originally posted by: PimpJuice
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Now I am having second thoughts. I think I ruined the possible relationship by allowing us to move so fast. It's only been a week though. But I am starting to feel like it's probably not gonna work. Should I just end it, or ignore those feelings and see where things go?

make your own damn decision. You havent given enough information for anybody to help you out. The only advice I can give from the above is stop being a slut.

:roll:
 

DainBramaged

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Originally posted by: PimpJuice
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Now I am having second thoughts. I think I ruined the possible relationship by allowing us to move so fast. It's only been a week though. But I am starting to feel like it's probably not gonna work. Should I just end it, or ignore those feelings and see where things go?

make your own damn decision. You havent given enough information for anybody to help you out. The only advice I can give from the above is stop being a slut.

I suspect you won't last too long around here.
 

Zysoclaplem

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Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: gigapet
vague post of the day.

Would you like details?

yeah what makes you think you ruined things........

Because it happened way too fast without us getting to know each other. I am finding out now that we don't have lots in common, but saying so is that much harder because we have had sexual relations.
 

Ryan

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: Ryan
Moved too fast...how?

We had sexual relations without really getting to know each other first.

If it's just the sex that's bothering you, don't let it. I did the same thing, and have been with my BF for over 6 months now. I felt the same way, but it didn't fsck anything up.
 

Zysoclaplem

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Originally posted by: PimpJuice
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Now I am having second thoughts. I think I ruined the possible relationship by allowing us to move so fast. It's only been a week though. But I am starting to feel like it's probably not gonna work. Should I just end it, or ignore those feelings and see where things go?

make your own damn decision. You havent given enough information for anybody to help you out. The only advice I can give from the above is stop being a slut.

I feel like a slut. I never intended to feel differently though.
 

Zysoclaplem

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Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: Ryan
Moved too fast...how?

We had sexual relations without really getting to know each other first.

If it's just the sex that's bothering you, don't let it. I did the same thing, and have been with my BF for over 6 months now. I felt the same way, but it didn't fsck anything up.

What do you mean? How did you feel?
 
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Wow, how many guys have you dated in the last....say three months. It seems to me that each thread you create about this subject involves a different guy. If that's the case then you need to ask your self what the common denominator in these failed relationships is.......that would be you if you're having trouble figuring it out.

I'm not trying to be a smart ass, I'm just making an honest observation based on what facts you present.

Get yourself right before you try to get right with someone else.

BTW, the girl I'm with now, she and I had what you call "sexual relations" the first night we met. We did so because it felt right and we both are mature enough to know what we want and not pvssyfoot around it. This relationship has lasted three months so far and only seems to be getting stronger.....my point is, I don't know if it's a problem of "things moving too fast" with you necessarily, as much as it is you seem to like a bit of drama in your life.
 

Accipiter22

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Now I am having second thoughts. I think I ruined the possible relationship by allowing us to move so fast. It's only been a week though. But I am starting to feel like it's probably not gonna work. Should I just end it, or ignore those feelings and see where things go?

Wow, I did the same thing last Monday....although honestly I doubt I'd ever see the girl as relationship material. I'm swearing off sex until I'm married now.